The Isolated Blurt Thread XXXVI: Go post in the Lounge!

[deehere]

If I was crossing The Border, I'd consider it, strongly!

Rainy's cool. Sounds like a match to me.

 

[Bookishleigh]

The stupid in that thread just grows stronger - must walk away before head implodes.

 

[deehere]

I know the Fifty Shades movies are trite and predictable. But, I watch with my hands down my pants, anyways.

Jamie Dornan? Hell yeah! So good in The Fall too.

 

[raindancer]

I loved The Fall! And Gillian, yummy!

 

[IrezumiKiss]

The stupid in that thread just grows stronger - must walk away before head implodes.

Sad thing is that this could apply to a multitude of threads here.

Which are usually made in the mornings.

 

[Noor]

Some day I would like to hear your voice. Let me know if you are up for that.

 

[gotsnowgotslush]

"A grande Unicorn Frappuccino has 59g (or ~15 teaspoons) of sugar."

"For a venti (24 ounces), you’re looking at 500 calories, and an alarming 76 grams of sugar. Even if you were to opt for the tall size (12 ounces), that’s still 280 calories and 39 grams of sugar."


"4.2 grams equals a teaspoon."

 

[hashtag46]

1.Different boards have different cultures. The GB is actually pretty adultery-unfriendly. Back when sex talk was more commonplace here, I saw many a cheating spouse surprised about getting attacked instead of being congratulated.

2.Who are the promiscuous men being promiscuous with, if not promiscuous women?

1.I noticed that trend.
I usually don't participate in the cheating spouses bashing,
Because, even if I don't agree with cheating, I see it as being none of my businness, plus one doesn't know what's going on in that marriage.

2.But as far as the "one night stands threads" are concerned, I feel that:
Even though it's -again- that person's businness what (s)he does, our Western society glamorises the topic too much.

Since when is it 'cool or 'naughty' to sleep with random strangers?
And the movie industry even created the glamorous stereotype of the independent, work- focused woman who prefers one night stands because she wants to avoid commitments or wants to forget pain.

 

[hashtag46]

I personally love when people brag on the GB and all the pearl-clutching and haterade that inevitably follows.

I miss GB PDA! Does anyone remember Corruptible and Image? Hah! We need such joy again. People whirlwinding through thread after thread, performatively exclaiming how much they long to fuck each other.

Maybe Fata and I can take up the cause.

What? My "cybercvking like a rabit" one person isn't joyous enough for your posh standards? Sheesh. I need to up my game. Not enough haterade.

For the record, what color is haterade? I want to make sure when it is thrown at me it doesn't clash with my outfit. Thanks in advance!

Mine was an attempt to shit-stir and a joke, you uptight morons.

 

[Bert Notorius]

image posted her picture
it was passed around
by the cool kids

and

they ultimately
drove her off.

so,
what has changed?

 

[Froya]

I know the Fifty Shades movies are trite and predictable. But, I watch with my hands down my pants, anyways.

I've only seen the first one, and it's a crap movie, but the sex scenes were shot quite effectively.

 

[girlsmiley]

How boozed enough are you to go for a Skrillex cut?

https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/originals/64/99/1a/64991a67889c2840535d1a07096eca80.jpg

Oh she's hot.

 

[girlsmiley]

I loved The Fall! And Gillian, yummy!

Gillian is smoking hot in The Fall.

But give me Bette AKA Jennifer Beals from the L Word ANY day over her.

Cheating, messed-up, cunt-wrecker. She's an all-rounder.

Apparently -to my ex girlfriends- I am just like her.

 

[Radiohead]

Gillian is smoking hot in The Fall.

But give me Bette AKA Jennifer Beals from the L Word ANY day over her.

Cheating, messed-up, cunt-wrecker. She's an all-rounder.

Apparently -to my ex girlfriends- I am just like her.

Oh come on.... SHANE

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[hashtag46]

It's not naughty, it's cool for some people. It became totally acceptable and no longer risky with the advent of birth control and it's correct use. How people choose to be, so long as it is with out tepurcussion and safe , is ALL cool

I don't try to shame individual posters who post threads about this way of life, like I didn't comment on that thread and many others from other forums.
If I did it once or twice in the past, it was defensive towards those who encouraged a certain someone who trolled me in a vicious way.

But that doesn't stop me from being nonPC and airing my general opinion that if it becomes a habit, I see it as a promiscuous sexual behavior.
Doing it a couple of times might be ok, because people are fallible and it isn't always easy to resist temptation. But not more than that.

If people choose that way of life, it's their and not my businness.
But at least they should be a tad more discrete and stop bragging about it with such pride and attempt to normalise it.

 

[OralDave]

Last autumn I bought a packet of cigarettes. I cannot remember when the last pack before that I bought was . I have smoked maybe half of them ( I haven't kept count). But I was having some confusing and stressful days and they helped me by taking my memory to a place when I was s different person and trying to think how I lived then and if I felt the same or not. Helped me make decisions based on emotion not just what was 'logical '. Anyway. I have carried them on me for all these months. I had one last about the time I travelled. I threw the rest away today.


Cigarettes can do that? Of course, I know what you mean. I like to "time travel." If that were possible, but who l was and what I was keeps changing through the lens of time. I know I'm rambling, that it's not the same thing exactly, but it's 5 am and I'm searching.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[hashtag46]

This would be fair in your space. And in the streets what people do in their privacy neither interests nor disgusts me . But THIS venue is one where sharing is not boasting not normalising in a culturally normal environment; this place IS Somewhere people are free to discuss sex. This includes aspects each one of us might find personally uninteresting, amusing or distasteful. I personally cannot get into the mind set of the hucow thing, but that there are threads on it does not have me feel it's normalised. It gives me opportunity to try and learn of to smile and say 'well , that's not for me!' And move on. Just because people talk about it here is not a reflection of how they might speak at work or around their children.

Is promiscuity it self bad? For you if you feel it is certainly! But for other than you it might not be, the point is, we must make our own lives that are a safe, healthy good fit for us and not bad for others. I cannot believe promiscuity is worse than someone who feels incapable of a settled relationship trying to do so and making them self and their partner miserable.

Well, that's why I don't comment on those "Fvcking 30 strangers is so cool!" threads.
And they don't bother me that much either; I just roll my eyes, shrug my shoulders and click on the next thread.

I posted this in the Blurt thread not because I wanted to shit stir (that came later, after I saw how strongly Fermina and Greypowerful reacted Lol).

But because I thought it was an interesting topic for discussion regarding values and attitudes. (Like you and WrongElement took it and reacted appropriately.)

 

[hashtag46]

To continue:

I think that baby boomers and Xers are or were far more 'liberal' sexually than millenials and previous generations.
Baby boomers started the sexual revolution with good intent. But just like the liberation through drug use movement, they pushed it too far. This trend too, shall end as seen by the fact that a lot of millenials are talking about valuing families and settling down.

 

[Parminderjeet]

An unatatched farting paki weighs in on how he never gets laid...shocking!

 

[hashtag46]

An unatatched farting paki weighs in on how he never gets laid...shocking!

Well, I'm not getting laid at the moment because I don't want to. But that will probably change in the future.
Not because I wouldn't have options if I were interested.

 

[Bookishleigh]

Someone has has their information incorrect as millennial's are actually opposed to settling down and having families. Most of them are bogged down by crippling student loan debt and and slow job growth therefore aren't rushing into starting families and are choosing to live with their parents longer and are delaying marriage and starting families. Someone needs to do some research and stop pulling information out of their ass or attempting to assign their own values on to a different group of individuals.

ETA - I just did a quick Google search on millennial's in marriage an entire page popped up about why millennial's are refusing to get married. I didn't bother to link any of them because you need to learn how to do your own research.

 

[hashtag46]

Someone has has their information incorrect as millennial's are actually opposed to settling down and having families. Most of them are bogged down by crippling student loan debt and and slow job growth therefore aren't rushing into starting families and are choosing to live with their parents longer and are delaying marriage and starting families. Someone needs to do some research and stop pulling information out of their ass or attempting to assign their own values on to a different group of individuals.

I didn't come up with this view.

Among others who hold that opinion, I listened to some podcasts by Neil Howe, and I also read his book "Millenials rising".