Dom or sub, does your job title match?

Bluespark

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Is who you are what you do or is who you are a secret and what you do is just what you show?

Post below Dom or sub and your job title.

I find labels to be limiting so I will defer self identifying but I am a Training Director.
 
Not at all.

A little submissive, or rather a submissive little/princess, vs Domestic Goddess
 
THat's an interesting question that seems more complex beneath than what appears to the naked eye. Also very interesting that you find labels limiting, but want us to label ourselves?

Only an observation. Like you, I find the labels unnecessary and even misleading. Because I don't wear one hat with all.

I had an interesting conversation with a dear friend recently, who said that people are often drawn to the careers that allow them to express their true selves. For instance, a dominant male might be drawn to a career with many opportunities for advancement and power (think high ranking military officer, or corporate exec), and will likely excel. A person who enjoys service to others might be drawn to the service industry to fulfill that need.

On the flip side, some are good at those positions, and then need the opposite in the bedroom as a form of release.

I am self employed, and always have been. I have problems with people in authoritative positions who don't know what they're doing telling me what to do. I am the sole manager of the house. I pay the bills and keep the cupboards stocked and the decks swabbed, as it were. But with the right man, it feels really good to let go.

Perhaps more in depth discussion than you were looking for, Bluespark! :):rose: Merry Christmas to you and yours :kiss:
 
Single mom, so no.

When I worked outside the home, it was always in customer service, or as a teacher's aide. I loved it. :)
 
Is who you are what you do or is who you are a secret and what you do is just what you show?

Post below Dom or sub and your job title.

I find labels to be limiting so I will defer self identifying but I am a Training Director.

Tree trimmer so I work with ropes and saddles Dom
 
Crude Oil Analyst

Very much DC in the workplace..

I'm not sure where I stand sexually anymore, to be honest. You have be at least my equal for me to even consider submitting to you. If you can't respect that I've thought you worthy enough to receive my submission, then you can kindly GTFO.

I'd classify myself more a primal/prey these days.
 
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