Sapiosexuals Come Chat About Whatever Floats Your Boat

[JohnnySavage]

All the cool kinds like to have a label.


Mine says, "Slippery when wet"

 

[rosco rathbone]

I need a fancy word for "I like to fuck females that are smart enough to talk to but not smarter than I am".

 

[JohnnySavage]

I need a fancy word for "I like to fuck females that are smart enough to talk to but not smarter than I am".

Unicorn

 

[haremfaery]

@IrezumiKiss
Stupid people need love, too, just not from me.

I'm on a dating site and men hit on me all the time who either never bothered to read my profile or they did and didn't get it. So yes, I use the sapio label to try and weed out people who won't be a good match.

And I've been messaged by plenty of people on Lit who clearly don't understand what the Lit part means, nor what the erotica part means.

Hence, I started this thread

@Hard_Rom
I enjoy history, although I haven't read many history books lately. Since I'm working on a novel, I'm trying to read authors with a voice that is similar to what I want to capture. That and watching lots of movies with native Irish speakers so that I can write the dialog in dialect.

I go down the Google/Wiki rabbit hole all the time when I research something. I start out with how to put on a great kilt and end up reading about codpieces.

@Lancecastor
Office management offers a steady income and better income, although I do have a few regular proofreading gigs.

It wasn't Nin who left the bad taste in my mouth, it was 50 Shades of Grey. You misread what I wrote.

A short conversation with someone who says they are sapiosexual will tell you if they are intelligent or not. Although saying you are turned on by intelligence doesn't mean you necessarily have to be intelligent yourself. However, every person I have met so far who identifies as sapiosexual has been intelligent.

@Aphroditiac
Since I'm not looking for a no-strings fuck, I require a partner that I can talk to before and after, and the next day, and after that. I'm picky and yes, I am too smart to fuck just anyone. I love academic types. We usually hit it off very well.

@Jamiegeo
*chuckle* That would be a sepiasexual. Although vintage porn is fun.

 

[Hard_Rom]

Dis site 'as an Oirish translator. Seems ter chucker de accent gran'. An' 'as slang words.

http://www.whoohoo.co.uk/irish-translator.asp

 

[haremfaery]

@Hard_Rom

Thanks, I'm not familiar with that site. I can see myself wasting lots of time doing "research"on it

 

[Lord Pmann]

This thread is great.

But I suggest finance or computer science as a major instead of English Literature. That way, you don't don't sit in a tiny apartment that's cold because there's no money to run the heat with your sapio man talking about sapio things and eating sapio food like quinoa, hummus and gelato.

 

[Hard_Rom]

This thread is great.

But I suggest finance or computer science as a major instead of English Literature. That way, you don't don't sit in a tiny apartment that's cold because there's no money to run the heat with your sapio man talking about sapio things and eating sapio food like quinoa, hummus and gelato.

The cold is healthier. And you will live longer eating quinoa and hummus than eating packaged foods and take-out due to frantic busy life.

And all those frantically busy urbanites who pay for gym memberships. Come talk to me. I will give you an all over workout that will also enhance your cardio AND PAY YOU 5$ an hour to do it.

 

[Lord Pmann]

The cold is healthier. And you will live longer eating quinoa and hummus than eating packaged foods and take-out due to frantic busy life.

And all those frantically busy urbanites who pay for gym memberships. Come talk to me. I will give you an all over workout that will also enhance your cardio AND PAY YOU 5$ an hour to do it.

Are you trying to fuck me and then pay me $5? My going rate is at least twice that.

 

[Hard_Rom]

You've dropped your prices rather significantly.

Smart thing to do in todays economy.

 

[Hard_Rom]

Are you trying to fuck me and then pay me $5? My going rate is at least twice that.

Ditch digging doesn't pay that much. I still have to make a living after you do my work for me. But essentially you are correct.

 

[mark_j]

I'm currently reading Seabiscuit. One of the best nonfiction/biography books I've ever read. I learned a few things about horses from it that will help me in my novel since the characters will be on horseback for some of their adventures.

The story of Seabiscuit proves a couple of things.. That given the right trainer and environment, paired with a jockey who understands the horse's performance character, an unremarkable horse can perform great things providing the conditions are right.

There's way more to horses than a lot of people think. They're not just "dumb animals".

I have tried and tried to read 50 Shades of Grey (I have never been able to get past page 23). There are so many things wrong with it, that the editor in me can't waste time on it unless I was getting paid to fix it. I had to reread Little Birds by Anais Nin to get the bad taste out of my mouth.

50 shades was a waste of time (both the book and the movie). Yes I understand the "mind fuck" involved but it didn't carry the book very well in my opinion..

I preferred Delta of Venus as opposed to Little Birds.

 

[cfuhrer]

oh god you really are that much of a pompous twat.

Nelson Muntz-esque "Ha Ha!"

 

[Sapiosexual367]

I don't see it so much as pretentious as much as an unreliable selection criterion.

There are all sort of different gifts and challenges when it comes to intelligence. Some of it translates well to the verbal realm, some of it doesn't. Ultimately, smart is in the ear of the beholder.

Then there's the problem that despite the objective fact that half of everyone you meet will be below the median for intelligence, the majority of people that you will ever meet consider themselves to be above-average in intelligence. To compound the problem, self perception of intelligence is inversely proportional to actual intelligence.

It's a larger problem for nerd-luvin' women than men. Men tend to overestimate their IQ by 25 points, women by 15 points.

You have a valid point. It isn't so much that someone with a high IQ is immediately attractive. It's more about having common interests and both people being able to speak intelligently on those subjects, even if they may disagree.

 

[Lancecastor]

You have a valid point. It isn't so much that someone with a high IQ is immediately attractive. It's more about having common interests and both people being able to speak intelligently on those subjects, even if they may disagree.

Are you a Stupiosexual?

 

[Saint Peter]

Are you a Stupiosexual?

No!

I like females.

 

[Lancecastor]

By the looks of things around here, I think we're the last two that do.

 

[LadyFunkenstein]

High IQ people don't participate in sapiosexual circle jerks. This is the domain of those at the upper end of average.

 

[neci]

Funny, I received the same response when I posted about being sapio sexual. I don't see what's pretentious about the term at all. How is it different than saying you like any other type of kink? Maybe because you had to look it up you are afraid you aren't smart enough to have a conversation with someone that identifies as sapiosexual. I enjoy talking to witty and intelligent women. It's a turn on when random conversation flows well and you make a cerebral connection. Simple as that. I'm smart enough to know that I don't know nearly enough.

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=700104&highlight=numbers

the numbers aren't helping you.

 

[neci]

High IQ people don't participate in sapiosexual circle jerks. This is the domain of those at the upper end of average.

welcome to the party!

 

[Lancecastor]

Mensa groupies.

 

[Conager]

Mensa groupies.

Anything less than‎ trois neuf strata is très passé.

 

[rosco rathbone]

High IQ people don't participate in sapiosexual circle jerks. This is the domain of those at the upper end of average.

"midwits" is the current slang