How do women measure cock size. This is not a naive or stupid question. Some women have been happy. Others have complained. As I am 6" I never know if I'm being told the truth or just humored. It affects me greatly, since it makes trust issues hard. Any advice?
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probably on how well you use it along with everything else that encompasses love making
if you are so focused on something you can't change then likely you are not focusing on what you should
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Love what you've got, pal. There are only two consequences of anxiety about size:
it'll diminish your confidence and sexual 'presence' to stir a woman's arousal;
it'll diminish your capacity to get stonker solid hard with a woman.
Enjoy, value, treasure what you've got. If you happen upon a woman who doesn't adore your equipment, say goodbye to her nicely and move on.
If you really are 6" you know that you are above average anyway. But length is of little consequence compared to girth, and girth - as others are saying here - is of little consequence compared with sexpertize - which will not develop in a man hung up about size!
it'll diminish your confidence and sexual 'presence' to stir a woman's arousal;
it'll diminish your capacity to get stonker solid hard with a woman.
Enjoy, value, treasure what you've got. If you happen upon a woman who doesn't adore your equipment, say goodbye to her nicely and move on.
If you really are 6" you know that you are above average anyway. But length is of little consequence compared to girth, and girth - as others are saying here - is of little consequence compared with sexpertize - which will not develop in a man hung up about size!
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I've had one lover with a very big cock and he was by far the worst lover I've been with. I've postulated that he just never thought he needed to try. "I've got this big fucking dick, I'm awesome at sex!" Nope.
My current lover and the one from my past I think of often and fondly have average size dicks. I haven't measured, and I doubt they have either. The sex with both was amazing in its entirety. It really is about confidence and practice. Learn how she loves oral, how she wants to be fingered, watch her masturbate, talk about sex, enjoy the foreplay and aftercare. Stop worrying about the size of your penis.
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Perfectly said.
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All but one of my partners have been average or the higher end of average, and I've never been curious enough to get a tape measure out. The one who was at the highest end, was the worst, and that lasted one date/encounter and we parted ways. Inches more than the norm' does not automatically a better fucker make.
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If a woman doesn't appreciate what you have, she's the one with the problem - move on.
I think that's a great size and more than enough to please.
There are size queens out there, so you just have to keep looking if you find one.
I think that's a great size and more than enough to please.
There are size queens out there, so you just have to keep looking if you find one.
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Forget about size think about what you do with it in conjunction with your mind
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That is what I would have said. It's a rare lover that knows that his oversized cock can actually cause a partner pain, and makes adjustments. If you're a true six inches, then you're square in the middle of the curve, and have nothing to worry about. Life is not porn.
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Seriously? You have trust issues because of your penis size?
There are a lot worse insecurities to be afraid of. Trust me.
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a 6 inch cock is more than enough to satisfy any girl... the size just does not matter.
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MissSweetTemptations
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Although I havnt slept with that many people in my lifetime with my experience the guys with bigger dicks don't fuck as well. It's like they think cos they have a big dick they don't need to put any effort in the bedroom.
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I know from the tip of my middle finger to the second "bracelet line" on my wrist is 6". Yes, I would compare his cock with "my six inches", especially if it was my first time giving him a hand job.
Unfortunately I have to agree with MissSweetT, big cocked men usually act as though they are bringing the "tool" so why would they need to kiss, perform any sort of foreplay, or last more then 10mins.
Learn how to perform oral, how to give massages, and how to swipe a credit card if you are worried about the size of your cock.
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Everybody is different. I think this may be a problem for people who casual sex rather than having long term relationships. If you are talking about a serious woman in your life, I would say you have nothing to worry about regardless of size. If you're just casually having sex, then it's a toss up of a bunch of different factors and not just your dick size. Either way, 6" is very solid in my book. Good luck!
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I had a boyfriend who had a beautiful 10' cock......but he wasn't a good lover at all.....got boring. Your size is fine, learn to make love to a women with your mouth, your hands and fingers, your penis, your words and she will fuck you with much passion 
LadyVer
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When I was younger, I used a tape measure. Now, I know what's more important. And it's really silly to be measuring cocks at my age.
Could make a good story idea, though.KayceeCharles
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As long as it's fully erect the actual size should not matter. There are ways to "compensate" for the size. Keeping the legs together is one way.
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If you've ever truly experienced/delivered a mindfuck, you know that it is absolutely inconsequential. A penis is just one (often fickle) tool in a man's workshop. Learn to use them all, and I bet you never find a woman walking away disappointed.
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I heard it's a scale from shit to holy shit to holy fucking shit to no way.
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