Control

[Farawyn]

It is fun to figure out what you like!

I realized along the way that control doesn't have to be over the top. Don't get me wrong - I love all that stuff: the equipment, rules, restraints, being marked, wearing a collar or cuffs.

That being said, sometimes it's the little things that reinforce control.

http://i.imgur.com/JXNLZLP.jpg

mmmm, as exciting as the prospect of it all is, baby steps over here. That pic is lovely

"Smiles" and that chimes with your post about it being the little things too, the look, the gentle steer, the overt selection of your outfit, your meal choice even ....

I agree the very obvious restraint or toys based control is fun ( for all, there are times when I wonder who controls who here ) but mixing and matching keeps the excitement and interest I think

Loves all this.

 

[ouchfeelsgood]

A bit of a predicament ...

http://66.media.tumblr.com/579a3573c61b15a856afe162c6576ae9/tumblr_nvgkkwwx2j1rzl2rmo1_1280.jpg

 

[cookiecat]

Like one Ex; who enjoyed stepping or standing on my toes in public. Not full weight, but enough to remind me who's on top.

ooh! i like it.

 

[cookiecat]

That moment when you realize play time has turned in to a lecture and you're made to confess your transgressions while in this position...

http://i.imgur.com/0Jd0Bdd.jpg

 

[cookiecat]

http://i.imgur.com/PFT02ye.gif

 

[skinnysinner]

http://i.imgur.com/PFT02ye.gif

Nice... anticipation and a good, obedient partner giving me her foot... Delicious!

 

[Brent106]

https://66.media.tumblr.com/d8f49d6c884b387820dc6135d02464c5/tumblr_ob21m9oXRp1so2d6xo1_500.gif

Awesome, so sexy!

 

[cookiecat]

http://i.imgur.com/bcQNubk.jpg

 

[ouchfeelsgood]

http://66.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lnme9uQwNt1qeyx9go1_500.jpg

 

[cookiecat]

http://66.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lnme9uQwNt1qeyx9go1_500.jpg

that whartenburg wheelie thing is a HARD LIMIT i tell you. HARD!! So is tickling. It's just toooo much. I got all squirmy and awkward just looking at that picture!!

 

[ouchfeelsgood]

that whartenburg wheelie thing is a HARD LIMIT i tell you. HARD!! So is tickling. It's just toooo much. I got all squirmy and awkward just looking at that picture!!

If could certainly made less ticklish by applying a little more pressure ...

 

[ouchfeelsgood]

http://66.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m2j3fqRh4i1qgnjaoo1_500.jpg

 

[cookiecat]

http://imgur.com/a9k1B5F

 

[cookiecat]

http://i.imgur.com/GxOvYst.gif

 

[rbijon]

http://i.imgur.com/GxOvYst.gif

Swat & rub....Good Girl

 

[MyNameIsNO]

http://i.imgur.com/GxOvYst.gif

Mmm oh my *day dreams*

 

[rbijon]

http://i.imgur.com/GxOvYst.gif

Is it the spanking or the rubbing?
Maybe later, the kissing.

 

[CherylLee83]

https://66.media.tumblr.com/d8f49d6c884b387820dc6135d02464c5/tumblr_ob21m9oXRp1so2d6xo1_500.gif

That's so HOT

 

[skinnysinner]

http://i.imgur.com/GxOvYst.gif

There's something about the simplicity of an over the knee spanking that cannot be beaten ... skin to skin contact is so erotic, especially this sort!

 

[ErectDesire]

Perhaps in another life

 

[Farawyn]

There's something about the simplicity of an over the knee spanking that cannot be beaten ... skin to skin contact is so erotic, especially this sort!

*smiles at "cannot be beaten..." *

 

[skinnysinner]

*smiles at "cannot be beaten..." *

Thanks my rubbish sense of humour does get me some bad looks usually!

 

[cookiecat]

http://imgur.com/ASuPt02

 

[ErectDesire]

Perhaps in another life

 

[skinnysinner]

http://imgur.com/ASuPt02

Oh my, cookie, that is just delicious, I want it as my screensaver