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You know, I've licked boots. Had a boot on the back of my neck as Ive been head down, ass up. And Ive had a boot kick me in the ass.

The boot on face freaks me out a bit. Germs!! But I like it too....

Germs, whatever. You're washable. :heart:
 
I was thinking about control and how sometimes, I need it to be really overt. In your face. Literally, I suppose, if you slap me. Or use a gag.

But often times, it's the little things that happen. Not even realizing the way you kiss me reinforces that sense of control.

http://i.imgur.com/kDhoSrN.gif
 
I was thinking about control and how sometimes, I need it to be really overt. In your face. Literally, I suppose, if you slap me. Or use a gag.

But often times, it's the little things that happen. Not even realizing the way you kiss me reinforces that sense of control.

http://i.imgur.com/kDhoSrN.gif

I can definitely understand there are times where someone would need an obvious, in your face (pun so intended) show that they are being controlled/doing the controlling.

Sometimes though, it's enjoyable to see one's willpower....instead of binding her hands up with cuffs, my belt, a scarf, panties....etc.....I'd tell a playmate to her arms together, as if they were bound. The strength in her willpower to follow a command such as that where she has to maintain the "illusion" (in a manner of speaking) while being pleasured and/or pleasuring....takes a strong mind. Sure there might be some faltering due to being lost in the moment.....but we're just human...having fun in a whole other way.

By the way, hope everyone is having a good weekend so far.
 
I can definitely understand there are times where someone would need an obvious, in your face (pun so intended) show that they are being controlled/doing the controlling.

Sometimes though, it's enjoyable to see one's willpower....instead of binding her hands up with cuffs, my belt, a scarf, panties....etc.....I'd tell a playmate to her arms together, as if they were bound. The strength in her willpower to follow a command such as that where she has to maintain the "illusion" (in a manner of speaking) while being pleasured and/or pleasuring....takes a strong mind. Sure there might be some faltering due to being lost in the moment.....but we're just human...having fun in a whole other way.

By the way, hope everyone is having a good weekend so far.

^^^ Yup, this.

For sure being restrained is great. That feeling you're going to make me do all the dirty things I secretly want to do but won't admit because I'm such a good girl... but but but now you have me tied up so I guess I'll just have to let you... that feeling is delicious.

But JA, you're so right. Having things done to me when I'm not restrained is a test of will. I'm generally pretty antsy and jittery so being told DO NOT MOVE messes with my head and heightens the sense of vulnerability.
 
^^^ Yup, this.

For sure being restrained is great. That feeling you're going to make me do all the dirty things I secretly want to do but won't admit because I'm such a good girl... but but but now you have me tied up so I guess I'll just have to let you... that feeling is delicious.

But JA, you're so right. Having things done to me when I'm not restrained is a test of will. I'm generally pretty antsy and jittery so being told DO NOT MOVE messes with my head and heightens the sense of vulnerability.

Bingo, bango, bongo!

It's one thing to restrain someone.....they know without a doubt that they can't do much (if anything) to stop you from doing whatever you please. But to do so without being physically restrained.....in essence being the restraint yourself......I'm sure that puts things to a whole new level of enjoyment, on both sides of the equation.
 
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