Confessions: What are yours? (part 3)

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ICT I find compliments and a certain amount of attention very awkward, which in turn makes me either turn the compliment around. Make it into a joke or tear myself down.

IACT I think I may have an issue with disassocation at times.
 
ICT I find compliments and a certain amount of attention very awkward, which in turn makes me either turn the compliment around. Make it into a joke or tear myself down.

I confess that I empathise with you, because I still sometimes do this too. I also confess that I am getting much better at accepting compliments over time though.
 
Ict I only came back to lit to investigate deleting my account but when I logged in I had a nice pm that's made me reconsider for a while
 
ICT I find compliments and a certain amount of attention very awkward, which in turn makes me either turn the compliment around. Make it into a joke or tear myself down.

IACT I think I may have an issue with disassocation at times.

You're not alone in the sentiment. I'm not sure why, but so many women today find genuine compliments to be very awkward for them.
 
ICT I'm a fool :(
IACT I let someone on Lit take advantage of me.
IACT It was partly my fault, as I let my urges and the fact that I was super horny cloud my judgement
IACT I thought that he liked me, but he only wanted to get off.
IACT He probably ignored most of what I had said, or had no interest. He just wanted to masturbate and make himself cum as quickly as possible
IACT I will never forgive him.
IACT he made me cry, and I hate him for that
IACT I must be naive.
IACT I don't know if I can ever come here again, because I'm so embarrassed for not knowing any better.
IFCT I hate myself for being so stupid :(
 
ICT I'm a fool :(
IACT I let someone on Lit take advantage of me.
IACT It was partly my fault, as I let my urges and the fact that I was super horny cloud my judgement
IACT I thought that he liked me, but he only wanted to get off.
IACT He probably ignored most of what I had said, or had no interest. He just wanted to masturbate and make himself cum as quickly as possible
IACT I will never forgive him.
IACT he made me cry, and I hate him for that
IACT I must be naive.
IACT I don't know if I can ever come here again, because I'm so embarrassed for not knowing any better.
IFCT I hate myself for being so stupid :(

It's happened to me too. I know how you feel, and im sorry! Don't give that person the satisfaction of running you off. If you need to leave for you, then do that. But if it's because of him, stay! Happy thoughts your way! :heart:
 
ICT I'm a fool :(
IACT I let someone on Lit take advantage of me.
IACT It was partly my fault, as I let my urges and the fact that I was super horny cloud my judgement
IACT I thought that he liked me, but he only wanted to get off.
IACT He probably ignored most of what I had said, or had no interest. He just wanted to masturbate and make himself cum as quickly as possible
IACT I will never forgive him.
IACT he made me cry, and I hate him for that
IACT I must be naive.
IACT I don't know if I can ever come here again, because I'm so embarrassed for not knowing any better.
IFCT I hate myself for being so stupid :(

ICT: You're not stupid... being horny clouds your brain. It's a proven fact. Don't beat yourself up. You're awesome :)
 
ICT: You're not stupid... being horny clouds your brain. It's a proven fact. Don't beat yourself up. You're awesome :)

Being horny does cloud your brain. And there's nothing wrong with wanting to feel wanted. Everyone wants that. I'm sorry you found a manipulative asshole, Misha.
 
It's happened to me too. I know how you feel, and im sorry! Don't give that person the satisfaction of running you off. If you need to leave for you, then do that. But if it's because of him, stay! Happy thoughts your way! :heart:

Exactly... Men are assholes. I have been at times. I fully admit it. BUT SB is right. Don't let that asshat run you off.
 
You're not alone in the sentiment. I'm not sure why, but so many women today find genuine compliments to be very awkward for them.

Self-deprecation at its finest.

And all for what? Rational brain knows one thing, emotional brain knows another.
 
Self-deprecationat it's finest.

And all for what? Rational brain knows one thing, emotional brain knows another.

Self deprecation and also, maybe, societal conditioning that woman often look at their flaws more than they should.
 
Ict i feel totally lost and i barely make it through each day only to end up wanting to just crawl in a hole and die. I truly feel that no one would notice.
 
Ict i feel totally lost and i barely make it through each day only to end up wanting to just crawl in a hole and die. I truly feel that no one would notice.

ICT I feel this way more days than not.

Just wanted to say that both of you guys have always been a pleasure to see posting. I come here for smart, funny, sexy and sensitive people, and from what I can tell you fit that description to a tee. We'd be poorer without you here.

Also - when you're down your mind fucks with you and takes away all perspective. I try and remember that half of what I'm feeling is purely chemical. That changes, and can be changed. You will be happy again, just gotta give yourself time.

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