Telling Wife You Take Viagra

[Ramone45]

I cant believe the stupid responses in this thread. The OP was honest and considered both sides and was thoughtful and he gets

Its not her responsability to turn you on.

You must be fucked up because all I gotta do is put on a tank top and in three seconds my husband wants to bone

And the best one....

You need counseling.

Are you people fucking high? Or just dumb.

many of these responses are as wrong as can be. Couples absolutely have to work on their sexual relationship. I want to be attractive to my wife. I work out very hard, and I've told her that I do that to be healthy and to be appealing to you, which is really the same thing. She is an elite endurance athlete and I find her physically to be just amazing. I got the Viagra because I wanted to function well for her. And I'm not really blaming her. I'm just saying that in order to have a healthy and mutually satisfying sexual relationship, both partners really do have to work at it.

 

[Pennyshub]

You better go back and see your doctor, you have a medical condition, or did you lie just to get some free samples. Viagra is not a horny pill it's to help get it up and stay up if you need it to please you and your wife because you feel something is missing then you need a shrink not a md

 

[Saint Peter]

If I asked him to fool around it would be more like 3 seconds.

You might suggest that he think about baseball.

 

[pensivepoet]

I have not told her, but I'm almost certain she knows because she has probably seen the bottle. I noticed I was having a harder time getting an erection when it was automatic in the past. I thought it was a possible result of a type of exercise activity that I do, age, stress, fatigue or any combination of those factors.

One truth that I have not addressed is the fact that my wife is neglecting the sexual aspect of our relationship. A common scenario is that I will come home from work, she'll be curled up on the couch in the jeans and T-shirt that she's worn all day, and she'll ask in a sleepy voice if I want to fool around.

I find her super-hot, and I let her know it. But she just doesn't put a lot of effort into her sex life. She does stuff to please me, but she puts no self motivated effort into it. I think there are things she could do that would reduce my reliance on Viagra. Certainly, I know there are things I can do also, such as getting more rest and not stressing so much.

For husbands taking Viagra, have you told your wives?

^^^^^
For the manbashing women, which part of that question addressed to husbands didn't you get?

 

[eyerami]

I'm just saying that in order to have a healthy and mutually satisfying sexual relationship, both partners really do have to work at it.

The harder you "have to work at it" simply shows how little natural love and honest respect there is in your marriage in the first place.

But, hey: go work out even more, take more Viagra, get all that eye-candy meaningless shit down and lust-appeal crap covered if your dumbass is convinced that's what a relationship depends upon...

'Cause, eventually, reality is still going to bite you in the actual ass - when Viagra no longer works, when the gym doesn't help, when the libido completely disappears - and you'll simply be left with what you've been trying so artificially all along to avoid addressing the obvious lack of now: the natural love and equal respect for each other two human beings meant to be married just as naturally share.

Then, you'll be made fully and remorsefully aware that you totally misled your bride about marriage when a "mutually satisfying sexual relationship" was all you were really looking for.

Dear eyer has spoken.

 

[Ramone45]

The harder you "have to work at it" simply shows how little natural love and honest respect there is in your marriage in the first place.

But, hey: go work out even more, take more Viagra, get all that eye-candy meaningless shit down and lust-appeal crap covered if your dumbass is convinced that's what a relationship depends upon...

'Cause, eventually, reality is still going to bite you in the actual ass - when Viagra no longer works, when the gym doesn't help, when the libido completely disappears - and you'll simply be left with what you've been trying so artificially all along to avoid addressing the obvious lack of now: the natural love and equal respect for each other two human beings meant to be married just as naturally share.

Then, you'll be made fully and remorsefully aware that you totally misled your bride about marriage when a "mutually satisfying sexual relationship" was all you were really looking for.

Dear eyer has spoken.

Sheesh. Are you saying that I didn't have to pass up all those Doritos and Busch 12 packs after work very day?

 

[yossi]

Probably in everyone's best interest to not drink a 12 pack of Busch.

 

[pensivepoet]

Probably in everyone's best interest to not drink a 12 pack of Busch.

^the men bashers are back.

 

[yossi]

http://67.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ljeiluo0Eb1qikdjao1_500.gif

 

[Killswitch1]

You better go back and see your doctor, you have a medical condition, or did you lie just to get some free samples. Viagra is not a horny pill it's to help get it up and stay up if you need it to please you and your wife because you feel something is missing then you need a shrink not a md

Another one. I think you women are fucked up.

Just sayin.

Must be easy to lay there like a fish and spread that stanky gash and expect someone to give a damn.

Probably need a truckload of viagara to fuck half the women in this place.

 

[Killswitch1]

^the men bashers are back.

Most of the men bashers in here haven't had a date in years and the married ones settled for the best they could get at the time and come here and try to brag about how wonderful their lives and sex lives are.

The manic depression in this place is so garden variety and obvious.

 

[pensivepoet]

Another one. I think you women are fucked up.

Just sayin.

Must be easy to lay there like a fish and spread that stanky gash and expect someone to give a damn.

Probably need a truckload of viagara to fuck half the women in this place.

~if things were all peaches n cream in the boodwa, think they'd be here?

 

[Debbie]

I cant believe the stupid responses in this thread. The OP was honest and considered both sides and was thoughtful and he gets

Its not her responsability to turn you on.

You must be fucked up because all I gotta do is put on a tank top and in three seconds my husband wants to bone

And the best one....

You need counseling.

Are you people fucking high? Or just dumb.

I wonder what his wife's side of the story is?

 

[hashtag45]

Websites of this sort (the blogs and forum) might also be of help:
https://www.ratemds.com

Also: http://m.ehealthforum.com/health/mens_sexual_health.html
http://www.healthboards.com/boards/sexual-health-men/

 

[Debbie]

Another one. I think you women are fucked up.

Just sayin.

Must be easy to lay there like a fish and spread that stanky gash and expect someone to give a damn.

Probably need a truckload of viagara to fuck half the women in this place.

Remember this post next time you want to sweet talk some of the ladies here.

 

[Wings]

Remember this post next time you want to sweet talk some of the ladies here.

This, among quite a few other things, explains why he never succeeds with his wooing.

 

[RoryN]

Another one. I think you women are fucked up.

Just sayin.

Must be easy to lay there like a fish and spread that stanky gash and expect someone to give a damn.

Probably need a truckload of viagara to fuck half the women in this place.

http://www.litscape.com/images/Aesop/The_Fox_and_the_Grapes.jpg

 

[Killswitch1]

Remember this post next time you want to sweet talk some of the ladies here.

This, among quite a few other things, explains why he never succeeds with his wooing.

I haven't woo'd anyone here in 7 years since I met the best girl on the planet. She must be the best to be able to put up with me but regardless. I don't woo.

Some harmless flirting or being complimentary now and then, sure.

Ergo: You can't have me.

 

[MichaelinChina]

My wife certainly knows when I have taken my little black pill. (not blue like your regular Viagra).

And she gets very excited about what's in store for us both.

(excellent post btw Debbie)

 

[hashtag45]

Way to blame your sexual inadequacies on your wife.

If I am home for more than 5 minutes I am in a t shirt or tank top. If we're both in the mood, one look at me is all it would take. If I asked him to fool around it would be more like 3 seconds.

That's because you must be Soo Hawt...
Mrs. Cocksure

 

[Debbie]

I haven't woo'd anyone here in 7 years since I met the best girl on the planet. She must be the best to be able to put up with me but regardless. I don't woo.

Some harmless flirting or being complimentary now and then, sure.

Ergo: You can't have me.

I'm glad you found each other.



I just wanted to point out next time you are being complimentary and are left wondering why some of the ladies here might not be flattered by your version of flirting or being paid compliments that they may be reading your posts and feel a bit yucky.

 

[Killswitch1]

I'm glad you found each other.



I just wanted to point out next time you are being complimentary and are left wondering why some of the ladies here might not be flattered by your version of flirting or being paid compliments that they may be reading your posts and feel a bit yucky.

Thank you.

I don't flirt for a response or for the recipient. I flirt to please myself.

I'm quite selfish really.

 

[Noor]

Is this street Viagra or from your doctor?

If it's from your doctor what is wrong with you that you need viagra, ED is not usually an isolated thing.

Most men find women in tshirts and jeans incredible sexy, is it that she has worn them all day?

Do you change your clothes when you get home from work?

Why don't you guys just talk about this with each other?

I like to take a shower when I come home from work unless we are going out and then I wash up and change if we are. I then take a shower when I get home.
During or after the shower is a great time for sex, although it might require another shower. I like my guys clean so a shower together is pretty sexy. I also oil or lotion my skin afterward, and that usually turns me on.

I would know if my guy were suddenly using viagra, but I can usually tell when they have eaten something different for lunch.

I don't particularly like guys using viagra unless there is a good medical reason, since it gives them headaches and they tend to get grumpy easier and that is not sexy.

 

[Noor]

Based on some of these posts, I sometimes I wonder if the only woman on this board who actively initiates sex with their partner. Wings excepted, of course.

Just to be clear, if I want sex and my lover arrives, they know it in no uncertain terms. If I am feeling lukewarm about it but willing to be convinced, they also know it.

 

[Noor]

many of these responses are as wrong as can be. Couples absolutely have to work on their sexual relationship. I want to be attractive to my wife. I work out very hard, and I've told her that I do that to be healthy and to be appealing to you, which is really the same thing. She is an elite endurance athlete and I find her physically to be just amazing. I got the Viagra because I wanted to function well for her. And I'm not really blaming her. I'm just saying that in order to have a healthy and mutually satisfying sexual relationship, both partners really do have to work at it.

Have you asked your wife what is attractive about you to her? I just ask because often what guys assume is attractive is not always what their wives find attractive.

Yes, I agree everyone has to work on their relationships, all aspects of it including sexual. Amazing sex is a lot more than just the physical aspect of it.