The Numi Sutra
that has a nice ring to it
Hello beautiful.
Oh, I don't wear a short skirt on a first ride.... *giggles*
I'm a bit concerned about the reaching back, though. We might both come off.
Fall off, I mean, fall off. Yes, that's definitely what I mean...
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Shoulders? I thought the traditional position was around the waist? *gazes innocently skywards*
(I actually can't wear a full-face helmet, I can't get past a weird claustrophobic panic at the point of my eyes going past the chin part. Makes me shudder just to think about it! Isn't that odd?
Just for you.
On different types of fucking
I started thinking about this after reading
this lovely perceptive and tender post of Simon's about his woman's emotionally exhausted return after a period apart. "Husband and wife sex for real", he says, and it inspired me to think further about the variety of sex there can be in a long-term monogamous relationship.
First, a couple which don't appeal:
Maintenance - When one person fucks simply to satisfy the other's desire, even though they don't really want to. Much better to defer, I think, and both enjoy it.
To 'get' something - What?! Isn't there a rather specific name for that sort of thing? I have absolutely no issue with uncoerced sex work in any way. But in a relationship? Noooo...
These I like though:
Sleepy - aka 'morning wood'. Waking to his hand gently caressing me, feeling his hardness at my back. Or, alternatively, snaking my arm over his hip and holding him in my hand, feeling him grow or feeling him already very much awake. And then the languid pleasure of relaxed, sleepy fucking. Sometimes it feels like a dream. And then it's a secret you carry around all day.
Inspired - by porn, by reading, by browsing, by Lit... By something you've seen that you want to try. By someone else's experience. By a picture, a comment, a description. Or just by something you saw, heard, read that turned you on.
Recovery - When you've been through some difficult thing together, a family thing, a financial thing, or a work thing maybe, and want the life-affirming boost of physical closeness and release. I love the way a good fuck in these circumstances can re-focus, help put whatever it was firmly in its place.
Comfort - Similar to the above, but when the difficulty has been for one of you only. To be able to bring comfort with your body to someone you love is a beautiful thing, or to be similarly comforted by the body of your lover.
Reclaiming - After a trip away together, whether for work or play, I love the first fuck back home. It reclaims normal life, resets, restores normality (in a good way). If I've been separated from my man I like to be reclaimed too... This one also applies following the departure of house guests - at last, let the unfettered naked debauchery resume...
'Been a while' - When circumstances conspire for more days than you'd like, work, illness, too much real life, whatever. This can go one of two ways - utterly vanilla, but hugely satisfying for it, or a naughtier, lustier catch-up...
Quickie - sudden lusty urge, not really about bonding or long mutual satisfaction, just quick, hopefully dirty, rapid, possibly frantic coupling.
Planned - it can be the timing which is planned, or the location, or the specific activities themselves. But it gives a lovely sense of anticipation.
Hotel - Opening the door, seeing the room. Maybe some interesting furniture, a desk, a chair... The knowledge that the person in the next room can hear you and not caring, actually enjoying that. Maybe walking a little too close to the window on purpose in insufficiently respectable clothing. Haven't quite ever fucked in full view in the window of a hotel room, but it's tempting, very tempting...
'Clean sheets!' - Closely connected to the 'hotel' fuck. Lovely crisp, fragrant sheets on your own familiar bed. Be a shame not to rumple them...
But maybe the one I like the best is this one:
Regular - Just feeling like enjoying the giving and receiving of pleasure, the bonding and the closeness, the desire and its fulfillment. And the glorious release of an orgasm. Or several. A simple celebration of being together and enjoying one another's bodies, the learning of which began way back, and the exploration of which continues to delight.
Did I miss anything?
What's a CBR? And why don't you ride it anymore? It is broken?
) on the first post in this thread, if you're interested, save you wading through other conversations...
I thought a beanie was just a hat? Are helmets not compulsory where you are?
Hold your waist. Yep. To start with... *evil grin*
There's a link to my picture index and the 'ramblings' index (the so-called 'Numi Sutra'
Have to go and dress and on for dinner now (yes, early I know, but we're expected at 5:30!).
Catch up with you lovely gentlemen later...
Numi
As you know there was a while recently when I was hardly on Lit. And I missed your post 'on different types of fucking'. I like it very much. Perhaps I'll come back with some related suggestions. But for now, to thank you, dearly, for your introduction to the piece quoting a post of mine and speaking so warmly of it. That was so lovely of you and I like it very much indeed.
I hope primarily that the things which gave you cause to be away are less troubling now for your good woman and for you. Your care for others does you both so much credit. Thought of another one since, the 'celebration' fuck, when something lovely happens, and you find yourselves lustily celebrating in bed. Or on the sofa. Or the dining table. Or ... well I could go on, but you get the idea!
My bike?
Went out for a short ride yesterday, just 25 miles, but very pleasant in the sunshine. Must be frustrating not to be able to get out - how much longer is your curfew?
Thought we might eat lunch outside at the pub, but it was just slightly too chilly for it. We did sit outside at home later when our friends came for dinner, just for an aperitif, and to watch the sun go behind the hill. Very nice! First time this year...
Or did you mean pkinginva's bike?
I wore a 3/4, then, when I rode a scooter briefly, a little Piaggio thing. Quite cool, very red, bit scary if I'm completely honest! The roads round my neck of the woods are much enjoyed by motorbikers, they are curvy and fast, but awfully dangerous at speed
Crotch rocket?
So, um, do you want me to warn you when I'm going to shift?
