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[Jamicurechickie]

Last time I had sex......good one!

Yeah....wtf is that again???

Last time I had it, I think Christ was a child....

 

[SMNaughtywife]

My mind was out for a stroll last night, here, there and everywhere.
I let it wander, bring a smile to my lips, a blush to my cheeks. I hate it when reality barges in, making it scatter like fairy dust.
Bad thing, nah. Just gotta keep it all in perspective.

 

[Endless_Night]

< The last time you had sex, were you completely lost in the moment with your partner or did your mind wander? Perhaps thinking of another, perhaps a Lit friend? How often does your mind wander? And is that a bad thing? >

What a question!

If we're talking just thinking of other people, well, occasionally. If you mean just general fantasy I'll have to plead guilty of...a lot. There have always been kinky desires that...ummm...heightened my arousal levels. Desires that I've only recently become comfortable sharing outside the confines of my mind. So........yeah, I'm going to have to stick with my first answer - A lot!

A bad thing? One could assume a partner wouldn't be exactly thrilled.... Sill, I think most do it to some extent, so it probably depends on the circumstance.

 

[Suz_anne]

Sheesh, 30hrs without a post, no clamoring for a question. I think the ol thread has lost its snap! Time to shake the tree a little and see what nuts fall to the ground

So a quick fire sex related one, as it was suggested they are more favorable than Lit related questions.

The last time you had sex, were you completely lost in the moment with your partner or did your mind wander? Perhaps thinking of another, perhaps a Lit friend? How often does your mind wander? And is that a bad thing?

The last time, my mind was all over the place (it often is). There may have been someone other than my husband on my mind.

The good thing is, I can tell my hubby about it. A threesome with another man is one of my fantasies and just talking about it really gets me going. So if I'm having thoughts about someone else, we will often end up incorporating that into our play. Same thing goes for him - I can't tell you how many times I've described sucking a friend's wife's tits while he fucks me from behind. It gets him every time.

So I don't think it is a bad thing at all. But I am also aware that I'm lucky that there's not a lot of jealousy and it allows us to enjoy that kind of thing.
I think he's a keeper.

 

[Endless_Night]

< I think he's a keeper. >

A keeper indeed.

* * *

And, on the Pmann front, in case I was rude about his lobster pants and belt and...whatever the third thing he had that was lobster.

I shared an elevator with a stylishly turned out man today wearing a fish belt and embroidered fish pants! He gave me a funny look and I realized I was staring. At a region...well, that it might be a little confusing as to exactly what I was staring at.

I blushed. And I devoutly hope I never see him again. Awkward!

But it seem that creatures from the sea are "in" as far as men's fashion goes.

 

[TheSilverLining]

I vaguely remember having sex.
Once upon a time.

 

[Lord Pmann]

You girls can say it. You're thinking about Papa Chained and me together. No doubt.

 

[Lord Pmann]

A keeper indeed.

* * *

And, on the Pmann front, in case I was rude about his lobster pants and belt and...whatever the third thing he had that was lobster.

I shared an elevator with a stylishly turned out man today wearing a fish belt and embroidered fish pants! He gave me a funny look and I realized I was staring. At a region...well, that it might be a little confusing as to exactly what I was staring at.

I blushed. And I devoutly hope I never see him again. Awkward!

But it seem that creatures from the sea are "in" as far as men's fashion goes.

For the record, I've been wearing embroidered sea creatures on my pants for years. I brought lobster pants to Milan, muthafuckas.

 

[ears1980]

The last time you had sex, were you completely lost in the moment with your partner or did your mind wander? Perhaps thinking of another, perhaps a Lit friend? How often does your mind wander? And is that a bad thing?

IIRC (and, like others, it's been awhile!) I was lost in the moment. We were away on holiday, and sex in a new/strange place is always a turn-on for me - I was *very* into it!

 

[pfflyerhot]

Completely lost? I'd say I was totally... totally focused, like a kid let loose in a candy store.

 

[ChainedUp]

Monday and everything feels right. Nothing worse than that dread feeling on a Monday morning.

What was the last thing you dreaded? Was it actually as bad as you had envisioned? On the flip side, how often are you jumping out of your skin with anticipation? Is it ever as good as you had hoped?

 

[Endless_Night]

The last thing I dreaded was a minor surgical procedure. Not a huge needle fan.

The last thing I was jumping out of my skin with anticipation about something it was sex related.

 

[Lord Pmann]

The last thing I dreaded was getting a shot in my eye. I don't really care about shots. They don't freak me out. But a shot in my eye? Holy shit. I'd rather fight a clan of scorpions with my dick.

In reality, it didn't hurt that bad. I mean, it didn't feel fantastic. But it wasn't the worst thing on earth. By far the scariest thing I've ever done. But not the most painful. That would've been the time I was forced to sit through an entire episode of Big Bang Theory. That was horrific.

My most excitable moments lately have come from the purchase of a few instruments. I'm always so excited waiting for them. Every time I have to wait for it to arrive from Nashville or wherever I order it. I am always like a kid at Christmas. It probably sounds silly, but I do truly enjoy getting new stuff.

 

[Suz_anne]

You girls can say it. You're thinking about Papa Chained and me together. No doubt.

YES! I admit it. Sperm whale pants meet argyle socks = panties melting.

 

[Suz_anne]

The last thing I dreaded was a medical procedure where I had to be put under anesthesia and lie flat for 8 hours after the procedure was done. It was almost as bad as I envisioned.

I adore that stomach flippy anticipation. It doesn't seem to happen as often as it used to, but I savor it when it does. It's not always as good as the anticipation, but I'm okay with that. When it exceeds the anticipated awesomeness - that's enough to keep me grinning for days/weeks.

 

[Endless_Night]

The last thing I dreaded was getting a shot in my eye.

That just makes my whole body clench in horror.

YES! I admit it. Sperm whale pants meet argyle socks = panties melting.

How odd, it has an entirely different affect on my panties.

 

[Mindfondler]

What was the last thing you dreaded? Was it actually as bad as you had envisioned?

This one's very topical for me!

The answer is: my first-ever marathon that I've just completed after months of intensive training and preparation. Over the last few miles, it was every bit as bad as I had envisioned, but no worse than I had expected -- so I was able to get through it.

On the flip side, how often are you jumping out of your skin with anticipation? Is it ever as good as you had hoped?

I'm quite often caught up in positive anticipation -- indeed, I tend to live for it. Sometimes it can be a let-down, but more often the reality fits the billing or exceeds it.

The flipside of my previous reply applies here. For many months, I've been full of anticipation about how it might feel for me to cross the finishing line in a marathon for the first time. It's been tempered with my feelings of dread and my fear of not succeeding, but now that I'm there, the feeling is every bit as sweet as I had hoped. I'm on Cloud Nine, and loving it.
.

 

[Lord Pmann]

I adore that stomach flippy anticipation.

This is called the "Waiting for Pmann to PM syndrome". The effects are devastating. Sadness all around.

 

[Mayberrygirl]

There is nothing quite like anticipation!!! So sweet when expectations are met...so sad when disappointment reigns...but...such is life.. Grin and Bare it!

 

[ChainedUp]

To see a World in a Grain of Sand
And a Heaven in a Wild Flower,
Hold Infinity in the palm of your hand
And Eternity in an hour.

-William Blake

A perfect stanza for a perfect day. Go make it happen.

 

[Suz_anne]

That is lovely.

And if I'm interpreting the subtext accurately, today's question is about anal sex - correct?

 

[Endless_Night]

Now here I've been - impatiently tapping my foot for the last two hours - waiting for the question. THE QUESTION!!!

And this^...might actually be better.

Nice.

 

[Endless_Night]

That is lovely.

And if I'm reading the subtext correctly, today's question is about anal sex - correct?

ROFL! Okay. Clearly, this will be the perfect day.

"All things to all people."

*I'd attribute but I have no idea where that comes from.

 

[ChainedUp]

That is lovely.

And if I'm interpreting the subtext accurately, today's question is about anal sex - correct?

Incredible insight

 

[Lord Pmann]

That is lovely.

And if I'm interpreting the subtext accurately, today's question is about anal sex - correct?

Deep.