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Hypothetical question. If your partner cheated and used her vibrator while being denied orgasm, what would the punishment be? She is wracked by feelings of guilt and shame, but is afraid to tell him because she needs this more than he could know.

What should my friend do?
 
Hypothetical question. If your partner cheated and used her vibrator while being denied orgasm, what would the punishment be? She is wracked by feelings of guilt and shame, but is afraid to tell him because she needs this more than he could know.

There would be no orgasm denial and we don't have a punishment dynamic so there wouldn't be this mess or need for punishment.

What should my friend do?

Have an honest conversation and explain that the current setup doesn't work for her.
 
Punishments are communicated between each couple. While they are punishments, they still need to be consented to!
 
Hypothetical question. If your partner cheated and used her vibrator while being denied orgasm, what would the punishment be? She is wracked by feelings of guilt and shame, but is afraid to tell him because she needs this more than he could know.

What should my friend do?

Is it a true relationship without honesty?

She needs to tell him

It will make them closer

No Dominant looks for perfection, it is the journey and the lessons that hold the interest
 
Punishments are communicated between each couple. While they are punishments, they still need to be consented to!

This has been my experience and I can say it works!

When it comes down to it I'm usually the sub in my marriage. But on the rare occasions I get to dole out punishment it's because I communicated what's going to happen in advance.
 
If I used my vibrator without permission I know my Master would be very disappointed in me. However he would be further disappointed if I was dishonest about it. Owning up to mistakes like this takes courage and is the right thing to do in my opinion. So I say tell him
 
Your "friend" should tell her PYL. Even worse than disobeying is hiding, I believe. If I disobey instructions, I have to tell him as soon as I can. I feel so guilty. We don't have a punishment dynamic, but potentially disappointing him causes me to feel quite low.
 
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