Accidentally Meeting a Lit User in RL

[MmmMadam]

This week I accidentally ran into a Lit user I had talked to some time ago. I instantly recognised him and, for all of his staring, I'm sure he recognised me. It definitely got me thinking about whether the scenario was different, whether we would have acted differently.

I would love to know if any other users have had this happen, how it played out and whether they'd have wanted it to have gone differently?

 

[atariblue]

Hasn't happened yet, but there is a Lit user who discovered we live close by each other through a Lit user roll call thread. So it could turn into an actuality.

 

[NC_OBX80]

Love this thread idea!!

It's something I've thought about too. I don't believe I have met or seen a lit friend IRL but I've always wondered how a chance encounter would proceed too.

Planned meeting obviously very different, lol

Did you end up interacting madam?

 

[vibes]

Accidentally? Yeah right

 

[de_Lioncourt]

Accidentally? Yeah right

Haha.

 

[WebTraveller]

Not a Lit user but one time a LONG time ago, I was in an online chat room and was private chatting with a woman because she had mentioned she was from the same area as me. After an hour of feeling each other out and treading lightly, we finally realized that we knew each other. It was very awkward at first but then became pretty fun.

 

[Trouble_maker]

Yes, an HR rep at my place of employment recognized me. She was cool about it.

 

[darkheels]

I knew someone IRL who introduced me to lit. She doesn't log in anymore though.

 

[ADIDAS00]

I can't say that I've met anyone from lit but I've always wondered if I've ever met anyone on lit and not known they had an account. I think it would be exciting and a bit awkward at the same time if I ever did meet anyone.

 

[CeasarBoobage]

I recently(ish) found out that a few people I know have Lit accounts. I made a point of not sharing account names. It would have been too awkward, lol.

 

[midwestyankee]

I've met a couple dozen Litsters over the years, but as far as I know, they've all been intentional meetings.

 

[Trimjob69]

I recently(ish) found out that a few people I know have Lit accounts. I made a point of not sharing account names. It would have been too awkward, lol.

I can understand that.

 

[SweetLittleFox]

I've always wondered if I unknowingly met another Litster, as well. I've seen that a few of them live in my general area and I'm sure there are many more, and I work at a popular store so I could imagine that it's highly possible one or two may have come by.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Yes, an HR rep at my place of employment recognized me. She was cool about it.

Wow. That had the potential to be messy!!

 

[neakman1]

When I was on here before

I had a couple of women that were very, very insistent that we meet up in RL, but that is not my thing, otherwise I would just go to the local and indulge. Staying in the shadows is more fun in some ways.

 

[russko]

met and was with someone who was (was) very active on Lit

met her after she had quit Lit though ~ and now we've drifted apart due to life.

 

[SquidProQuo]

This hasn't happened to me yet, but I wonder how I would react or if I would say anything. For people that I've shown my picture to, I am curious if they would even remember and recognize me.

 

[spellslave]

I've got a few vague plans to meet people from Fetlife so, presumably the same would apply to this site if I ever got on with someone well enough.

 

[MrEd63]

I've only knowingly met one Lit user and we have been together for over 4 years

 

[EnglishChap6687]

I've seen somebody post pictures of herself on here, which looks REALLY like somebody I know but haven't seen for a while. I haven't approached her on here to ask if it's her though, just in case!!

 

[MmmMadam]

Love this thread idea!!

It's something I've thought about too. I don't believe I have met or seen a lit friend IRL but I've always wondered how a chance encounter would proceed too.

Planned meeting obviously very different, lol

Did you end up interacting madam?

We didn't but for the last couple of days I haven't been able to stop wondering about it. He was with (who I assumed was) his wife who wasn't too happy at the time at his disinterest in whatever was going on with them. It was a messy situation best left alone. Had this have been a different time in my life, I'd have been all over that. In fact, all of my current fantasies are all over that! Older guy, crisp shirt and piercing blue eyes, my fantasies just can't get enough.

I often wonder how many people I know are on Lit but it just goes to show it's a small world...and there's a lot of Lit users.

I've seen somebody post pictures of herself on here, which looks REALLY like somebody I know but haven't seen for a while. I haven't approached her on here to ask if it's her though, just in case!!

Put the feelers out! You never know how that scenario might work out for you

 

[StrongMaster7]

I wrote about a story about this very thing! Maybe you'd enjoy reading it.


I have often fantasized about meeting one of my favorite porn stars, a stripper I have seen, or one of the ladies who posted pics on an amateur porn website I used to belong to. I imagine walking past them and discretely whispering, "I'm a big fan." If, in my fantasy, I am alone traveling in another city, I imagine striking up a conversation and finding out what their life is like. Honestly, it's almost science fiction for me to think about having sex with a porn star or stripper as the risk of STD seems pretty high. But it is exciting to think about.

I don't see how I would ever know that a lady was "from Lit" as I don't know any faces of the ladies.

 

[coacheric]

There are a few Lit members that live in my general area. A few also have some same interests that there is a good chance that we may have crossed paths at some point. Having had my face posted here before, they might know me in passing but I have no ides what they look like so wouldn't know it if it happened.

 

[Learin]

I've made a few Litsters, but none of my meets were "unintentional".

An old friend recognized me by my username. She was unsure so she sent a PM. Later, we met at an old food joint where we used to hang out together.

That's just the size of my experience.

 

[screwher]

sure

Hmm because I've been quite liberal on here about my desire for other men to start screwing my wife I definitely want to keep this apart for my social circles and place of employment. I 'm pretty sure nobody here, that i communicate with regularly at least, falls into any of these. So bring it on.