Men and Women's Different Meaning of Sex

[SexualAdventurer]

I know that there are exceptions to this on both sides of the gender aisle, but why do men and women have such differing definitions and meaning behind the concept of sex. Men for the most part can nuture and make love to their significant others, but at times just like to have hardcore animalistic sex with whatever twists and spins that they may desire on it. Women, for the most part can only associate sex with love and emotion not desire and lust. Just a male wondering why there is such a difference between the genders.

 

[screwher]

I know that there are exceptions to this on both sides of the gender aisle, but why do men and women have such differing definitions and meaning behind the concept of sex. Men for the most part can nuture and make love to their significant others, but at times just like to have hardcore animalistic sex with whatever twists and spins that they may desire on it. Women, for the most part can only associate sex with love and emotion not desire and lust. Just a male wondering why there is such a difference between the genders.

It's been my experience with my wife that what youre saying here rings true. Except in the situation where we haven't been able to have sex in awhile. By then she's super horny and ready for the "hardcore animalistic sex" and just wants me to screw her brains out.

 

[lydia_kitty]

I actually have the opposite problem where it's basically just a way to get off for him and I'm wanting more fire & passion... which is a byproduct of both romantic and animalistic sex...

 

[legally_non_blonde]

We like raw passionate intense animalistic sex just as much as men...
It really depends on the mood and moment. Sometimes soft sensual love making is what we want and I am sure so do most men

 

[SexualAdventurer]

We like raw passionate intense animalistic sex just as much as men...
It really depends on the mood and moment. Sometimes soft sensual love making is what we want and I am sure so do most men

Yes, I agree there are definitely times when men like the slow unhurried pleasure of making love. My only point is that for the most part men are more wanting and desiring of the hardcore animalistic sex than women are.

 

[Messier82]

Women, for the most part can only associate sex with love and emotion not desire and lust.

I disagree. I've known more than a few women in my time who's attitude is 'get some and get gone', and a number of others who, while they can sometimes think 'love and emotion' tend to more often be as masculine in their attitude to sex as any guy I know.

 

[stickygirl]

I think it's a social change - plenty of my college girl friends would go out for a quick fuck and think nothing of it. Women maybe don't brag about like men though

 

[spellslave]

Thankfully both me and my Master have the same attitude to sex; we can swing between romantic love-making to 'as hard as you can, right here, right now'. Sure, my drive is a lot higher than his but, I deal.