Coming - when did it ever get so complicated?

[tomlitilia]

Some interesting points here:
http://nymag.com/thecut/2015/07/complicated-politics-of-where-to-come.html

 

[Laurel]

Very cool article!

And this tweet by the author made me chuckle:
https://twitter.com/maureenoco/status/620999266568400896

 

[49greg]

Very interesting.

My first wife hated cum, and didn't want it anywhere. She tried to out dare me once and told me I could cum on her tits if I would lick it off, she was soooo pissed that I did.

All in all it was a relief when she told me she found someone else and was leaving. (Not because of the cum, but lots and lots of other reasons.) All in all it was a good divorce, made both of us happy. Until she raided the savings and took it all instead of just half.

 

[Handley_Page]

Very interesting.

My first wife hated cum, and didn't want it anywhere. She tried to out dare me once and told me I could cum on her tits if I would lick it off, she was soooo pissed that I did.

All in all it was a relief when she told me she found someone else and was leaving. (Not because of the cum, but lots and lots of other reasons.) All in all it was a good divorce, made both of us happy. Until she raided the savings and took it all instead of just half.

There's a plot bunny there, I reckon!
(My Ex took me for 12 grand. I reckon it was worth it.)

 

[lovecraft68]

Good article and I like to think that in this era where women are getting more and more into erotica, both written and in video form that the facial especially is not seen as a man "marking what's his" but a fun dirty experience for both.

But it all varies on knowing your partner and wanting to make them happy.

My wife has no issues with money shots, she gets a thrill out of them....but in certain situations will pretend she doesn't like them

 

[49greg]

There's a plot bunny there, I reckon!
(My Ex took me for 12 grand. I reckon it was worth it.)

You can have that bunny.

Mine took me for a lot as well. She did bankruptcy after the divorce was final. I found out that I was responsible for a couple of credit cards she had taken out while we were married, even though I didn't know about them at the time.

Community property sucks in that situation. For more than a year I was totally clueless that she had a lover and that she had been buying stuff for said lover. A lot of stuff. From furniture to jewelry to a violin. And she had only ever made minimum payments.

up until I found out about that I had actually felt like it had been a friendly divorce. Just two people who grew apart and settled it like adults. I had no idea. Live and learn.

 

[RailRoader]

My ex-wife would let me come anywhere in her or on her. I suppose she had one or two good qualities...

 

[robertreams]

make it play. Make a pearl necklace.

 

[robertreams]

My ex told my daughter it was no use dating because she had thrown away the best man she ever knew. I hated her for kidnapping my children.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

My ex told my daughter it was no use dating because she had thrown away the best man she ever knew. I hated her for kidnapping my children.

^^^^This old mother fucker knows as much about cumming as he knows about the time when the doctor slapped his ass.

 

[PervOtaku]

Some interesting points here:
http://nymag.com/thecut/2015/07/complicated-politics-of-where-to-come.html

I see that and raise you
http://www.xojane.com/sex/do-women-like-facials

Though I do like the point that was made about being into something not for the act itself but because your partner really likes it and you like seeing your partner getting off on it.

Another point, not so much in these articles but made often elsewhere, is about how the age of porn upping the ante so much on wild and nasty sex acts has basically ruined normal sex for people, because guys want the girls they are actually fucking to do that same stuff they see porn girls doing.

And then you have Scott Adams of Dilbert fame, who in his blog sometimes talks about privacy, or the lack thereof, in the modern internet age, and at one point he mused that if we could get over our societal hangups about sex and broadcast without shame the weird shit we are into, we would much more easily find people with common interests.