Growers vs Show-ers: Thoughts?

SherlockianMan

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Hello all,

I was just curious what people on here think about Growers vs Show-ers when it comes to erections. Does anyone have a preference? If so, why?

Ladies: What's your take?
Guys: Which are you? Would you prefer to be the other?

I'm definitely a grower myself. I'm perfectly fine with my size, but sometimes I wish I had more to show when not upright.

I'd love to hear peoples take on the subject.
 
Hello all,

I was just curious what people on here think about Growers vs Show-ers when it comes to erections. Does anyone have a preference? If so, why?

Ladies: What's your take?
Guys: Which are you? Would you prefer to be the other?

I'm definitely a grower myself. I'm perfectly fine with my size, but sometimes I wish I had more to show when not upright.

I'd love to hear peoples take on the subject.


I'm a grower...though when I wear my cock-rings and certain undies...I bulge just fine...
Speaking for my wife..She isn't a size queen..she had a few nice sized cock (bigger than me) and one huge one...the outline and a nice bulge* is a turn on...but.. "working extra on a squishy to get it hard, in the end lost the mood" her words...
* mrs K is a self proclaimed bulge watcher
 
Hello all,

I was just curious what people on here think about Growers vs Show-ers when it comes to erections. Does anyone have a preference? If so, why?

Ladies: What's your take?
Guys: Which are you? Would you prefer to be the other?

I'm definitely a grower myself. I'm perfectly fine with my size, but sometimes I wish I had more to show when not upright.

I'd love to hear peoples take on the subject.

I love growers. So hot to wonder what the final "package" will offer, fun to tease as they get hard, and it makes me feel powerful to do that to them. That said, showers have their own appeal, but if you are used to growers, you may be a little disappointed when the difference isn't as much. Interestingly, I've had both kinds of boyfriends and they all ended up with very average erections in the end--I don't think the difference really affects much.
 
I love growers. So hot to wonder what the final "package" will offer, fun to tease as they get hard, and it makes me feel powerful to do that to them. That said, showers have their own appeal, but if you are used to growers, you may be a little disappointed when the difference isn't as much. Interestingly, I've had both kinds of boyfriends and they all ended up with very average erections in the end--I don't think the difference really affects much.

That's good to know. Personally I'm a grower.
 
If I understand the question, I guess I'm a grower, as my pics bear out.
Unaroused, my cock is pretty diminutive but it expands well.
As someone pointed out, the growth of a penis when stimulated is a fascinating sight.
 
Grower

I am a grower. My first wife loved to take me into her mouth and masturbate as I inflated in her mouth. She said she loved the feeling and power
 
Though I love to look at all cocks, there is just something about a big soft cock that really turns me on. Love the way a big cock hangs and swings when the guy walks.
 
What is a grower and what is a show-er?

I knew the difference long before I heard the terminology.

A 'grower' has a rather short penis when flaccid. As it fills with blood in an erection, it 'grows' substantially, often 2 or 3 times it's flaccid length. (ie 2" becomes 6").

A 'shower' has a rather long penis when flaccid but it only grows a fraction larger when erect. (ie. 6" becomes 7"). YPMV :rolleyes:
 
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I'm a grower. If it's cold I get tiny! I enjoy the difference hugely. That said, I also enjoy how a well chosen junk ring makes me a part time shower. My woman enjoys the occasional moments when she can get the whole of me in her mouth but that doesn't last long!
 
I'm a shower! *chest swells with pride!* umm..well actually I'm a grower. *chest deflates* but one day I hope to be a shower who grower! Lol
 
I knew the difference long before I herd the terminology.

A 'grower' has a rather short penis when flaccid. As it fills with blood in an erection, it 'grows' substantially, often 2 or 3 times it's flaccid length. (ie 2" becomes 6").

A 'shower' has a rather long penis when flaccid but it only grows a fraction larger when erect. (ie. 6" becomes 7"). YPMV :rolleyes:

Thank you for that explanation.

This is a guys' discussion. I could not care less. It is irrelevant to me.
 
I prefer a grower, and that is what my husband is. I like it better big, but I love watching it inflate.
 
The final size is what matters most but I do LOVE watching them grow to their full potential ;)
 
I had always been a grower, but from seeing other men in nude venues and private situations, I have always admired the show-ers. So later in life, after I had surgery for prostate cancer, I had to start using a penis pump on a regular basis to recover from the surgery. After 10 years of using this very effective Osbon pump, I started to cross the line more toward being a show-er. Now instead of going from 3.5 inches to 6.5 inches, my flaccid length is usually closer to 5 inches. This did not happen suddenly, but it was one upside to the whole cancer thing.
 
I'm a grower.

I'm a little above average in length and girth but I don't "show it" in my "501's"unless aroused.

In my twenties and early thirties I wore a speedo bathing suite.

Believe me I learned some Iron control, no pun intended!

But I did not dwell on string bikini's or allow any rubbing because there was going to be an air gap at best and probably an escape attempt!:eek:

I still owe a lady friend of mine for that little incident!:(
 
I have been with both, and find more satisfying with a grower. I enjoy watching 'R' go from not a lot to his full size, and seeing just how much what I do turns him on.
 
I don't have a preference, I like surprises.

My bf is a grower and I understand completely what was said about the feeling of power....and a little awe, I look at it standing there, tall and beautiful and think, "Did I do that?" And get a happy feeling because it's for me! :D
 
Glad to see that this thread has gotten some responses. I wasn't sure if it would take off or not.

I've had a couple people ask me to explain it a bit more in detail, but I see some others have already tackled the question. If anyone is interested in a visual depiction to better explain it, I posted this on my thread awhile back and you are welcome to check it out:

http://forum.literotica.com/showpost.php?p=64232887&postcount=395
 
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