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[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[SpunThings]

The saying goes 'a loved child has many names' thus while not a child I am glad G calls me many things lovingly. almost never my name, only when introducing me to people or perhaps talking to me in front of others.

I like many terms of endearment. I like the ones from the north of England....pet, hen....they are endearing.....'hen'? For example. Its not at all sexy, but....caring. That's the point of it I suppose, And, so, ironically, would be the point of 'pet' I guess . I also like 'lamb' and 'lamb kin' but all these are totally non sexual for me. Just from random people. I like them because, apart from lamb which I use all the time, I hear them so rarely and they make me laugh.

I love personal pet names, ones that show 'I think about you, I know you'. The person who gives me my physio calls me a name that reflects my difficulty in relaxing, that shows up in part of my body....a constant source of tension. Its not flattering, but I like it because its not meant cruelly, and it says ' this is who you are to me'

It's kind of like, "Hey, I notice you/see you." Or that they took the time to think about you. On a slightly side note, this is one of the reasons I get a big kick out of finding out the mistaken impressions people have had about me. That look of surprise when I spout off obscenities, or discuss my love of certain rock bands...Now if only they knew what I get up to in the bedroom.

I have to agree 100% with desertslave's post too.

 

[Shankara20]

After quoting a post that had included three or four pictures of women, a guy posted, "I'd do any of these." In this case, his use of "do" to mean "fuck" struck me as entitled and objectifying. I can't imagine using such an expression, even when talking about women in anonymous photos.

THANK YOU.

 

[desertslave]

The 'words' discussion got me thinking as I fell asleep last night. And lo, a fragment from my wild youth began to insinuate itself, bursting forth not long after I awoke today. There was this quirky off-Broadway show in the 70s that later migrated and ended up, for a while, at a dinner theater in Delaware, of all places. The stage manager at the time was a friend from college. I knew all of the music because of him and, through a perverse act of serendipity, ended up in a bit part in two scenes and a lot of off-stage singing for two weekends when one of the cast got sick. Anyway, this song, Dirty Words, seems relevant.

 

[SpunThings]

The 'words' discussion got me thinking as I fell asleep last night. And lo, a fragment from my wild youth began to insinuate itself, bursting forth not long after I awoke today. There was this quirky off-Broadway show in the 70s that later migrated and ended up, for a while, at a dinner theater in Delaware, of all places. The stage manager at the time was a friend from college. I knew all of the music because of him and, through a perverse act of serendipity, ended up in a bit part in two scenes and a lot of off-stage singing for two weekends when one of the cast got sick. Anyway, this song, Dirty Words, seems relevant.

That's kind of funny.

 

[Collar_N_Cuffs]

The 'words' discussion got me thinking as I fell asleep last night. And lo, a fragment from my wild youth began to insinuate itself, bursting forth not long after I awoke today. There was this quirky off-Broadway show in the 70s that later migrated and ended up, for a while, at a dinner theater in Delaware, of all places. The stage manager at the time was a friend from college. I knew all of the music because of him and, through a perverse act of serendipity, ended up in a bit part in two scenes and a lot of off-stage singing for two weekends when one of the cast got sick. Anyway, this song, Dirty Words, seems relevant.

While Ienjoyed that, I'm glad I don't have the lyrics to that song kicking around in the back of my head The xylophone or marimba or whatever was killing me! Sounded so... incongruous with the words.

 

[desertslave]

While Ienjoyed that, I'm glad I don't have the lyrics to that song kicking around in the back of my head The xylophone or marimba or whatever was killing me! Sounded so... incongruous with the words.

Blame the 70s.

I don't especially care for that recording very much. I wish I still had the tape from one of my nights with the cast. Everyone there had beautiful stage voices.

 

[midwestyankee]

Is there a point or head tilt associated with this?

Uhh...yeah. Let's go with that!

Sounds like a Marcia Brady style flip of the hair might be a good candidate, too?

 

[midwestyankee]

<snip>
I love personal pet names, ones that show 'I think about you, I know you'. The person who gives me my physio calls me a name that reflects my difficulty in relaxing, that shows up in part of my body....a constant source of tension. Its not flattering, but I like it because its not meant cruelly, and it says ' this is who you are to me'

This is a very different conversation, but I can imagine that the discovery of a pet name that works well for both parties might be a fascinating negotiation.

Imagining how unsettling the name "pet" might be for some, and how perfectly apt it might feel to others, for example.

 

[may_I_please]

This is a very different conversation, but I can imagine that the discovery of a pet name that works well for both parties might be a fascinating negotiation.

Imagining how unsettling the name "pet" might be for some, and how perfectly apt it might feel to others, for example.

Do you think you negotiate pet names or does one just get given one and accept it if it resonates.

That's always been my take on it anyway

Even words with negative connotations, from the right lips can feel like a compliment

 

[midwestyankee]

Do you think you negotiate pet names or does one just get given one and accept it if it resonates.

That's always been my take on it anyway

Even words with negative connotations, from the right lips can feel like a compliment

I guess I was using "negotiate" in a very broad sense. To be given a pet name and accept if if it resonates sounds like one would still have the option to say, "No, if you keep using that one my body will refuse to allow arousal and it just won't work for me. Try again" And, to me, that sounds a whole lot like a negotiation.

 

[Shankara20]

I guess I was using "negotiate" in a very broad sense. To be given a pet name and accept if if it resonates sounds like one would still have the option to say, "No, if you keep using that one my body will refuse to allow arousal and it just won't work for me. Try again" And, to me, that sounds a whole lot like a negotiation.

Agree

 

[may_I_please]

I guess I was using "negotiate" in a very broad sense. To be given a pet name and accept if if it resonates sounds like one would still have the option to say, "No, if you keep using that one my body will refuse to allow arousal and it just won't work for me. Try again" And, to me, that sounds a whole lot like a negotiation.

*concedes* a good point, well made

 

[midwestyankee]

Finding myself deep in work-avoidance mode, I wander over to Tumblr. There, my feed is filled with contributions from a number of different pervy corners of the world, plus some very sane textual offerings from some friends I met here at Lit. Today, it seemed as if 3 out of every 4 posts featured a gif of a woman performing fellatio.

As I've said elsewhere, I like a good blowjob as much as the next guy (at least), but I'm still a bit puzzled by the general popularity of fellatio pictures. My theory: a lot of the guys who are the audience for these images need a "safe" venue in which to look at and admire other guys' cocks.

 

[Collar_N_Cuffs]

Finding myself deep in work-avoidance mode, I wander over to Tumblr. There, my feed is filled with contributions from a number of different pervy corners of the world, plus some very sane textual offerings from some friends I met here at Lit. Today, it seemed as if 3 out of every 4 posts featured a gif of a woman performing fellatio.

As I've said elsewhere, I like a good blowjob as much as the next guy (at least), but I'm still a bit puzzled by the general popularity of fellatio pictures. My theory: a lot of the guys who are the audience for these images need a "safe" venue in which to look at and admire other guys' cocks.

Hah! This made me giggle

 

[midwestyankee]

Hah! This made me giggle

I'll be here all week. Don't forget to tip the flogger girl.

 

[Collar_N_Cuffs]

I'll be here all week. Don't forget to tip the flogger girl.

That depends on who the flogger girl is

 

[midwestyankee]

That depends on who the flogger girl is

Actually, at the moment, the position is open. The last FG bolted, screaming something about too many puns, too many puns. You interested in the job? The pay is two-fold: all the tips you can attract and all the floggings you can handle.

 

[Collar_N_Cuffs]

Actually, at the moment, the position is open. The last FG bolted, screaming something about too many puns, too many puns. You interested in the job? The pay is two-fold: all the tips you can attract and all the floggings you can handle.

This doesn't really strike me as a good position.
(Get it? That's a flogger joke )

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[midwestyankee]

This doesn't really strike me as a good position.
(Get it? That's a flogger joke )

Sure. One that falls short, that is.

 

[midwestyankee]

Oh, aha....so a flogger girl gets flogged rather than flogs people. Not what I thought.

Her actual job is to curate our collection of floggers and hand them out to interested users on demand. Her pay is, as noted above, a bit unusual.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[SpunThings]

Hah! This made me giggle

Me too.