Yank's Free Range Turkey Trot Warming House and Bondage Barn

[Collar_N_Cuffs]

With my typo I inadvertently told a true, that's all
The fact that what I said is somewhat impossible at the same time, well, so be it

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[Shankara20]

I'm happy to make coffee, ( mocha too) so long as I can keep watching whatever is going on.....I came here to learn remember.....

I'll make popcorn....

so long as I can keep watching whatever is going on.....

I came here because I'm a voyeur...


ps: I like mocha

 

[butterfly_flip]

Just wandering through on my way to bed. Recovering from minor surgery so can't stay long...limited energy etc

Hope all is well with all of you

 

[midwestyankee]

Just wandering through on my way to bed. Recovering from minor surgery so can't stay long...limited energy etc

Hope all is well with all of you

Thank you for your visit, however brief. Please do return when you're able to spend more time. Hope your recovery proceeds quickly and easily.

 

[midwestyankee]

Words about sex

What words or phrases used to describe sex or sexual acts, etc., do you really like to use?

What words or phrases used for sex really get on your nerves?

ETA: let's restrict ourselves to our responses to these words or phrases when not in the throes of passion.

 

[desertslave]

Words about sex

What words or phrases used to describe sex or sexual acts, etc., do you really like to use?

What words or phrases used for sex really get on your nerves?

In what context? That makes a difference to some.

 

[midwestyankee]

In what context? That makes a difference to some.

Fair point. On the grounds that many of us might enjoy certain words or phrases ONLY while in flagrante delicto, let me rephrase the question to which do you like/dislike to hear or use when not in the throes of passion?

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[Shankara20]

I don't like "screw" or "get it on". I find I am liking "make love" much more.

I find myself asking myself, "what word would I use if I were still going to play parties"? At the moment I have no answer.

A great question wise one...

 

[Curious_in_Cali]

I really strongly dislike the phrases "making love", "let's make love", or "I want to make love to you". Don't get me wrong, I love people. I love love. I love romance. I love who I am having sex with. I love creative endeavors shared with a loved one. But those syrupy verbal expressions are simply not arousing. At all. Neither are compliments, no matter how sincere they might be.

I must admit that I still have a fondness for "bumpin' uglies".

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[Collar_N_Cuffs]

Context really does make all the difference, and I don't think I can answer this question because of it. It wouldn't bother me at all if somebody said "Did you know those two were getting it on?" But if my partner said "Hey, let's get it on!" I do believe I would be laughing too hard to acquiesce Every context will be different, and I even find that some phrases bother me sometimes from some people, but not from others.
If I can dig out my 19th century animal husbandry book, I will post some of the phrases used therein. Definitely giggle material, but there are some are completely mysterious...

 

[SpunThings]

Fair point. On the grounds that many of us might enjoy certain words or phrases ONLY while in flagrante delicto, let me rephrase the question to which do you like/dislike to hear or use when not in the throes of passion?

I like none of them. Not that they bother me, but I get a little neurotic if my husband says "Want to make love/have sex/XX-word/someothereuphamism/whatever?" Then I start doing my overthinking.

Hmm...am I in the mood? Not sure. Could I be convinced? What if I'm not in the mood? What if I say yes, and he does things, and I am not enjoying it at all? What if he wants me to do things, and I'm just not feeling it, and it's lackluster for him because I'm not enthusiastic? I'll feel bad. I'll feel guilty. Oh no he expects me to feel pleasure right now? I'm not feeling it at all...

So you see, this is why he is in charge. I have have chosen to not say no, and it gives me a little thrill, and it doesn't matter how I feel. In reality it does, and on the rare cases I'm really not feeling it I let him know after a really good try.

The easy answer is that we use "play" for all forms of sexy fun, whether alone or together. Or just sex if we need to talk about that specifically.

 

[SpunThings]

I'll sit back and watch too. Not much of a voyeur, but definitely a people watcher. I've often wished I could watch unnoticed and listen in to people's conversations and behavior. Maybe I am a voyeur...

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[midwestyankee]

In reading the recent replies, I can see that the question is more nuanced than my original frame allowed. What prompted me to bring this up was seeing a,post in a picture thread in the Fetish Central forum. After quoting a post that had included three or four pictures of women, a guy posted, "I'd do any of these." In this case, his use of "do" to mean "fuck" struck me as entitled and objectifying. I can't imagine using such an expression, even when talking about women in anonymous photos.

Now, I have no problem using plain and direct language and prefer it in a sexual context. I guess I draw my line at words that objectify others without having a relationship with them. I know that plenty of power exchange couples use words like "slut" or "whore" in a familiar way. I haven't yet and may well never will do that, but I can understand the appeal in the context of a consensual relationship.

I can imagine that the word "cunt" works the same way for some but not others.

Does this make my intent any more clear?

 

[SpunThings]

In reading the recent replies, I can see that the question is more nuanced than my original frame allowed. What prompted me to bring this up was seeing a,post in a picture thread in the Fetish Central forum. After quoting a post that had included three or four pictures of women, a guy posted, "I'd do any of these." In this case, his use of "do" to mean "fuck" struck me as entitled and objectifying. I can't imagine using such an expression, even when talking about women in anonymous photos.

Now, I have no problem using plain and direct language and prefer it in a sexual context. I guess I draw my line at words that objectify others without having a relationship with them. I know that plenty of power exchange couples use words like "slut" or "whore" in a familiar way. I haven't yet and may well never will do that, but I can understand the appeal in the context of a consensual relationship.

I can imagine that the word "cunt" works the same way for some but not others.

Does this make my intent any more clear?

OH YES! I agree, the whole "I'd do her." is just...ugh.

 

[desertslave]

In reading the recent replies, I can see that the question is more nuanced than my original frame allowed. What prompted me to bring this up was seeing a,post in a picture thread in the Fetish Central forum. After quoting a post that had included three or four pictures of women, a guy posted, "I'd do any of these." In this case, his use of "do" to mean "fuck" struck me as entitled and objectifying. I can't imagine using such an expression, even when talking about women in anonymous photos.

Now, I have no problem using plain and direct language and prefer it in a sexual context. I guess I draw my line at words that objectify others without having a relationship with them. I know that plenty of power exchange couples use words like "slut" or "whore" in a familiar way. I haven't yet and may well never will do that, but I can understand the appeal in the context of a consensual relationship.

I can imagine that the word "cunt" works the same way for some but not others.

Does this make my intent any more clear?

Very.

I've been told that I have a touch of 'prim & proper' which I'd like to deny but it's probably true. That said, I like 'make love' in the sense of regular coupling, but much prefer 'play' for what we do together. It's certainly more accurate.

I don't care for some of the more vulgar-ish words, especially boobs and dick. Dunno why, they just sound very adolescent boy to me. Oddly enough, though, I think cunt is sexier than pussy. (Even more so in the throes of passion. ) And my favorite male-parts word is definitely cock. I'd rather ask to be used than just to be fucked...so many more possibilities?

For reading purposes, I absolutely detest the standard bodice-ripper euphemisms like manhood, nether regions (unless Kaylee is saying it on Firefly, then it's adorable), bosom (especially if it's heaving), and pearl. And the ridiculous 'down there' so abused in 50SoG. Ugh!

 

[SpunThings]

I am pretty certain I am not. I think if I am not joining in its because I am too nervous, uncertain of what to do or self conscious. I'd much rather join in, but sometimes need my hand held. I think if I had a tendency it might be more that were I not self conscious about by appearance I'd prefer to be watched.

Ahhh yes, me too me too. I like the attention, all the attention...except only with someone I trust a lot and feel really comfortable with and have no worries about judgement.

 

[Endless_Night]

< I don't care for some of the more vulgar-ish words, especially boobs and dick. Dunno why, they just sound very adolescent boy to me. Oddly enough, though, I think cunt is sexier than pussy. (Even more so in the throes of passion. ) And my favorite male-parts word is definitely cock. I'd rather ask to be used than just to be fucked...so many more possibilities? >

I agree with a lot of this^. The more vulgar-ish words just don't do it for me, though I'd include cunt in that grouping. Whore, cunt, no. Just no. Possibly not surprising as I'm not into degradation or humiliation, at least on a verbal level. Slut...hmmm. Offhand, I'd say no, but perhaps as an endearment in just the right relationship. Maybe.

I've never considered the word used, but...I like it!

Like C_in_C, I'm not wild about the whole "let's make love" euphemism. Unless, of course, you find in the midst of a tender moment and making love is actually what you are doing!

Things I like? Good girl.

Sweetheart is also rather nice.

 

[Collar_N_Cuffs]

Hah! "Down there"...
Omg, I know a guy - perfectly grown man in his forties who still has to say "down there". It makes me laugh every time and I just have to tease him...
What, in your shoe? No? Oh. On the floor? No? In your pocket? Whaaaaaa?
: innocentface:

 

[Endless_Night]

Hah! "Down there"...
Omg, I know a guy - perfectly grown man in his forties who still has to say "down there". It makes me laugh every time and I just have to tease him...
What, in your shoe? No? Oh. On the floor? No? In your pocket? Whaaaaaa?
: innocentface:

Now, see. There's his mistake. I would never say "down there".

When in doubt I always say, "You know....".

I'm not actually kidding.

 

[Collar_N_Cuffs]

Now, see. There's his mistake. I would never say "down there".

When in doubt I always say, "You know....".

I'm not actually kidding.

Is there a point or head tilt associated with this?

 

[Endless_Night]

Is there a point or head tilt associated with this?

Uhh...yeah. Let's go with that!