Things that turn up your heat...

[Shankara20]

Speak today about your sexual arousal. Tell us what you have found out about your little kinks that have surprised you - when you feel your cock twitch or you have become a little drippy, or your pussy is damp and nipples a little bit protruded.

Tell us about those strange little moments when you find something has kicks off the Physiological Response for you - when you have moved from thinking about "it" to feeling "it".

I'll start with this: years ago I decided to start experimenting with crossdressing. I worked up the courage to go to the store and shop of panties. I was a nervous reck worried everyone would see "pervert" stamped across my face, but shop away I did. Once I purchased my selections I needed to pee so I went into the Starbucks in the shopping center to use their WC, and I was stunned to see how damp my undies were, I had been dripping pre-cum the whole time.

Turns out fear of being caught and shame were components of my arousal that day.

I know all this changes all the time, what makes me drippy today might be "ho-hum" the next.

Please, share you little twitchy stories.

Link to Wiki info on sexual arousal.

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[coati]

the taboos

I recently had a very interesting conversation on Omegle with a woman from Australia. It started out with our common interest in nudism, but quickly strayed into a discussion of cultural taboos in general. She rightly observed, "The taboos are so powerful sexually."

I get turned on by that certain look that someone will give me when they know their secret desires will be safe with me.

 

[gorgeous_grl]

Sweat drops on bed sheets and red welts on assess,
Bright shiny buckles on thick leather shackles,
The swish of a crop as it flies through the air,
These are a few of my favorite things.

Sry that song popped into my head reading this thread lol.

Seriously tho, I like pain. I guess funishment as so many here have lovingly called it. Especially tit torture, I've never been wetter than anticipating a strike across my nipples. And the subtle games my Dom and I play in public. Calling him Sir and him calling me gorgeous. The chain necklace I wear to symbolize my collar, his telling me to sneak away and edge at the store or at a family gathering. Our when he tired me up and then takes pictures for his personal enjoyment. We're just starting to dabble in BDSM so there may be more that I enjoy that we just haven't tried yet.

 

[Shankara20]

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These are a few of my favorite things.

Oh thanks, now I've got the Sound of Music playing in my head....

 

[gorgeous_grl]

Lol no problem, you can dump it on some unsuspecting ppl in the song lyric thread.

 

[Shankara20]

I recently had a very interesting conversation on Omegle with a woman from Australia. It started out with our common interest in nudism, but quickly strayed into a discussion of cultural taboos in general. She rightly observed, "The taboos are so powerful sexually."

I get turned on by that certain look that someone will give me when they know their secret desires will be safe with me.

Yes breaking taboos can be very sexually stimulating. Doing that forbidden thing I think that is one reason anal play is such a turn-on for me.

 

[gorgeous_grl]

Anal play makes me a little nervous, and had never really interested me, but the more I think about it the more willing I am to try something. But I'm certain it's not something my Dom is willing to try.

 

[jezzilee]

Sweat drops on bed sheets and red welts on assess,
Bright shiny buckles on thick leather shackles,
The swish of a crop as it flies through the air,
These are a few of my favorite things.

This today!

I had a friend who used to sing that to me..... His voice was YummmY and now I can't stop thinking about it. But to answer your question. Hints of a past lover I suppose (among other things) because that little tidbit of that song turned me on.

 

[Shankara20]

Sweat drops on bed sheets and red welts on assess,
Bright shiny buckles on thick leather shackles,
The swish of a crop as it flies through the air,
These are a few of my favorite things.

Sry that song popped into my head reading this thread lol.

Seriously tho, I like pain. I guess funishment as so many here have lovingly called it. Especially tit torture, I've never been wetter than anticipating a strike across my nipples. And the subtle games my Dom and I play in public. Calling him Sir and him calling me gorgeous. The chain necklace I wear to symbolize my collar, his telling me to sneak away and edge at the store or at a family gathering. Our when he tired me up and then takes pictures for his personal enjoyment. We're just starting to dabble in BDSM so there may be more that I enjoy that we just haven't tried yet.

I find that when I go to my bottom place, (I'm a switch) I am all about sensation. I love it. But I don't get sexual. At the end of some play sessions I've been told to masturbate until I cum. I just can't do it. The sexual heat is not there. And I love to bottom at times.

When I Top my sexual heat is on HIGH. I feel I can fuck all night.

Go figure.

 

[gorgeous_grl]

I find that when I go to my bottom place, (I'm a switch) I am all about sensation. I love it. But I don't get sexual. At the end of some play sessions I've been told to masturbate until I cum. I just can't do it. The sexual heat is not there. And I love to bottom at times.

When I Top my sexual heat is on HIGH. I feel I can fuck all night.

Go figure.

Lol, I couldn't Top of I tried, I just don't have it in me. I'm always impressed with Switches. I love sensations when I bottom too. I love the show build of light touches and strokes. Deft fingers as they work rope along my skin. A light strike here, a slap there. I try to lie still as the intensity increases, but I always end up gasping and arching. As I've said, pain is my pleasure, the slower the build the higher my tolerance. I've got the bruises to prove it almost six days old now.

 

[coati]

Yes breaking taboos can be very sexually stimulating. Doing that forbidden thing I think that is one reason anal play is such a turn-on for me.

Yeah, breaking taboos, among consenting adults who are playing safe, is so liberating. During this Omegle conversation, when I brought up the subject of anal stimulation as a method for sending a lover over the edge in the heat of passion, she agreed that both she and her husband experienced the same thing. Of course, as you mention, the taboo element is just one factor-- the other has to do with all the anal nerve endings and physiological response. It's an act of great intimacy, which is why people approach it so gingerly.

We are so conditioned to be nice straight people. This makes breaking the unnecessary taboos that much better. We can still be considerate people without living in a behavior box all our lives.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[desertslave]

Oh so many things! I've been told, once or twice, that I'm all erogenous zone. Some bits more than others. Lately it's my newly re-acquired nipple rings: rubs from the seat belt, random contact if I'm carrying something, brushes of Master's fingers while we are curled up and mostly asleep.

He will reach out and grab a boob "just to hold on." Or he settles his hand on my ass as we fall asleep. Well, as HE falls asleep. And his hand twitches as he begins to dream, which makes me squirm and wet, and I drift off with a grin. We find each other in the middle of the night and I half-wake to discover his cock in my hand. Sometimes he makes happy sounds but stays asleep, sometimes we both wake a little more when I slide down to suck him.

There are the casual touches as we pass while cooking, or when he visits me at my torching bench...a finger down my neck, a brush across my shoulders, a quick kiss.

Or we're just talking and finish each other's sentence or some other disconcerting but typical mind-reading. We catch each other's eye and smile, and I break out in goosebumps, all heading right to my clit and making that ring tickle. Sneaky thing, that other bit of metal! Most of the time it's politely in the background, but I'll sit funny or twist or twitch, and I'm vividly reminded of his possession. Some days I swear I'm on simmer at all times.

Or one of "our" songs comes on the radio or one of my MP3 mixes, and I remember some particular moment, like it's caught on film.

The scent of good leather really does it for me. In our earliest online days Master once sent me to a Wilson's Leather and had me describe my feelings for him. Going to Tandy is guaranteed to make me drip.

Even parts of the highway around here are triggers. I see particular spots that will remind me of going somewhere when I didn't know my way around, when he was driving with one hand and teasing my clit with the other. So many flashbacks. And always making new memories, even now.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[gorgeous_grl]

* UPDATE* anal play is not a hard limit for my Dom. And he reads my posts....

 

[dawn_of_night]

I find that when I go to my bottom place, (I'm a switch) I am all about sensation. I love it. But I don't get sexual. At the end of some play sessions I've been told to masturbate until I cum. I just can't do it. The sexual heat is not there. And I love to bottom at times.

When I Top my sexual heat is on HIGH. I feel I can fuck all night.

Go figure.

 

[IrisAlthea]

* UPDATE* anal play is not a hard limit for my Dom. And he reads my posts....

This made me laugh.
Already when I read "I'm certain..." in the earlier post, I thought ""Uh oh".

 

[gorgeous_grl]

This made me laugh.
Already when I read "I'm certain..." in the earlier post, I thought ""Uh oh".

Yeah and instead of just telling me, (because that would be unDom-like), he waited until I was in a.... Compromising position and SHOWED me.

 

[dawn_of_night]

Good Morning


Ggrl... I hope it was everything ypu wanted and more

 

[gorgeous_grl]

It was an experience. I wouldn't mind doing it again.

 

[Shankara20]

It was an experience. I wouldn't mind doing it again.

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[Shankara20]

hmmmmm, that last post made me "twitch" just a little bit...

 

[gorgeous_grl]

Things that turn up my heat: This will be on my doorstep in six days.

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[Curious_in_Cali]

I guess I have quite a few of these, but the one that comes to mind first is watching someone eat when they are eating and enjoying a favorite that makes them groansmile and say, "Mmmmm, so good".

Bonus points if they are eating with their hands.

 

[IrisAlthea]

I guess I have quite a few of these, but the one that comes to mind first is watching someone eat when they are eating and enjoying a favorite that makes them groansmile and say, "Mmmmm, so good".

Bonus points if they are eating with their hands.

Hah, I once saw this Italian guy in a restaurant. He was eating a big plate of grilled scampi, with his hands or actually more like with his whole body.
I swear I couldn't stop staring.