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how many ladies of lit enjoy phone sex? such a big turn on for me and enjoy it.would like to find some ladies who also enjoy it as well
 
I used to enjoy it more than now. It's not like riding a bike at all. I feel really self conscious doing it. When I was single and on lit, my confidence built up but not really something do now and not really that comfortable with it. Mainly because have no idea what to say! No idea how one loses the ability to do something they used to do daily but really have done :/
 
Ladies who enjoy phone sex?

I know there are women out there that enjoy playing on the phone (or Skype, Yahoo voice, etc). I've talked to them over the years! ;)

The issues I've found are that there are 10 men for every woman wanting phone play (ladies have their pick!). Also, women really need to have a connection, or it just isn't fun. Most hate talking on the phone if there are too many expectations. Every once in awhile I'll run across the woman that is close to cumming and just wants a quick "push" on the phone to get her over the edge. But most times, the women want to feel a connection, and a sense of trust that he's not going to be an ass (mean on the phone, stalker type, cum right away and hang up before she's had her orgasm, etc).

The best times for me are when she agrees to talk with no expectation of phone sex. Then we can see if our personalities are a match. A few of these times, we hit it off, starting with small talk, got comfortable with each other, and eventually I could tell she wanted to move forward with the mutual self pleasuring. Mmmmm

Ladies, tell us about your experiences that went well!
 
I know there are women out there that enjoy playing on the phone (or Skype, Yahoo voice, etc). I've talked to them over the years! ;)

The issues I've found are that there are 10 men for every woman wanting phone play (ladies have their pick!). Also, women really need to have a connection, or it just isn't fun. Most hate talking on the phone if there are too many expectations. Every once in awhile I'll run across the woman that is close to cumming and just wants a quick "push" on the phone to get her over the edge. But most times, the women want to feel a connection, and a sense of trust that he's not going to be an ass (mean on the phone, stalker type, cum right away and hang up before she's had her orgasm, etc).

The best times for me are when she agrees to talk with no expectation of phone sex. Then we can see if our personalities are a match. A few of these times, we hit it off, starting with small talk, got comfortable with each other, and eventually I could tell she wanted to move forward with the mutual self pleasuring. Mmmmm

Ladies, tell us about your experiences that went well!

^ Truth
 
awww that's kind of a sad truth When I want to talk on the phone/skype it's strictly for the sex. I am not looking to get personal and have that "special connection" because I'm not looking to meet you in person anyway. The connection we have IS the sex. Not to say I won't talk to a playmate further, but for the most part I'm not looking to get personal.
 
I do enjoy it, but strictly reserved for my hubby when we are apart. Sorry guys! :kiss:
 
I love phone sex and hearing the little sounds of pleasure the other person makes

I also don't need a connection to enjoy it, because usually when I want to do it I'm already really close to finish line and at that point I don't need much romance or woo, just good, nasty words and delicious sound effects ;)
 
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I don't like it for two reasons.

1. Not one person on the whole boards could understand me.

2. I am awful at it.
 
awww that's kind of a sad truth When I want to talk on the phone/skype it's strictly for the sex. I am not looking to get personal and have that "special connection" because I'm not looking to meet you in person anyway. The connection we have IS the sex. Not to say I won't talk to a playmate further, but for the most part I'm not looking to get personal.

***swoon*** I think I've found my phone soul mate!! :D
 
I don't like it for two reasons.

1. Not one person on the whole boards could understand me.

2. I am awful at it.

Awwwwww come on snowflake...you may not be an exact replica of anyone on here but with alllllllll the like-minded people on these boards you're sure to find someone who understands you. And what makes you think you're awful at it anyway? Perhaps it has been the others who were just too awful to get a rise out of you. :D
 
Awwwwww come on snowflake...you may not be an exact replica of anyone on here but with alllllllll the like-minded people on these boards you're sure to find someone who understands you. And what makes you think you're awful at it anyway? Perhaps it has been the others who were just too awful to get a rise out of you. :D

Problemo is that I can't help but think down the other end of the phone that other person is actually just blowing their nails and watching the TV :D

I know I am.
 
Problemo is that I can't help but think down the other end of the phone that other person is actually just blowing their nails and watching the TV :D

I know I am.

LOL! If she's blowing her nails dry then someone isn't doing something right....
 
I don't like it for two reasons.

1. Not one person on the whole boards could understand me.

2. I am awful at it.

I think you have forgotten that your accent alone, would probably be enough for many women, so in theory, you wouldn't have to be good at it. You could probably just ask her to cum for you and she would. ;)
 
You so aint right Sassy lol

But it's true. He has an accent. Women (and many men) are suckers for accents. I have several friends in the UK and they all sound different and there are times I have to ask them to repeat themselves, but I'm sure they could talk about the weather and I'd walk away with wet panties. :p "rain??, you mean wet? why yes, yes I am" :D

You might understand this being from the south and knowing women love southern accents too. ;)
 
But it's true. He has an accent. Women (and many men) are suckers for accents. I have several friends in the UK and they all sound different and there are times I have to ask them to repeat themselves, but I'm sure they could talk about the weather and I'd walk away with wet panties. :p "rain??, you mean wet? why yes, yes I am" :D

You might understand this being from the south and knowing women love southern accents too. ;)

And people wonder why we Brits are ALWAYS talking about the weather ;)
 
And we do get a lot.... of weather, that is :D

Silly.. ;)

As for the question at hand. I am one of those women that needs the connection to get my fullest enjoyment from it. I've trusted very few with that, and not looking for new partners. ;)

One of my favorites had the accent. I melted every time. *sigh*
 
Silly.. ;)

As for the question at hand. I am one of those women that needs the connection to get my fullest enjoyment from it. I've trusted very few with that, and not looking for new partners. ;)

One of my favorites had the accent. I melted every time. *sigh*

And silly yeah, deeply :)
 
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