The beauty of submissive men

[The_gladiator]

Hell yeah Yeah for your 2 minutes you could even tell her she has to tell you a fantasy or answer your question or show you exactly how she likes something.
And yes...you can tell her to touch you more assertively or tease you.

But with all of it definitely encourage her and give her lots and lots of feedback about how much you enjoy it.

But whatever she chooses to have you do is also okay, even if it's fairly tame - the point is that she's choosing it and listening to what she wants hopefully.

such good advice here. sometimes its nice to bounce ideas off someone else, I feel like we've just gotten stuck in this rut where neither of us really pleas each other and everyone is unhappy and nobody communicates about it, and that is just plain unsatisfying for everyone. I'd like to open up more dialogue between us, and maybe I need to get creative on how I approach it to coax her out of her shell.

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

Sweet.

 

[Apollo Wilde]

That's beautiful

Thank you so much for posting and joining the conversation.
I think it's fabulous to hear from so many women here. I'm so so glad that this is a place where we can come.

I love the beautiful things you have written about your sub. That was wonderfully put.

Thank you!

I'm taking baby steps from my safe haven of the SRP boards, and saw this one and felt I had to leave my two cents. I just wish that the relationship with myself and my sub was one of more stability....but that's a story for another time.

 

[ShyMaleSub]

Wow! I've been missing so much while not being able to be on the thread the last week or so. I really appreciate the open, honest sharing happening here. I hope to join in a bit more this week.

 

[kindlykinky]

Great conversation in here, as always. Once again a big to Erochic for creating this thread.

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

Indeed. So much thought going into the matter of the male sub side of the female dominance angle...it's good to hear everyone's view on it.

 

[tanyachrs]

Intimidating and intense, yep.

 

[ShyMaleSub]

Intimidating and intense, yep.

That would be a beauty of a dominant lady!

 

[Apollo Wilde]

I think it's fab to see all of the male subs come out!

I feel there's a scarcity in my neck of the woods, and I wonder how much of that has to do with how in the "Scene" there's still a tendency to cling onto hard wired gender roles, and the silly notion that there is a "right" way to be and a wrong one. If a man wants to be submissive, that submission makes him no less of a man. It's sad to see that mindset still be somewhat pervasive where I live.

Then again, it could be entirely where I live!

Also, love the ideas I'm seeing take wing here. I've got half a mind to try them out. I have a hard time voicing my desires, and I find when I domme I tend to be a
"taker" - in the sense that I take rather than ask. Consent, of course, is agreed upon beforehand (I'm really neurotic and break scene constantly for check ins).
I guess there's a time and place for it, but sometimes it does feel rather hollow. It doesn't feel as mutual.

 

[Touch_72]

I feel there's a scarcity in my neck of the woods, and I wonder how much of that has to do with how in the "Scene" there's still a tendency to cling onto hard wired gender roles, and the silly notion that there is a "right" way to be and a wrong one. If a man wants to be submissive, that submission makes him no less of a man. It's sad to see that mindset still be somewhat pervasive where I live.

I think some areas are more prone to the machismo stereotype, but at the same time, I'd wager there are more than you know. In areas where male dominance seems to reign supreme in attitude on the surface, guys who have submissive curiosities or experience may be quieter about it. Is it possible it's more underground and hidden?

 

[Touch_72]

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[Touch_72]

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[SultryKitten75]

I know the thread is submissive Men...but I had to include a couple with women too.

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[Apollo Wilde]

I think some areas are more prone to the machismo stereotype, but at the same time, I'd wager there are more than you know. In areas where male dominance seems to reign supreme in attitude on the surface, guys who have submissive curiosities or experience may be quieter about it. Is it possible it's more underground and hidden?

I would certainly assume so - this is, after all, Texas. Home of the ridiculously large trucks and burying your feelings otherwise you ain't a man oh and FOOTBALL Y'ALL (no, seriously, there is a lot to love about Texas but there's a lot to dislike about it, too. I try not to stick too much to old, tired tropes about the South because they're not entirely true.)

I still think it sad - but there's also something undeniably appealing about a man that considers himself a dom start to explore his sub side.

Our sexuality changes and grows as we do the same, I think to keep to one label or the other is sort of shortchanging what we all can be. Or who we wish to be, or just what we'd like to try.

 

[Veroe]

Not really about male submission so sorry about being off topic a little, but I'm wondering do women find it easier to dominate other women rather than men?

 

[SultryKitten75]

Not really about male submission so sorry about being off topic a little, but I'm wondering do women find it easier to dominate other women rather than men?

I find it harder to dominate another female. Partly because I seek another strong willed female, over just a simple pain puppy floor rug type.

 

[Touch_72]

I know the thread is submissive Men...but I had to include a couple with women too.

No complaints here. I love the aesthetics of two women. Typical man, no?

I would certainly assume so - this is, after all, Texas.

Ah, gotcha. I've been down that way a few times... San Angelo once for a few months, Austin twice for a month each time.

Our sexuality changes and grows as we do the same, I think to keep to one label or the other is sort of shortchanging what we all can be. Or who we wish to be, or just what we'd like to try.

I like that way of looking at it.

Not really about male submission so sorry about being off topic a little, but I'm wondering do women find it easier to dominate other women rather than men?

My wife would vote yes. She has a hard time getting into the mindset of dominating men sexually, but has said that with another woman she would prefer a dominant role.

 

[Erochic]

My wife would vote yes. She has a hard time getting into the mindset of dominating men sexually, but has said that with another woman she would prefer a dominant role.

Interesting - because for me it's the opposite.

Domination with men comes pretty easily, but with women I have a very different mind space. It's a slow sensual almost tentative feeling and is very separate from any desire for power exchange. I might get a little assertive but it's coming from a very different place than it is with a man.

 

[SultryKitten75]

**sigh** Other Women on the thread, take it easy on me, for what I'm about to type...

I find it harder to Dominate another Woman, for a magnitude of reasons.
First and foremost being...Women *can be* *at times* catty, non trusting creatures towards another Woman.
Most are taught, they are supposed to be little happy domestics....naturally giving and submissive towards Men. Well, when you mix a Domme female into the picture..not only can it be a natural conflict, of all we as Women, were taught from a young age...but it also involves two soft naturally nurturing souls. It can be more of a power play at first. And then if lucky enough, to really peel away the layers and achieve the female subs true trust..it can be beautiful.

With all of this being said, I have never and never would want to be topped by another Woman. I know in my heart, I can not bend to the same sex.

 

[pensivepoet]

I would certainly assume so - this is, after all, Texas. Home of the ridiculously large trucks and burying your feelings otherwise you ain't a man oh and FOOTBALL Y'ALL (no, seriously, there is a lot to love about Texas but there's a lot to dislike about it, too. I try not to stick too much to old, tired tropes about the South because they're not entirely true.)

I still think it sad - but there's also something undeniably appealing about a man that considers himself a dom start to explore his sub side.

Our sexuality changes and grows as we do the same, I think to keep to one label or the other is sort of shortchanging what we all can be. Or who we wish to be, or just what we'd like to try.

LMAO
i travel through texas every week and wonder, "sheesh! Isn't there any dominant women in texas?"

 

[tanyachrs]

I dont have any sexual interest in women either way.

For me it's a lot about the beauty of the male form and wanting to take physical possession of it, hence why I like the title of this thread.

 

[beardedmariner]

I dont have any sexual interest in women either way.

For me it's a lot about the beauty of the male form and wanting to take physical possession of it, hence why I like the title of this thread.

Those words. The way you put that together made my body jerk, in a good way.

 

[The_gladiator]

I think it's fab to see all of the male subs come out!

I feel there's a scarcity in my neck of the woods, and I wonder how much of that has to do with how in the "Scene" there's still a tendency to cling onto hard wired gender roles, and the silly notion that there is a "right" way to be and a wrong one. If a man wants to be submissive, that submission makes him no less of a man. It's sad to see that mindset still be somewhat pervasive where I live.

Then again, it could be entirely where I live!

Also, love the ideas I'm seeing take wing here. I've got half a mind to try them out. I have a hard time voicing my desires, and I find when I domme I tend to be a
"taker" - in the sense that I take rather than ask. Consent, of course, is agreed upon beforehand (I'm really neurotic and break scene constantly for check ins).
I guess there's a time and place for it, but sometimes it does feel rather hollow. It doesn't feel as mutual.

I enjoy when a woman takes especially if she knows its something I enjoy. And as always A, you are incredibly well spoken. I didn't quote your first post but also really liked it.

 

[Apollo Wilde]

I dont have any sexual interest in women either way.

For me it's a lot about the beauty of the male form and wanting to take physical possession of it, hence why I like the title of this thread.

THIS A MILLION TIMES OVER.

I'm as hetero as they come, so dominating a woman holds no appeal to me. My dream? Having a lean, muscled man on his feet in front of me, his iliac crest well formed, lean thighs, mmmyyuuupppp. I love the male form. It's like, you wanna just roll around in men. Enjoy them, savor them.

Part of the enjoyment for me as well is getting to see a man on display in a way that he normally wouldn't be. A lot of culture surrounds the inherent sexuality of the female nude, but you don't really get to see the male side of it. It's rare to find art that has a man nude for nude's sake and expected to be appreciated as art. So I like to indulge and just...look.

 

[rm1969]

I do not submit because it was asked of me, expected of me or required of me.

I submit because it feels like the natural way to me. I submit because I truly desire to serve another.