New Lover in Submission

[Firefly0766]

Hi, New to the forum but I am lucky to have a new lover. We are just getting started but have talked at length about our kinks. I am very excited to assume a submissive role in our role playing and look forward to being bound, allowing my partner to dominate. I am a total virgin to this and would love any advice you can offer to someone who really wants to please. Any sexy advice you can offer will boost my knowledge and confidence. Thanks in advance.

 

[MeekMe]

Hi, New to the forum but I am lucky to have a new lover. We are just getting started but have talked at length about our kinks. I am very excited to assume a submissive role in our role playing and look forward to being bound, allowing my partner to dominate. I am a total virgin to this and would love any advice you can offer to someone who really wants to please. Any sexy advice you can offer will boost my knowledge and confidence. Thanks in advance.

More specific questions would get better results. Some generic advice: communicate honestly with each other about what it is you want to do. Google a BDSM checklist for a good jumping off point to start discussions. Research any activities you want to try, and get an idea of how it is done safely. Since you mentioned bondage, I would suggest learning about the different types of restraints and how they can be used, plus learning about the possible risks like nerve damage.

As all relationships are different, there's no universal advice that works for everyone. This writing by Stella helps to explain some of the differences between labels. If you want to see some of the different dynamics, check the link in my signature.

For more information we have highlighted stickies at the top with various links to websites and discussions about BDSM related topics. Stay safe and have fun. (*^_^*)

 

[Firefly0766]

Thanks

I appreciate the jumping off point. I know specifics would help, I just don't know enough to know what to ask.... this research will help me narrow down some questions.
Know your time in responding is appreciated, Beth