Men Posing As Women and not because the RP

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

Great idea, Honey.
Don't believe for one second this thread will take off, however, I'm giving all those who pose as the opposite sex the opportunity here, to out yourselves.

Come clean, and we might not punish you too severely.

I'm not talking about those who clearly state they are male or female but like to fantasize about being the other or roleplay the opposite sex. That's different.

This is purely for shaming those who are downright deceitful.

My lit lesson for the class is don't ever lie. That's fucking uncool.

 

[Sundayschild]

Just waiting to see a name I recognise....

Edit : - ain't me btw.

 

[elli1]

ok, ok, i admit it.....

 

[Jaime_H]

Guilty........................

 

[JennyNo1]

Wait, you mean there are women here who are really women??? With a va-jay-jay and everything?

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

*vadge flash*

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Great idea, Honey.
Don't believe for one second this thread will take off, however, I'm giving all those who pose as the opposite sex the opportunity here, to out yourselves.

Come clean, and we might not punish you too severely.

I'm not talking about those who clearly state they are male or female but like to fantasize about being the other or roleplay the opposite sex. That's different.

This is purely for shaming those who are downright deceitful.

My lit lesson for the class is don't ever lie. That's fucking uncool.

oh, this is gonna take off all right.

it just may not take off in your intended direction.

 

[Lilylovex64]

They will not out themselves because they were "looking out for the ladies" and "making sure other men didn't treat them unfairly" look how well that turned out. They just ended up being another one added to that list.

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

yeah, well.. So sue me..

It really is annoying, btw. It's happened to me, not that the conversations got very far, but still, the fact that people are so dishonest? I wasn't raised that way.

Edit: not directed at post directly above me.
Lol, I'm definitely not a man, in case anyone wondered.

*directs attention to fully developed frontal lobe in my possession*

 

[Little_Sister]

How did you find out my secret?!

 

[elli1]

How did you find out my secret?!

oh, you too? ^5 bro

 

[Miles Long]

I am a man posing as a woman posing as a man who is a pre-op bisexual man-girl lesbian.

I think.

 

[badjanus]

*raises hand*

 

[Little_Sister]

yeah, well.. So sue me..

It really is annoying, btw. It's happened to me, not that the conversations got very far, but still, the fact that people are so dishonest? I wasn't raised that way.

Edit: not directed at post directly above me.
Lol, I'm definitely not a man, in case anyone wondered.

*directs attention to fully developed frontal lobe in my possession*

Wait what happened to you? He pretended to be a she?

I actually had a convo about this in PM not too long ago when I got a PM from a "girl" who was obviously not a girl. The way girls flirt, move from just friendly conversation is very different than the way guys do it so it is obvious IMO if the poster is a guy or a girl from the very first PM.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I am a man posing as a woman posing as a man who is a pre-op bisexual man-girl lesbian.

I think.

this is what i'm talking about, Miles.

*raises hand*

not even.

*giggles*

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

ok..ok..

So this thread is definitely tanking...
Lol..

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

ok..ok..

So this thread is definitely tanking...
Lol..

no, no, no.

this is NOT 'tanking.'

cool your jets, mama. give it some time. we'll get back around to the outing.

orrr...

you *can* just say it, you know.

 

[Siren_Smiles]

I am a man posing as a woman posing as a man who is a pre-op bisexual man-girl lesbian.

I think.

Miles, you crack me up.

 

[Sundayschild]

I've had suspect PMs that didn't feel right. Have probably been caught, especially when I joined. *shrug * all part of the learning process

 

[Lilylovex64]

ok..ok..

So this thread is definitely tanking...
Lol..

I don't think this thread will tank.

It happens a lot, really isn't that much of a surprise, it's just annoying.

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

Wait what happened to you? He pretended to be a she?

I actually had a convo about this in PM not too long ago when I got a PM from a "girl" who was obviously not a girl. The way girls flirt, move from just friendly conversation is very different than the way guys do it so it is obvious IMO if the poster is a guy or a girl from the very first PM.

yep. Twice in fact.

Once a clearly aggressive female messaged me about how she wanted to share her double dildo with me..
Then kept up a relentless pursuit even after I politely declined.

(I mean, geesh..everyone knows the only woman I'd play with is TL.. And even she hasn't convinced me yet

Second one was a relatively benign convo about politics. She asked me some questions on my views about certain things, and I replied.We had a few messages back and forth until he fessed up he was really a man. He felt it was too difficult to get women to open up to a man, so he posed as a woman to get them to respond. He then proceeded to ask me if I would be interested in pursuing a D/s relationship.



Really?, you lie right off the bat, and you expect me to consider "exploring" a dynamic that by every account is based on trust?

Needless to say. We never spoke again.

So, in light of Lily's recent experience, albeit with whom I I not know, I thought it would be interesting to see if any of these people have an explanation for their deceit.

Didn't expect an answer, but thought I'd throw it out there anyway.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

yep. Twice in fact.

Once a clearly aggressive female messaged me about how she wanted to share her double dildo with me..
Then kept up a relentless pursuit even after I politely declined.

(I mean, geesh..everyone knows the only woman I'd play with is TL.. And even she hasn't convinced me yet

Second one was a relatively benign convo about politics. She asked me some questions on my views about certain things, and I replied.We had a few messages back and forth until he fessed up he was really a man. He felt it was too difficult to get women to open up to a man, so he posed as a woman to get them to respond. He then proceeded to ask me if I would be interested in pursuing a D/s relationship.



Really?, you lie right off the bat, and you expect me to consider "exploring" a dynamic that by every account is based on trust?

Needless to say. We never spoke again.

So, in light of Lily's recent experience, albeit with whom I I not know, I thought it would be interesting to see if any of these people have an explanation for their deceit.

Didn't expect an answer, but thought I'd throw it out there anyway.

I seriously doubt he's gonna show, but it's good to get the word out anyway.

RA, maybe you could start a discussion on how to spot them?

 

[Paul_Chance]

I am a man posing as a woman posing as a man who is a pre-op bisexual man-girl lesbian.

I think.

I think I need a flow chart to understand this...

 

[mamasota]

*With respect and appreciation for RA*

So, let me get this right, an unsuspecting member of our oh so concerned Community gets hurt, in this most despicable way, and it is fodder for lols Bad enough when the men (try to) fuck with your mind, but pretending to be a female while doing the dirty deed, earing trust and getting off on her secrets and documented aspects of her real life, well the bastard should be strung up and medically castrated. I don't give a shit if that sounds politically incorrect, no joda. So get on the Dear Litster thread and let the fingerpointing and notsosubtle accusations begin, it's so much fun and games here, right? But messing with someone's head has nothing to do with fantasy, pleasure or otherwise.
I feel really bad for you, Lovely Lady.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

is there some sort of protocol for this?

I don't feel comfortable divulging names when I was not directly involved.

he has been reported, for whatever that's worth.