First Year at university

jasminxo

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I'm probably one of the most reserved students EVER.

I really want to be like everyone else; everyone who's confident with their body and can wear these tight skimpy clothes and pull all the boys.

I mean, I wear dresses and skirts etc etc, but i always make sure my bum is covered because i'm not a cheap person. I fail extremely to pull off the 'sexy' look.

I was just wondering if there was anyone else out there?

I suffer to even get the confidence to dance with boys; i've made out with one person, since being at university, but it was my 21st, and ever since we've kissed once after, and that was only because i took his tie at our formal and demanded he kissed me to get it back, in which he did.

but i just .... if i go out with my best friend, who's absolutely gorgeous, i just fail in comparison :(
 
I'm probably one of the most reserved students EVER.

I really want to be like everyone else; everyone who's confident with their body and can wear these tight skimpy clothes and pull all the boys.

I mean, I wear dresses and skirts etc etc, but i always make sure my bum is covered because i'm not a cheap person. I fail extremely to pull off the 'sexy' look.


I was just wondering if there was anyone else out there?

I suffer to even get the confidence to dance with boys; i've made out with one person, since being at university, but it was my 21st, and ever since we've kissed once after, and that was only because i took his tie at our formal and demanded he kissed me to get it back, in which he did.

but i just .... if i go out with my best friend, who's absolutely gorgeous, i just fail in comparison :(
You have the signature lack of confidence of youth. You pine to exude a certain type of sexiness but scoff at those that do.

First, quit comparing yourself to anyone else. You need to measure up to yourself. Figure out what makes you feel best, and stick with that. Confidence is attractive. Cattiness is not.
 
I'm probably one of the most reserved students EVER.

I really want to be like everyone else; everyone who's confident with their body and can wear these tight skimpy clothes and pull all the boys.

I mean, I wear dresses and skirts etc etc, but i always make sure my bum is covered because i'm not a cheap person. I fail extremely to pull off the 'sexy' look.

I was just wondering if there was anyone else out there?

I suffer to even get the confidence to dance with boys; i've made out with one person, since being at university, but it was my 21st, and ever since we've kissed once after, and that was only because i took his tie at our formal and demanded he kissed me to get it back, in which he did.

but i just .... if i go out with my best friend, who's absolutely gorgeous, i just fail in comparison :(

I don't have any good advice but heres an e-kiss.

:kiss:
 
You have the signature lack of confidence of youth. You pine to exude a certain type of sexiness but scoff at those that do.

First, quit comparing yourself to anyone else. You need to measure up to yourself. Figure out what makes you feel best, and stick with that. Confidence is attractive. Cattiness is not.

yes. start with feeling OK with who you are. once you do, you'll realise there's no need for you to judge anyone else for being the way they are.
 
If you lack confidence, you should post your boobs here. Everyone will tell you how awesome they are.


I'm serious.
 
I'm probably one of the most reserved students EVER.

I really want to be like everyone else; everyone who's confident with their body and can wear these tight skimpy clothes and pull all the boys.

I mean, I wear dresses and skirts etc etc, but i always make sure my bum is covered because i'm not a cheap person. I fail extremely to pull off the 'sexy' look.

I was just wondering if there was anyone else out there?

I suffer to even get the confidence to dance with boys; i've made out with one person, since being at university, but it was my 21st, and ever since we've kissed once after, and that was only because i took his tie at our formal and demanded he kissed me to get it back, in which he did.

but i just .... if i go out with my best friend, who's absolutely gorgeous, i just fail in comparison :(

I think that's considered felony battery nowadays.
You should probably get a lawyer.
 
You have the signature lack of confidence of youth. You pine to exude a certain type of sexiness but scoff at those that do.

First, quit comparing yourself to anyone else. You need to measure up to yourself. Figure out what makes you feel best, and stick with that. Confidence is attractive. Cattiness is not.

Listen to this beautiful woman. She is right-you need to exude confidence. Even if it's fake. And...



show us your tits!
 
I'm probably one of the most reserved students EVER.

I really want to be like everyone else; everyone who's confident with their body and can wear these tight skimpy clothes and pull all the boys.

I mean, I wear dresses and skirts etc etc, but i always make sure my bum is covered because i'm not a cheap person. I fail extremely to pull off the 'sexy' look.

I was just wondering if there was anyone else out there?

I suffer to even get the confidence to dance with boys; i've made out with one person, since being at university, but it was my 21st, and ever since we've kissed once after, and that was only because i took his tie at our formal and demanded he kissed me to get it back, in which he did.

but i just .... if i go out with my best friend, who's absolutely gorgeous, i just fail in comparison :(
He kissed you for a tie? Then you have nothing to worry about with getting guys, unless that was a very expensive one of a kind tie. ;) And your shyness is either valid, maybe you're insecure about something, like your body or looks or something? Or you're just pressured to sexualize yourself because you're at Uni now and probably didn't date back in high school/6th form. Which is completely normal...I guess. There's really nothing to be nervous about. You're taking all these classes, you're gonna be working, experiencing, attending events, you'll see. Just... let it happen naturally. Or steal more ties. :cool:
 
I still disagree with whole confidence bullshit...any act is not living a genuine life of who really are. Being shy can be incredibly beautiful and make a real find for someone who truly appeciates you...not some typical shallow attention whore
 
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Try street-walking on weekends...in skimpy outfits..to build your confidence...and cover the expenses of your new duds.
 
on the floor in the dorms, they all called a girl, "stinky fingers."

i was afraid they were going to find out, it was me.
 
Gotta love the internet and you owe me for that one.

Did you see your boy was named man of the year in Russia?

For the 15th year in a row?

lol
 
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