Do women want to see photos of men?

MasterSlowtease

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Apologies if this has been asked before, or seems like a naive question. But I am curious.. obviously the pictures here, and everywhere else on the net, are predominantly of women, with men commenting and requesting.

But for women, do you ever feel like you would like to see more pictures of men? Are there erotic thoughts you have about looking at pictures of any type? Do you find yourself looking through this board and thinking "If only I could see..."

I would be very interested to hear from any women on their attitude to erotic pictures. Do you have any interest at all or does it leave you cold? If you do have an interest can you expand on what that interest feels like, the kinds of things you would be interested in seeing, and how would they form part of your erotic experience?

I am assuming by the way that the simple cock shot is not of much interest.
 
As a man, all I can confirm to you is that there are definitely women out there who like to see photos of me(n).
 
I myself love the male form. However, most men here post cock shots. And while some ladies enjoy this, I personally don't want to see a stranger's dick. I do, however, love abs, shoulders, chest, neck, arms.

Not a fan of man butt either. Just me though, I'm sure. I ignore cock shots here, and if that seems to be what a guy is mainly posting, I stop looking at his thread.
 
I myself love the male form. However, most men here post cock shots. And while some ladies enjoy this, I personally don't want to see a stranger's dick. I do, however, love abs, shoulders, chest, neck, arms.

Not a fan of man butt either. Just me though, I'm sure. I ignore cock shots here, and if that seems to be what a guy is mainly posting, I stop looking at his thread.

I'm with Sam about cock shots. I just don't want to see them. But I do like to see a man's bum and back, especially that hollow in the low back. Also like to see arms, shoulders, chest, abs, hip hollows, clavicle, mouth, eyes, hands, feet.
 
Intimate pics are fine if people are acquainted. Random explicit shots seem a counter productive thing to do if they are not appreciated.
 
What Sam and Mara said. Some of my absolute fave pics of men (I don't know) are pics of his arms bare upper body, undoing pants.....his back as he shyly looks over his shoulder.
Face...I know it's questionable here...but lips....jaw......scruff....
If I get to know someone....well...then the horizons might expand.
 
Apologies if this has been asked before, or seems like a naive question. But I am curious.. obviously the pictures here, and everywhere else on the net, are predominantly of women, with men commenting and requesting.

But for women, do you ever feel like you would like to see more pictures of men? Are there erotic thoughts you have about looking at pictures of any type? Do you find yourself looking through this board and thinking "If only I could see..."

I would be very interested to hear from any women on their attitude to erotic pictures. Do you have any interest at all or does it leave you cold? If you do have an interest can you expand on what that interest feels like, the kinds of things you would be interested in seeing, and how would they form part of your erotic experience?

I am assuming by the way that the simple cock shot is not of much interest.

I think there are lots of women who would enjoy seeing more men post pics. As long as they were tasteful and more than a simple cock shot. We get those thrown in our direction every single day.

Perhaps men don't participate as much in creating their own threads due to lack of response. Men want to feel sexy too, right? Wanted. Desired. To know they are still a catch and to see those posts telling them so. And us women would love to do that, to give the same boost that you men give us, but it works a little differently due to the online environment we frequent. Truth is, we ARE looking. We ARE liking what we see. For those of us that enjoy ogling your delicious man bodies. We just don't want to be inundated with PM's of dick pics, cam requests and rude, ignorant messages by saying so....out loud. Instead, for those of us that are appreciative and like such things, I think we handle our thanks the same way we handle responding to a personal ad that catches our eye....we message the OP....privately.

Strong hands, clefts and dimples, lips and smiles, eyes with crinkles - those are a few of the catches I like to see and compliment on. My reasoning being that as you get older, it's the little things, the details in the not so obvious that mean the most.

:rose:
 
I think there are lots of women who would enjoy seeing more men post pics. As long as they were tasteful and more than a simple cock shot. We get those thrown in our direction every single day.

Perhaps men don't participate as much in creating their own threads due to lack of response. Men want to feel sexy too, right? Wanted. Desired. To know they are still a catch and to see those posts telling them so. And us women would love to do that, to give the same boost that you men give us, but it works a little differently due to the online environment we frequent. Truth is, we ARE looking. We ARE liking what we see. For those of us that enjoy ogling your delicious man bodies. We just don't want to be inundated with PM's of dick pics, cam requests and rude, ignorant messages by saying so....out loud. Instead, for those of us that are appreciative and like such things, I think we handle our thanks the same way we handle responding to a personal ad that catches our eye....we message the OP....privately.

Strong hands, clefts and dimples, lips and smiles, eyes with crinkles - those are a few of the catches I like to see and compliment on. My reasoning being that as you get older, it's the little things, the details in the not so obvious that mean the most.

:rose:

^^^ This ^^^

I love seeing the things I used to call weird until I came here and saw so many ofthe women like the same things . But commenting often means you are slammed with PMs with offers to see more. More is good. But I prefer it from someone I'm friendly with.
 
I think there are lots of women who would enjoy seeing more men post pics. As long as they were tasteful and more than a simple cock shot. We get those thrown in our direction every single day.

Perhaps men don't participate as much in creating their own threads due to lack of response. Men want to feel sexy too, right? Wanted. Desired. To know they are still a catch and to see those posts telling them so. And us women would love to do that, to give the same boost that you men give us, but it works a little differently due to the online environment we frequent. Truth is, we ARE looking. We ARE liking what we see. For those of us that enjoy ogling your delicious man bodies. We just don't want to be inundated with PM's of dick pics, cam requests and rude, ignorant messages by saying so....out loud. Instead, for those of us that are appreciative and like such things, I think we handle our thanks the same way we handle responding to a personal ad that catches our eye....we message the OP....privately.
From my experience with my own AmPics thread, I can confirm that this is very much the case. I've received PMs from many more ladies than have posted in my thread, and I'm led to believe that even more other ladies are looking but unwilling to break cover for the reasons given above.

In a way, that's a shame, as it gives the misleading impression that ladies are a lot less interested than men, but I think it's entirely understandable in this environment.

I'd also like to add that the ladies who have sent me PMs have been invariably polite, even to the point of apologising for intruding on me and hoping that I haven't minded them giving me some praise (awww!). I believe that this reflects some nervousness about overtly ogling a guy and apprehension about the response that they might get. That's definitely a shame. :(
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... I do like to see a man's bum and back, especially that hollow in the low back. Also like to see arms, shoulders, chest, abs, hip hollows, clavicle, mouth, eyes, hands, feet.

Thanks murmurmara, I'm really interested in the details you pick out. Some I guess are obvious as symbols of male strength, like arms and shoulders? But others are deliciously surprising to me like the hollow in the low back. Funnily enough I was with a girl for a long time who loved that part of me and called it 'the ridge'
 
I think there are lots of women who would enjoy seeing more men post pics. As long as they were tasteful and more than a simple cock shot. We get those thrown in our direction every single day.

Perhaps men don't participate as much in creating their own threads due to lack of response. Men want to feel sexy too, right? Wanted. Desired. To know they are still a catch and to see those posts telling them so. And us women would love to do that, to give the same boost that you men give us, but it works a little differently due to the online environment we frequent. Truth is, we ARE looking. We ARE liking what we see. For those of us that enjoy ogling your delicious man bodies. We just don't want to be inundated with PM's of dick pics, cam requests and rude, ignorant messages by saying so....out loud. Instead, for those of us that are appreciative and like such things, I think we handle our thanks the same way we handle responding to a personal ad that catches our eye....we message the OP....privately.

Strong hands, clefts and dimples, lips and smiles, eyes with crinkles - those are a few of the catches I like to see and compliment on. My reasoning being that as you get older, it's the little things, the details in the not so obvious that mean the most.

:rose:

Yes absolutely Trixxy, I definitely know I want to feel wanted and desired and to have that played back to me.

And what you're saying about the environment and the implications for women is really helpful for me to understand
 
they certainly don't show much interest in seeing photos of guys.

There are just hundreds and hundreds fewer of us here, and as said above, so many guys post cock pics that aren't always welcome, and a lot of us are lurkers.
 
Jumping on the bandwagon of commenting on pic threads often leads to a PM wanting something more from me... I want to be able to admire (and I do) without it meaning I want anything beyond that comment.
 
Example in one of the questionnaire threads. Woman answers questions. Guy leaves several ways for her to contact him. Simple cause she answered questions... Imagine the comments/messages she'd get if she. Liked/commented on pictures.
 
Example in one of the questionnaire threads. Woman answers questions. Guy leaves several ways for her to contact him. Simple cause she answered questions... Imagine the comments/messages she'd get if she. Liked/commented on pictures.

Thanks SassySheDevil, I am learning more than I hoped for. I guess I knew that men outnumbered women here, and that there would be a tendency for men to inappropriately and irrelevantly hound women for contact. But your and the other women's replied here are telling me that I had underestimated the scale of that type of behaviour and how it impacts what you do and don't do.

I don't think I've ever personally been much of a hounder, but I can see I've done a few things like that in the past. Not any more.
 
Thanks SassySheDevil, I am learning more than I hoped for. I guess I knew that men outnumbered women here, and that there would be a tendency for men to inappropriately and irrelevantly hound women for contact. But your and the other women's replied here are telling me that I had underestimated the scale of that type of behaviour and how it impacts what you do and don't do.

I don't think I've ever personally been much of a hounder, but I can see I've done a few things like that in the past. Not any more.

I truly respect men for posting their pics and throwing themselves out there and I would love to comment on all of them. But I am somewhat careful of who I comment to. That is usually cause I've watched how they commented to other women first (or they aren't getting many comments and I don't want them to give up) If they are appreciative and don't get all pervy about it, I will comment more.

When my simple comments get swallowed up by the more aggressive comments and the poster passes by mine for the more sexual based comments, I also stop posting. I don't want to have to tell someone I'd fuck them, just to get a thank you.

women truly do love respect. The only people I get aggressive with on here are those I am comfortable with or friends. Other wise, I am always respectful in how I appreciate someones pictures.

If you want to start a thread, do so. ;) Just know that many women will look, not all will comment.
 
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