an erotic smack in the face

[dolf]

I have allergies to stupid. you have me sneezing all over my screen.

 

[Arianthe]

Ask someone who knows, not the opposite.

This made me laugh out loud.

 

[Devilius]

I have allergies to stupid. you have me sneezing all over my screen.

Lick it off.

That's what you do best.

 

[dolf]

Lick it off.

That's what you do best.

that wasn't a very good retort.
would you like to try another?

...I suspect you have a goatee beard.

 

[Devilius]

that wasn't a very good retort.
would you like to try another?

...I suspect you have a goatee beard.

Lol.

So, you've been abused by men in goatee beards before?

 

[dolf]

Lol.

So, you've been abused by men in goatee beards before?

your continuing lameness is laming up a previously awesome thread full of interesting conversations and exchanges of opinion.

 

[Devilius]

your continuing lameness is laming up a previously awesome thread full of interesting conversations and exchanges of opinion.

Yeah, right!

A lame thread it is. My lameness kinda falls short of the previous lameness it had.

 

[dolf]

Yeah, right!

A lame thread it is. My lameness kinda falls short of the previous lameness it had.

feel free to cease posting in it then, twat.

i'm sure all your threads are far more appreciated.

 

[dolf]

fucking wannabe dom

 

[Devilius]

feel free to cease posting in it then, twat.

i'm sure all your threads are far more appreciated.

You had to be condescending, right?

I told you what I thought and you go all ballistics on me. I can trash this thread if I want to. Anyone can.

If you want a discussion, do it. I have got nothing against it. You demean me or anyone with a spine, he will spit it back on you.

Try not to be rude to anyone.

If I've been rude to you in the beginning, then I'm sorry for that.

 

[dolf]

You had to be condescending, right?

I told you what I thought and you go all ballistics on me. I can trash this thread if I want to. Anyone can.

If you want a discussion, do it. I have got nothing against it. You demean me or anyone with a spine, he will spit it back on you.

Try not to be rude to anyone.

If I've been rude to you in the beginning, then I'm sorry for that.

Close your eyes, slap yourself HARD and note down every emotion running through your mind.

And WHAM!

You've got the answer to your question.

yeah... I think you're just an arsehole, so i'm going to forget you exist now. because arseholes are arseholes and arseholes don't change.

 

[Devilius]

yeah... I think you're just an arsehole, so i'm going to forget you exist now. because arseholes are arseholes and arseholes don't change.

I'm sorry for that, okay?

S-O-R-R-Y!

 

[StrayKat]

fucking wannabe dom

And this made me laugh out loud.

 

[tactful]

When both partners are consensual and enjoying something it is not abuse, no matter how it may look to the ignorant outsider.

There a fine line between abuse and kink, just as there is between idiot and genius.

 

[StrayKat]

There a fine line between abuse and kink, just as there is between idiot and genius.

Your line is pretty thick I would say.

 

[tactful]

Your line is pretty thick I would say.

And ignorance is bliss

 

[Wings]

what's wrong with psychological pleasure? but those delicious endorphins still feel physical to me.

feminism v smack in the chops... you know, it doesn't bewilder or bother or concern me at all. my mind never feels any friction between the two.

Because enjoying your sex how you like it ISN'T a very feminist stance?

Eeyore needs some education.

 

[yossi]

A split second after a slap (to the face) my sensibilities definitely get ruffled, but knowing that I'm being used however he likes, makes me wet and sensitive. And I'd agree that it has everything to do with the guy for me - it's not something I would tolerate from just anyone.

 

[dolf]

Because enjoying your sex how you like it ISN'T a very feminist stance?

Eeyore needs some education.

i'll be teacher. hand me my cane.

 

[evesdream]

With all due respect, eyer I'm describing an afternoon sky diving and you're imagining the Hindenburg.

 

[Learnsmith]

I find that a turn on. a guy letting go and doing something with and to me that society has told him not to do. I like that little voice in the back of his head that tells him he's crossing a line, and I like knowing it's being ignored for the moment, for the pleasure, for the fuck.

Heh. I like your line of thinking.

 

[subdued_passion]

I don't like it when anyone touches my face- even stroking/ petting, so being slapped is obviously a big no for me. But I do enjoy slapping, provided the other person can handle it. No cursing or crying or whimpering (tearing up is fine). That stinging sensation in your palm where you go on till you watch skin break, but he's stoically taking it ... It's even better when it's an unexpected slap- mouth open, lip cutting on teeth ... then you kiss and get that faint coppery taste of blood. mmmmm ... That's hot.

 

[StrayKat]

And ignorance is bliss

You can say that again.
To a mirror.

 

[evesdream]

It ain't mutual "pleasure, any more than it's physical rather than more psychological...

...and that's where the grave offense occurs - psychologically.

Eg: it must frustratingly bewilder you to no end having to live with the striking conflict of needing to project the sexist feminism you do on this Board so stoutly at times...

...yet intimately knowing you really only get off when a man intentionally mistreats you.

A man who gets his rocks off physically and/or verbally assaulting a woman and a woman who gets her rocks off from that physical and/or verbal assault...

...are simply two peas at different ends of the same psychologically insecure pod.

I've long recognized in my gender the insecurity which enslaves so many males to their infamous outbursts of rebellion against that psychological bondage; rebellion that almost exclusively always results in physical assault against another human being, and most of those times against a woman/women...

...if it was just their insecurity issues, the natural anger I feel against such unjustifiable rebellion resulting from them would serve me quite well. But when women voluntarily, yea even willfully, contribute their own insecurity issues to the abnormal equation, then I become more sad than anything.

And when I read an intelligent, beautiful woman post that her guy hitting her does nothing for her but she accepts it because it makes him happy, then I realize how so many women make themselves their own victims in so many psychologically unhealthy relationships...

...and the word "sad" becomes a champion understatement.

And then I'll read a post from some bozo who wonders that if there is a God, how could God allow such abuse to happen to such good people...

...and I'll shake my head once more because I understand such good people allow it to happen to themselves.

You're misunderstanding my response to tactful. No one is being routinely beaten black and blue chez eve, and you're conflating playful slaps and love taps with something else entirely.

I understand where you're coming from and what you're describing and how it might apply in various situations. But what we're talking about today is not the sustained, demoralizing battery that actually happens in abuse. This is like comparing children playing tag , (or rather something more deliberate and self-aware), with a dinner on the veldt.

 

[evesdream]

I'm no more a whole and enlightened person than anyone else, including you, but I'm learning from my mistakes.