an erotic smack in the face

[evesdream]

Butt slaps, just the noticeable ones, should only be applicable.

I'll tolerate that but I don't really like it in ordinary circumstances.

 

[toubab]

True.

Michael got carried away, apparently.

 

[Super-Surprise]

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[tactful]

I'll tolerate that but I don't really like it in ordinary circumstances.

Ok, only applicable, in certain circumstances.

 

[evesdream]

Ok, only applicable, in certain circumstances.

Better to be a forward thinker than a backward one

To your original post - I know it floats a lot of boats, but it's just not my cup of tea. I still put up with it a lot, because my SO really likes to do it.

 

[girlsmiley]

in my experience, it's a polarising subject.
it's either just wrong or it's *fapfapfap*
even in bdsm, it's where many draw the line.

so...?

Polarising, is it?



I'll be honest.

Never even HEARD of an "erotic slap to the face".

No. Just no.

This thread is one hell of a stretch.

 

[StrayKat]

I almost typed "that is hot" then I got back to my senses a bit.

I am so fucked

 

[eyer]

To your original post - I know it floats a lot of boats, but it's just not my cup of tea. I still put up with it a lot, because my SO really likes to do it.

And somewhere in the world...

...an entire flight of butterflies dies from weeping.

 

[Arianthe]

Ok. I'll admit to being sick and twisted enough to get off on being slapped in the face and choked out.

A couple of years back, I was in a 24/7 D/s relationship. We kinda fell down the rabbithole together and... turns out I'm just wired that way. It took the right guy, with the right skills and a whole lot of trust to go there though.

 

[girlsmiley]

Ok. I'll admit to being sick and twisted enough to get off on being slapped in the face and choked out.

A couple of years back, I was in a 24/7 D/s relationship. We kinda fell down the rabbithole together and... turns out I'm just wired that way. It took the right guy, with the right skills and a whole lot of trust to go there though.

Can you explain to me what's hot about being smacked in the face?

Because I truly do not understand why, or how a person could/would enjoy it.

Give us an example of a time that being slapped across the face was hot for you.

 

[Mischka]

A smack on the clit.

Yes, please.

Face slap?

No, thank you.

It's my line. Any pain play I enjoy is purely for the physical satisfaction of it. Face slapping distracts me from more pleasurable tasks at hand, and I don't get off on any emotional component of it. I default to cold and calculating; I am just not a good fit for the role playing that others do so well.

 

[tactful]

Better to be a forward thinker than a backward one

To your original post - I know it floats a lot of boats, but it's just not my cup of tea. I still put up with it a lot, because my SO really likes to do it.

It's a small lake, but it's a nice quiet lake.

 

[Arianthe]

Can you explain to me what's hot about being smacked in the face?

Because I truly do not understand why, or how a person could/would enjoy it.

Give us an example of a time that being slapped across the face was hot for you.

I'm not sure I can explain it, because I don't really understand the "why" of it myself. I just know that in that particular relationship, I found a certain combination of submission, pain and degradation a HUGE turn on. It shocked the shit out of me, frankly. I'm not a doormat. I've (luckily) never been in a physically abusive relationship and I wasn't abused as a child. I really do just seem to be "wired that way."

An example? He never ever slapped my face in anger or as punishment. He never did it in public. It was ONLY when we were having sex. I would ride him and he would slap my face and tits, urging me on to multiple orgasms. It was fucking hot!

 

[girlsmiley]

I'm not sure I can explain it, because I don't really understand the "why" of it myself. I just know that in that particular relationship, I found a certain combination of submission, pain and degradation a HUGE turn on. It shocked the shit out of me, frankly. I'm not a doormat. I've (luckily) never been in a physically abusive relationship and I wasn't abused as a child. I really do just seem to be "wired that way."

An example? He never ever slapped my face in anger or as punishment. He never did it in public. It was ONLY when we were having sex. I would ride him and he would slap my face and tits, urging me on to multiple orgasms. It was fucking hot!

Fair enough. Thank you for responding anyway.

Perth, eh? I just shipped a whole heap of stuff over to Subiaco. What's the weather like over there?

 

[Farrah]

I like it. A lot.

I also understand that I'm wired different than most.

 

[dolf]

On a summer afternoon I was on my knees and he was sitting at the edge of the bed during a particularly needy time in my life when I was a devoted and extremely reliable penis pleaser.
So I was focused and doing my best with his hand loosely holding the back of my head, when he slowly tightened his grip on my hair and pulled my head back to look into my face, and then he slapped me. Then pushed my face back down making me know that he wanted me to continue. So... I did. Then he did it again. It wasn't a super hard slap, but it wasn't gentle. And then he did it again and so the oral was punctuated by this, until he came. That was a turn on for me.

He never did it again and claims not to remember doing it or what inspired that bit of pervery. Just thinking about it for a long time afterwards gave me the thrill chills. I guess it was the shock of it.

that made me feel all tingly in my bathing suit area.

 

[girlsmiley]

I'll unsubscribe and make some space.

ETA: No offence about the unsubscribing. I'm a doer. Get to the point already.

I asked and one person answered. That's a dud thread when you don't really have the time to be on lit x

 

[StrayKat]

We kinda fell down the rabbithole together and... turns out I'm just wired that way. It took the right guy, with the right skills and a whole lot of trust to go there though.

I am still falling and dont even know everything I might be wired for yet, but that "right guy with the right skills and trust" part resonates so well.

 

[Dionysian Beast]

Perhaps if the lady is really into it, I could be convinced to participate, but it's certainly not something I have or love to do.

 

[tactful]

On a summer afternoon I was on my knees and he was sitting at the edge of the bed during a particularly needy time in my life when I was a devoted and extremely reliable penis pleaser.
So I was focused and doing my best with his hand loosely holding the back of my head, when he slowly tightened his grip on my hair and pulled my head back to look into my face, and then he kissed me. Then pushed my face back down making me know that he wanted me to continue. So... I did. Then he did it again. It wasn't a hard kiss, it was very gentle. And then he did it again and so the oral was punctuated by this, until he came. That was a turn on for me.

Never liked abuse, especially when someone is vulnerable.

 

[dolf]

the first guy to smack me in the face was daily, the bastard. after a delightful but platonic vacation together, in the middle of a crowded airport and *CRACK* dozens of heads swivelled as the noise ricochets. and that's where it all started.

the next was a guy I dated for a short time. that was the first time during sex. we'd be making out and then, out of nowhere, he'd start slapping me all over. then rougher making out. a bit of degradation. arserape. I liked the guy but not enough to stay with him, but I was hooked on those two acts. once we were debating islam and the fucker took to me with a stick 'no thicker than his thumb' which was shocking but strangely hot too. the sex was ok, but I think I only enjoyed it for the novelty of the violence.

the last guy is the finest fuck in the whole damn world. face slapping was just the icing on the cake.

 

[dolf]

Never liked abuse, especially when someone is vulnerable.

his knob was between her teeth. who was really vulnerable?

 

[trysail]

in my experience, it's a polarising subject.
it's either just wrong or it's *fapfapfap*
even in bdsm, it's where many draw the line.

so...?

This is an area where one should neither generalise nor rely on the word of others. Proceed very cautiously— if at all.


"No" means "No."


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[dolf]

This is an area where one should neither generalise nor rely on the word of others. Proceed very cautiously— if at all.


"No" means "No."


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and if ''yes please'' means ''yes please''...?

 

[tactful]

his knob was between her teeth. who was really vulnerable?

Good point, and well taken.