Confused/Need some help

[Jack199]

So, I am usually a strong and strict Dom. However, recently I have begun to wonder what it would be like to be a sub for a mistress. But idk where to look or how to start, or anything :/
Can anyone give me advice on transitioning from a Dom to a Sub, and how to find a mistress who will be willing to teach me?

 

[Sir_Winston54]

Read a lot of other threads in this forum, especially those about confusion/newness, plus Stella's usual rant (<--click me!), and join Fetlife (it's free!).

 

[KlaytonFrost]

Try Fetlife as a good starting point. If you're not on there already it can be a good place to lurk to pick up useful advice and learn about the culture in your area and elsewhere. It's also a stepping stone to going to events, where you stand a chance of meeting someone in the flesh who might be able to fulfil your needs.

 

[StrayKat]

So, I am usually a strong and strict Dom. However, recently I have begun to wonder what it would be like to be a sub for a mistress. But idk where to look or how to start, or anything :/
Can anyone give me advice on transitioning from a Dom to a Sub, and how to find a mistress who will be willing to teach me?

I would say the same way you started about being a dom. You may switch in bed but that doesnt have to mean you need to switch your entire personality. You just change the role when the time comes and the feeling is right.
So if you had no problems finding subs I dont see why you should have problems finding a domme.

 

[DarkSteven]

You're not looking to transition from Dom to sub. You're looking at trying on being sub and seeing how well that fits.

If it's play only you seek - go to parties and meet people.