Should I JO with neighbor?

[Curiousguy3825]

I've always thought it would be great to have a roommate or neighbor to jerk off with whenever the mood hit and after some poking around on CL, found a guy that lives in my neighborhood. Now it seems the reality of it kind of makes me nervous. I've always been able to walk away from any situation that wasn't right without issue, but this won't be possible. Neither of us consider ourselves gay, but just horny guys that need some relief once in awhile.

Now we don't know where each other live, but we know we're in the same little neighborhood and both a little cautious of letting out too much info. Is it worth the risk? Should I dive in? Just a recipe for disaster?

 

[Trimjob69]

I've always thought it would be great to have a roommate or neighbor to jerk off with whenever the mood hit and after some poking around on CL, found a guy that lives in my neighborhood. Now it seems the reality of it kind of makes me nervous. I've always been able to walk away from any situation that wasn't right without issue, but this won't be possible. Neither of us consider ourselves gay, but just horny guys that need some relief once in awhile.

Now we don't know where each other live, but we know we're in the same little neighborhood and both a little cautious of letting out too much info. Is it worth the risk? Should I dive in? Just a recipe for disaster?

Maybe you could first meet somewhere else and see how it goes

 

[Curiousguy3825]

We've discussed that and the big issue is one of us might know the other when we first get face to face. Its almost like neither of us want that upper hand.

 

[tmmmbrrr]

Then just let it be. Its waaay not worth getting stressed out about.
Keep doing whatever it is you're doing and if there never comes a time when getting together seems like the most natural thing in the world, then you're probably right where you should be.

 

[Curiousguy3825]

Then just let it be. Its waaay not worth getting stressed out about.
Keep doing whatever it is you're doing and if there never comes a time when getting together seems like the most natural thing in the world, then you're probably right where you should be.

Wow. Most sane advice I've ever read on a erotica forum.

 

[speakerfrank]

I've always thought it would be great to have a roommate or neighbor to jerk off with whenever the mood hit and after some poking around on CL, found a guy that lives in my neighborhood. Now it seems the reality of it kind of makes me nervous. I've always been able to walk away from any situation that wasn't right without issue, but this won't be possible. Neither of us consider ourselves gay, but just horny guys that need some relief once in awhile.

Now we don't know where each other live, but we know we're in the same little neighborhood and both a little cautious of letting out too much info. Is it worth the risk? Should I dive in? Just a recipe for disaster?

I would love to be in your "pre-dick-ament"! Seriously that would be my ideal situation. So have a face to face and discuss your wants and needs, your do's and don'ts. Make it a public place for the first time. If nothing else, you will always have a reason to say "Hi-didly-ho Neighbor" when you see him. If it works you can say "I-didly-you Neighbor".

 

[bluesky496]

I've always thought it would be great to have a roommate or neighbor to jerk off with whenever the mood hit and after some poking around on CL, found a guy that lives in my neighborhood. Now it seems the reality of it kind of makes me nervous. I've always been able to walk away from any situation that wasn't right without issue, but this won't be possible. Neither of us consider ourselves gay, but just horny guys that need some relief once in awhile.

Now we don't know where each other live, but we know we're in the same little neighborhood and both a little cautious of letting out too much info. Is it worth the risk? Should I dive in? Just a recipe for disaster?

try meeting somewhere neutral and see if you are both comfortable with it before you dive in, if you both feel you can trust each other then take the plunge ,otherwise walk away .

 

[nudeguy76]

sounds good

The most difficult part of meeting up with a guy to play with is actually meeting him. You both have been chatting....and you both want the same thing. If it turns out you know each other, that should make it easier for you. You will be sucking his dick soon, and if you guys are already friendly, you will be able to spend time with him much easier.

 

[klippert]

I've always thought it would be great to have a roommate or neighbor to jerk off with whenever the mood hit and after some poking around on CL, found a guy that lives in my neighborhood. Now it seems the reality of it kind of makes me nervous. I've always been able to walk away from any situation that wasn't right without issue, but this won't be possible. Neither of us consider ourselves gay, but just horny guys that need some relief once in awhile.

Now we don't know where each other live, but we know we're in the same little neighborhood and both a little cautious of letting out too much info. Is it worth the risk? Should I dive in? Just a recipe for disaster?

First, are you both married, single or one married the other single...just asking.

Here's a great way to handle this first meet... tell him, your contact, You'll be mowing the lawn, or working in the yd...wearing a hat (color choice is your's) shirt, (color choice is yours)

He can deiced for himself if he wants too take a walk or drive. If yes, friendly chit-chat at the curb....total ice breaker. Have a little signal. I know. sounds dopey, a phrase or he wears a hat. if it happens, you don't have to get right into..."lets jack-off". The best way for these situations is friendship first.

You don't have to be a deviant like most on CL

 

[Curiousguy3825]

Both married, happily. It started off just trying to find a JO buddy for something every once in awhile. He's been out of out while we e-mail and the more we email, the more we trust each other. He wants to swallow a load or two. He wants me to fuck him and cum inside of him. It sounds crazy, but I know he isn't cruising CL for fucks every day, so I know he is clean. I KNOW I'm clean, so it seems so tempting.

One issue is we have no place to meet to fuck around because neither of us want to host. I'm concerned with telling him where I live and I think he feels the same, but the neighborhood is so small as soon as we meet we'll know where each other lives, or quickly figure it out. For example, as soon as he sees what I drive, a 5 min drive through the hood will tell you which house is mine.

I guess the fear is it won't work out or one will walk away and then there will be this weird tension if we run into each other at some neighborhood function. I think the other fear is once we know each other, we can pretty much ruin the others life by narking. Even though we both don't think that will happen, it is still a possibility.

 

[nakedboater69]

You got the perfect setup and can't see it you're both helpless, walk away and don't bother each other.

 

[longtimehubby]

well, why not just go for it? See if you like it? I dont' think he would nark on you because it would be narking on himself.

 

[Curiousguy3825]

well, why not just go for it? See if you like it? I dont' think he would nark on you because it would be narking on himself.

That's true, but maybe he doesn't care. Maybe he gets careless and his wife catches him and I am outed?

Don't get me wrong, if we're both single this is a no brainer. It sounds like a really fun time, but at the end of the day, I am not sure the risk is worth a few orgasms.

 

[longtimehubby]

what about inviting him over for coffee,and see what the atmosphere is like? You may both be very attracted to each other, and see where that goes. Or, you both may realize it's not going to be sexual, but now you've got a new friend, and that's cool too.

 

[longtimehubby]

I doubt he'd be careless, nor would you.

 

[nakedboater69]

You don't want to do anything you just get off talking about it.

 

[longtimehubby]

No, I think he does want to do something. but it is a very BIG step and he's a little concerned, cautious, etc.

 

[Curiousguy3825]

I keep thinking we should both just meet at x street and x ave at 11pm one night. Shake hands, say hello, etc. But I guess its kind of this fear of having someone know your secret and knowing where you live.

 

[longtimehubby]

I'm sure there's an affordable motel nearby if they are not comfy doing things at either's house.

 

[nakedboater69]

Bullshit

 

[longtimehubby]

don't like the mystery meeting. Better meeting at a coffee shop or somewhere casual. why all the concern about knowing where you live?

 

[Curiousguy3825]

No, I think he does want to do something. but it is a very BIG step and he's a little concerned, cautious, etc.

Bingo. This isn't even an issue if said person lived 15 min away. We have so much in common, I'd meet him just meet him. If it didn't work out, no big deal. Other than email there is no real way to find each other. In this situation, say we agree to walk away, but 2 years later his itch comes back, now he can just knock on my door.

 

[nakedboater69]

I'm sure there's an affordable motel nearby if they are not comfy doing things at either's house.

But what if the Motel caught on fire and they where on the news?

 

[longtimehubby]

and if he does knock on your door, and if you are not interested, that's it. But I don't think he will

 

[longtimehubby]

if the motel catches on fire? Well, I suppose they were having a HOT time. (Sorry, bad joke). You can't go around life worrying about what if and what about this or that. Go for it.