what's real lesbian porn?

[Hanon435]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7tyDGJCGNlI
6 Things About Lesbians
jasonhorton

this youtube video says 99% of lesbian porn is fake.

so what is real lesbian porn? I need to know.

I'm straight btw. they accused me of influencing lesbian porn. I'm all for authentic porn.

 

[CNYCarol]

Most lesbian porn is BS.

Abby Winters has the most realistic I have ever seen.

There are some amateur lesbian videos out there that could be good, but for the most part, quality is lacking.

Abby is able to fill the gap.

 

[dystracted]

Most lesbian porn is BS.

Abby Winters has the most realistic I have ever seen.

There are some amateur lesbian videos out there that could be good, but for the most part, quality is lacking.

Abby is able to fill the gap.

I don't watch porn a lot, because typically it's just a series of trivial clit licking scenes...
I'd watch it, if there would be a real story of seduction and slow build-up behiind, accompanied by high quality pictures, and they shouldn't show close-ups of clits, but try to get across the attraction between two women...there might be some naked skin too, but in a decent fashion...

 

[jodylee]

God bless Abby Winters ;-). Although I'm not a lesbian, this is the sort of experience I hope to enjoy, with hubby, of course... I've heard that too, that most "lesbian" porn is not realistic in any way, so I'd love to hear about some more realistic and normal sex habits of two ladies who love each other.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Lili Cade is the real thing. She's a gold star lesbian,and she makes her own movies. http://www.lilycade.com/blog/

Nina Hartley says she is bisexual, and I would guess she's a bisexual lesbian, rather than a bisexual straight girl, if you get my meaning-- Watch anything between her and another woman that was filmed later than maybe '99-ish, and you will probably see real lesbians. It depends on who was paying for the film and behind the camera, but by that point she would have had a lot more control.

The Crash Pad series is another place for the good stuff, if you can afford it..

 

[JawnKarTurr]

Several women who do porn have commented that their lesbian scenes aren't real to them. Though I know some of Jenna Jameson's best selling films that were given awards were the films she did with other women. Frankly at least one I know they just had fun and it was filmed in an intimate setting.

For the most part porn is a lot of stop and start with pauses to move cameras, take still photos, and yes even break for lunch. So you're not even watching sex where people are into it and having fun. Some film makers have released the problem with that formula including some lesbian ones....I recall one small company only had women who identified as lesbians and they found it made a better film.

Hey if it isn't fun at home it will not look fun on the screen.

 

[Dyslexicea]

God bless Abby Winters ;-). Although I'm not a lesbian, this is the sort of experience I hope to enjoy, with hubby, of course... I've heard that too, that most "lesbian" porn is not realistic in any way, so I'd love to hear about some more realistic and normal sex habits of two ladies who love each other.

Your assumption that there is such a thing as "normal lesbian sex habits" is for the most part wrong. We are people, just like you, we are all different so naturally we don't all like the same things.

There are lesbians who are strictly bottoms, pillow queens, do on to me I'm not going to do on to you. There are lesbians who are strictly tops, I'll do on to you everything you love but don't do me. Neither of these are my type, I love receiving but I love pleasuring just as much, I love even more giving and receiving at the same time.

Some of us like penetration, some of us don't and the don't can even mean a finger. For some it varies, sometime penetration is fine other times it isn't. The nice thing about being a lesbian is it doesn't matter, I love to use my fingers and hand but if she doesn't want that I can pleasure her in so many other ways. In truth, unlike straight sex her body really is my playground.

Most of us like toys but not all of us, some of us like to use a strap-on but that isn't universal.

The only thing I can say is close to universal is kissing and touching. The love of my life and I can spend hours just making out.

Least I forget we do a lot of tribbing, which can include scissoring, vulva to vulva tribbing. Tribbing is also close to universal but scissoring is not, scissoring does take a lot of flexibility and it can become uncomfortable in a short time.

Oral sex, which most seem to think is universal, is for most of us only a small part of making love, some lesbian love to receive but won't give and the reverse is also true, some don't like oral sex at all. Thankfully most of us love giving and receiving. One caution if you aren't sure of the woman you're having sex with, oral should be off the table, unless you use an oral dam, scissoring should also be off the table as both oral and scissoring are the most likely to transmit an STI.

BDSM, anal sex, fisting and much more, I could go on and on.

By the way if you think "with hubby, of course.." is going to happen with one of us you'll be waiting a long, long time, you'll have better luck with someone who's bisexual but that doesn't mean she'll want a threesome.

 

[Hanon435]

finally. thanks. so lesbian porn is all scissoring and oral and that's not realistic. got it.

 

[emap]

Actually no, lesbian porn is generally not even sex to begin with because it's porn. See, porn isn't sex, it's about as true as the weekend late night movies on Cinemax, may be nice to watch but for the people on the screen most of it doesn't feel good.

Especially for women in porn, most of us NEED our clits rubbed to get off. Think about that, when was the last time you saw the man fucking a gal in porn where their hips are pressed tight?

Worse for the lesbian porn because not all of them are bi at least. So while you watch a woman moving her tongue around her lover's clit, does she actually touch it much? Last time I watched lesbian porn the answer to that was a big huge no. Also, they fall together on the bed, kiss a little, one goes down on the other and licks for thirty seconds then they break out vibrators or strap ons. Where's the passion?????

See us gals are not like guys, we don't rub something for five seconds and shove it in our lover and call it perfect. We kiss and rub, our hands explore each other. Probably some nipple sucking goes on, maybe a hicky or two, then if both sides want some oral action one slides down to lick. Quicky lesbian sex is half an hour, not really but bear with me, quicky straight or gay sex is five minutes if that.

Lesbian porn is quicky sex, catered to a guy.

 

[joelafayette]

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[CNYCarol]

Your assumption that there is such a thing as "normal lesbian sex habits" is for the most part wrong. We are people, just like you, we are all different so naturally we don't all like the same things.

There are lesbians who are strictly bottoms, pillow queens, do on to me I'm not going to do on to you. There are lesbians who are strictly tops, I'll do on to you everything you love but don't do me. Neither of these are my type, I love receiving but I love pleasuring just as much, I love even more giving and receiving at the same time.

Some of us like penetration, some of us don't and the don't can even mean a finger. For some it varies, sometime penetration is fine other times it isn't. The nice thing about being a lesbian is it doesn't matter, I love to use my fingers and hand but if she doesn't want that I can pleasure her in so many other ways. In truth, unlike straight sex her body really is my playground.

Most of us like toys but not all of us, some of us like to use a strap-on but that isn't universal.

The only thing I can say is close to universal is kissing and touching. The love of my life and I can spend hours just making out.

Least I forget we do a lot of tribbing, which can include scissoring, vulva to vulva tribbing. Tribbing is also close to universal but scissoring is not, scissoring does take a lot of flexibility and it can become uncomfortable in a short time.

Oral sex, which most seem to think is universal, is for most of us only a small part of making love, some lesbian love to receive but won't give and the reverse is also true, some don't like oral sex at all. Thankfully most of us love giving and receiving. One caution if you aren't sure of the woman you're having sex with, oral should be off the table, unless you use an oral dam, scissoring should also be off the table as both oral and scissoring are the most likely to transmit an STI.

BDSM, anal sex, fisting and much more, I could go on and on.

By the way if you think "with hubby, of course.." is going to happen with one of us you'll be waiting a long, long time, you'll have better luck with someone who's bisexual but that doesn't mean she'll want a threesome.

Very well said...

 

[Seamen]

To be quite honest I feel real and porn are pretty much a contradiction in terms. I mean, you have an entire film crew and a script, so it's basically what you see on the telly, just that the performers have no clothes on. Real and fake aren't really the criterion here. I would imagine the only real porn out there would be the amateur stuff, just for the fact that real people are doing it. Considering that even real people fake it sometimes, well, it appears that the only thing that seems to be possible is a "willing suspension of disbelief "

 

[JaxRhapsody]

Lesbian porn is a bus driver and a gym teacher arguing over who's turn to clean the litterbox.

 

[lacy]

anyone know where you can watch some of the videos from those lesbian porn sites for free?

 

[Trimjob69]

anyone know where you can watch some of the videos from those lesbian porn sites for free?

Www.xhamster.com

 

[EuropeJenn]

I tend to find the videos labeled "girls kissing" the most realistic.

 

[CapnCuddly]

Lesbian porn is a bus driver and a gym teacher arguing over who's turn to clean the litterbox.

This ^^

 

[Stella_Omega]

yeah, we know it's a joke, dudes, but really. SO not.

 

[JaxRhapsody]

yeah, we know it's a joke, dudes, but really. SO not.

Bwahahaha, the op was asking for it, and you know it.

 

[DDebby]

Your assumption that there is such a thing as "normal lesbian sex habits" is for the most part wrong. We are people, just like you, we are all different so naturally we don't all like the same things.

There are lesbians who are strictly bottoms, pillow queens, do on to me I'm not going to do on to you. There are lesbians who are strictly tops, I'll do on to you everything you love but don't do me. Neither of these are my type, I love receiving but I love pleasuring just as much, I love even more giving and receiving at the same time.

Some of us like penetration, some of us don't and the don't can even mean a finger. For some it varies, sometime penetration is fine other times it isn't. The nice thing about being a lesbian is it doesn't matter, I love to use my fingers and hand but if she doesn't want that I can pleasure her in so many other ways. In truth, unlike straight sex her body really is my playground.

Most of us like toys but not all of us, some of us like to use a strap-on but that isn't universal.

The only thing I can say is close to universal is kissing and touching. The love of my life and I can spend hours just making out.

Least I forget we do a lot of tribbing, which can include scissoring, vulva to vulva tribbing. Tribbing is also close to universal but scissoring is not, scissoring does take a lot of flexibility and it can become uncomfortable in a short time.

Oral sex, which most seem to think is universal, is for most of us only a small part of making love, some lesbian love to receive but won't give and the reverse is also true, some don't like oral sex at all. Thankfully most of us love giving and receiving. One caution if you aren't sure of the woman you're having sex with, oral should be off the table, unless you use an oral dam, scissoring should also be off the table as both oral and scissoring are the most likely to transmit an STI.

BDSM, anal sex, fisting and much more, I could go on and on.

By the way if you think "with hubby, of course.." is going to happen with one of us you'll be waiting a long, long time, you'll have better luck with someone who's bisexual but that doesn't mean she'll want a threesome.

That is totally on the money. You wrote that so much better than I was thinking, I can't agree more.. Great job.
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[Fadogirl2014]

Your assumption that there is such a thing as "normal lesbian sex habits" is for the most part wrong. We are people, just like you, we are all different so naturally we don't all like the same things.

There are lesbians who are strictly bottoms, pillow queens, do on to me I'm not going to do on to you. There are lesbians who are strictly tops, I'll do on to you everything you love but don't do me. Neither of these are my type, I love receiving but I love pleasuring just as much, I love even more giving and receiving at the same time.

Some of us like penetration, some of us don't and the don't can even mean a finger. For some it varies, sometime penetration is fine other times it isn't. The nice thing about being a lesbian is it doesn't matter, I love to use my fingers and hand but if she doesn't want that I can pleasure her in so many other ways. In truth, unlike straight sex her body really is my playground.

Most of us like toys but not all of us, some of us like to use a strap-on but that isn't universal.

The only thing I can say is close to universal is kissing and touching. The love of my life and I can spend hours just making out.

Least I forget we do a lot of tribbing, which can include scissoring, vulva to vulva tribbing. Tribbing is also close to universal but scissoring is not, scissoring does take a lot of flexibility and it can become uncomfortable in a short time.

Oral sex, which most seem to think is universal, is for most of us only a small part of making love, some lesbian love to receive but won't give and the reverse is also true, some don't like oral sex at all. Thankfully most of us love giving and receiving. One caution if you aren't sure of the woman you're having sex with, oral should be off the table, unless you use an oral dam, scissoring should also be off the table as both oral and scissoring are the most likely to transmit an STI.

BDSM, anal sex, fisting and much more, I could go on and on.

By the way if you think "with hubby, of course.." is going to happen with one of us you'll be waiting a long, long time, you'll have better luck with someone who's bisexual but that doesn't mean she'll want a threesome.

I had no clue there are "tops" and "bottoms" between lesbians too. Is this true? Are they really lesbians that only like to give pleasure and others that like only receiving it or am I missing something?
Doesn't the "top" want some attention too?

 

[Dyslexicea]

I had no clue there are "tops" and "bottoms" between lesbians too. Is this true? Are they really lesbians that only like to give pleasure and others that like only receiving it or am I missing something?
Doesn't the "top" want some attention too?

I wouldn't have written it if it wasn't true! Defining top as the one who gives pleasure and the bottom as the one who receives pleasure, for most of us we play both roles and most of the time playing both roles simultaneously.

What motivates a lesbian who's strictly a top or one who's strictly a bottom I can only speculate.

I'm assuming for a pillow queen it's strictly selfishness but when I compare a lesbian bottom to the heteronormative world I'd say you'd find the majority of pillow queens to be men, at least judging by how sexually frustrated many straight women are, he gets his she rarely gets hers.

I really don' know what motivates a top I'd guess some are asexual but still have a desire to give sexual pleasure to their partners.

My original post really wasn't meant to be about tops or bottoms just that we are just as varied in our sexual practices as those who happen to be straight or bisexual, maybe even more so.

 

[Magnetron]

I'm involved in the online adult industry to a minor degree as an affiliate of porn sites, but I can honestly say that 99% of "lesbian porn" is manufactured by men and marketed to men with as little creative inpout from women as possible.

My personal preference is that of a woman going to town on another woman with a strapon and doing it like a man. Oddly enough, very little of this occurs in the aforementioned 99%.

As a man who writes poetry about lesbians from time to time ( often from the perspective of a woman as I tend to slip into a female persona when I write such ), I probably still don't even come close to describing what the experience is really like.

And I have already put in my application to be lesbian in my next incarnation.

 

[PricelessT]

Well, as another woman and lesbian, I don't have anything to add to the discussion that hasn't already been stated...except that, if it's not obvious to some, scissoring is not the only way to achieve vulva-to-vulva contact when it comes to tribbing. It can certainly be achieved in the missionary position, which is a common sex position among women for that aspect of tribbing (far more common than scissoring, it seems), and some women prefer to rub their vulva on the other woman's pubic bone while in the missionary position.

Oh, and I definitely feel that lesbian porn is generally catered to men.

 

[PricelessT]

My personal preference is that of a woman going to town on another woman with a strapon and doing it like a man. Oddly enough, very little of this occurs in the aforementioned 99%.

Hmm, I think strap-on sex is quite common in lesbian porn, especially considering that it's a type of sex the general public often imagines lesbians engaging in when they do think about lesbians having sex.