Guys, after you cum are you "done" or ready for more?

[EbonyTigress]

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[boutrosboutros]

The answer is, it depends.

If I'm very turned on, the sex has been great, and I'm really into the woman, then I can do what you suggest - continue to play, pay attention to her, and be ready to go again. Sometimes, actually, it's possible to "follow through" the orgasm and keep going by pausing for a moment and focusing.

But it's often the case after "normal" sex that I'm actively turned off after climax. It must be hard to imagine if you're a woman, but it's just a feeling of being down. Not as in depressed but just a bit low-energy and dim and lifeless. All I want to do is get up and get a drink of water - or maybe sleep. If it's a girl I'm not hugely into then for a few minutes I can actively dislike her presence around me after I've orgasmed.

Of course, that post-fuck downer goes away fairly quickly - in a few minutes. But it's definitely there.

 

[silverwhisper]

me personally, i've been with the same woman for close to 2 decades and after the first one, i'm done...unless it's an unusual evening.

however, i'm probably not in the demographic you're interested in learning more about.

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[NippleMuncher]

I would also say that it depends. In my younger days, I would love to cuddle and play until I got hard again for another round. Now that I'm middle aged, it seems more of a "one and done" kind of thing, however, with the right woman, I can definitely see wanting to continue. If my partner gives as good as she gets, then you can better believe that I'm going to want another go as soon as possible, that might be after a nap, but who can't use a good power nap now and again?

 

[jakereeder22]

Guys that I have been with might cum once from foreplay (A BJ or whatever), then are content to play around and pay attention to me until they are able to get "ready for action" again. However, I've also heard some guys say that they only like to cum when it's the "real deal" because after they do, they are turned off and uninterestedndhdhdjsjsnnsnsjshxhxhz

 

[DesEsseintes]

I don't usually lose hardness after I cum - for me losing my erection only happens when it starts to hurt (friction burns/lack of lubrication) and there are several pleasurable ways round that, or when stimulation stops.

It does take me quite some time to ejaculate again after the first one, unless it's been a VERY long time since my last orgasm - weeks rather than days. So girls/women that get off on cum aren't going to get that much after the first one, or certainly two - but the erection won't go down until I'm physically exhausted, or the sex winds right down to a halt.

 

[norfolklad]

With one recent girlfriend I found the ability to have what I can only really describe as a partial climax - most of the sensation but not the ejaculation. I could then lie there inside her, almost fully erect, and give her a chance to recover from cumming, before starting again. Her contractions and increasing tightness only served to re-arouse me, not to squeeze me out. It needed care because she would often feel very sensitive, especially if our foreplay had been prolonged. I think that three times of this cycle was generally as much as I could manage before I did, finally, cum.

Don't ask me how I did it, I have no idea. It may have had something to do with our extended foreplay that had encouraged me to come off the boil, as it were, plus the fact that she never went down on me or touched me a great deal.

 

[BurningMonkey]

After I cum I lose my arousal completely for a short time. I've experienced it many times and know that's just the way I'm wired.

We fuck (or she sucks or jacks) and I cum, and suddenly my interest in sex just disappears altogether for a short time. During that period she can masturbate for me but it won't matter--I'm just not interested. With my wife I still play with her pussy or give oral--I like knowing that I'm giving her pleasure--but it is strictly a one-sided exercise. I just don't feel it.

Because of this I prefer to do the long foreplay as jakereeder22 does, giving her as many orgasms as she likes or wants before I cum myself. And as I said, the interval in question doesn't last long--maybe as much as 20 minutes at the longest--and then Mr. Stiffy is twitching again. But during that time I'd rather just cuddle and talk, or sleep.

 

[jehoram]

I'm much the same as Burning Monkey. After I cum, I practically faint. All energy leaves me. Some of my partners were very concerned about that; others took it as sign that I didn't care about them once I'd orgasmed, and were offended. I tried to explain that I just couldn't help it, but I guess they'd heard that line before.

But after about five minutes, I'm stimulated again, and after about twenty minutes, I'm getting hard again.

 

[BlueyeGuy51]

My drive slightly ebbs after the first climax, but within minutes it's building up again. When I was younger I had no refractory period at all. I just stayed hard after cumming and was ready to keep going at it. Have always felt fortunate in this way.

 

[Wondermonkey]

I think you'll find every guy a bit different and each can vary over time as well. When I was young I always took care of my partner first, because when I popped I was out like a light - but shake me after 2 minutes or let me wake up on my own in 10-20min and I was hard as rock and ready.

Nowadays I'm "one and done" - but it varies as to whether I will have the follow through left to assist my lady to her finish, half the time I will, half the time my post-climax blues are harsh enough I don't want to even touch her sexually.

 

[rthnck]

For me it's all about my partner. After I orgasm I'm eager to continue if my partner is up for it. So for me it's all about enthusiasm. Sure it might take me a little while to be ready to go again but we can use the time for her. If a woman was spread on the bed masturbating for me, there is no doubt that there will be a round 2 or whatever she wants for however long she wants. My libido knows no bounds....

 

[QuantumJumping]

Depends

On the person you're fucking

 

[QuantumJumping]

Science

I'm much the same as Burning Monkey. After I cum, I practically faint. All energy leaves me. Some of my partners were very concerned about that; others took it as sign that I didn't care about them once I'd orgasmed, and were offended. I tried to explain that I just couldn't help it, but I guess they'd heard that line before.

But after about five minutes, I'm stimulated again, and after about twenty minutes, I'm getting hard again.

The endorphin release is knocking you out.

 

[Que]

If I cum we are probably both delightfully done. She probably with a baleful eye on the clock.

 

[fma20fma]

hi

If my guy is done in one episode.i will not think of him again.

 

[Que]

If I am being honest....at this point in life, I may not get done, but if I do, I am certainly ready for a sedate cuddle.

 

[RedheadedSlutL]

If my guy is done in one episode.i will not think of him again.

Sing it sister!

Or he better be really at other things

 

[charlie069]

Done

After I cum I lose my arousal completely for a short time. I've experienced it many times and know that's just the way I'm wired.

We fuck (or she sucks or jacks) and I cum, and suddenly my interest in sex just disappears altogether for a short time. During that period she can masturbate for me but it won't matter--I'm just not interested. With my wife I still play with her pussy or give oral--I like knowing that I'm giving her pleasure--but it is strictly a one-sided exercise. I just don't feel it.

Because of this I prefer to do the long foreplay as jakereeder22 does, giving her as many orgasms as she likes or wants before I cum myself. And as I said, the interval in question doesn't last long--maybe as much as 20 minutes at the longest--and then Mr. Stiffy is twitching again. But during that time I'd rather just cuddle and talk, or sleep.

Pretty much the same, its not that i am not interested i would love to continue on just that a flacid dick doesn't do much for my wife. I can still stimulate her but it is a least an hour before i can get hard enough. In the Words of the 70's and 80's record Label (Stiff Records) "if it ain't Stiff it ain't worth a Fuck"

 

[Lord Pmann]

They call this The Rainshine Syndrome

 

[October46]

I think it depends on your partner! Some times I just climax and then lay there playing with my partner. Other times I have partners that are really horny and they get my engine running shortly after I climax. Love it when this happens!

 

[Lord Pmann]

Fucker. I can't help it. I don't know why!!

Maybe your clitoris is a little baby penis?

 

[Mr_Jon_Thon]

Every situation and partner is different. Anticipation, foreplay, sexiness of the partner, energy level, they all play a part. It helps if I know before the race starts if I’m expected to run a marathon or half a dozen sprints. Putting on a show after I’ve cum won’t ever be turned down. Sometimes it’s reenergized me and other times it’s actually turned me off. Again, every situation is different.

 

[suckonsimon]

I've always been a cum and done kind of geyser, which has suited my woman especially as I would nearly always expect to take her to a big O at least once before it happens for me. A surprising bonus for me now that I'm older is that there are times when I know I'm just not going to cum, even when the action is seriously hot; we both love it that on those occasions, when she is ready to calm down some, I'll still be at full stonker in her, and we can lie together, joined, resting, gyrating some, caressing, and it can go on and on. We like that a lot.

 

[Mr.G]

Direct them to

my TRY THIS and REPORT BACK thread. Then after they cum they can drive you INSANE for a few minutes / hours / days until they are ready to have regular sex again. Thumbs don't lose their erection.

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70892