Male masturbation techniques.

[gerrynylon]

Hi, would anyone like to share any masturbation tips? I am Gerry, and I'm a wanker! Seriously though, I love to play but find my technique somewhat limited. Any tips or advice greatly appreciated. There seems to be a tremendous amount of experience on here, and I would be a fool not to draw upon it. This is a serious request, many thanks.

 

[Mike4fun]

Slide a finger in your arse..

 

[gerrynylon]

I've never had anything up my ass, does it hurt? Does it not make you have homosexual tendencies?

 

[Mike4fun]

I've never had anything up my ass, does it hurt? Does it not make you have homosexual tendencies?

How old are you?

 

[gerrynylon]

I'm 49. ?????? Does that make a difference?

 

[Mike4fun]

I'm 49. ?????? Does that make a difference?

Nope. No, it doesn't hurt and has nothing to do with sexual orientation.

 

[suckonsimon]

A guy deserves the right space and context for some solo pleasure: for me, that is a warm bedroom so that I can be naked on top of the bed and comfortable. I like a story to read, as looking at pictures is not my scene. We use a lube made by durex which has no sticky jell feel about it. I find it's gorgeous between my hand and my tool. I like to lie on my back, just a bit propped up with pillows so I can enjoy the scene. If I've the time, edging is good, so that eventually when I go the whole way there is a lot of the milky stuff and it spurts well. I love to spatter my chest as well as my belly and pubic hair. You want the whole story? I enjoy looking at my cum on me, as it begins to thicken slightly, and then to take it on my fingers and drool it into my mouth. A sort of three course meal: the leisurely erotic read and build; the big pump action up to the spunk; the come down with cum to savor.

That's me - not often as my woman gets the most-est share ...

Simon

 

[gerrynylon]

Thanks Simon, appreciated. Can you tell me what the lube is called, and what is edging? Sorry I haven't heard that before.

 

[gerrynylon]

Can anyone else describe edging??

 

[Beck31]

Edging

This is where you build up to release but back off so it all kind of resettles.
Some can do this for hours without having an eruption for lack of a better word
Simply put you bring yourself to the edge of release as many times as possible without actually ejaculating.
The few times I do actually 'milk the snake', I usually have a pic or two to help move things along.

 

[Mike4fun]

This is where you build up to release but back off so it all kind of resettles.
Some can do this for hours without having an eruption for lack of a better word
Simply put you bring yourself to the edge of release as many times as possible without actually ejaculating.
The few times I do actually 'milk the snake', I usually have a pic or two to help move things along.

Spot on; as you feel you're getting close, stop and gently squeeze your cock head (will distance your climax), then start again and enjoy!

 

[gerrynylon]

Thank you so much guys, I will try it now. Any other tips??? I should be in the currently masturbating thread.

 

[suckonsimon]

Thank you so much guys, I will try it now. Any other tips??? I should be in the currently masturbating thread.

Hey Gerry, wasn't around to answer about edging but Beck's description is the best! [Cheers Beck my friend]. The lube I mentioned - as I see you are in the UK the place to get it is Boots. "Durex Play - 3X longer lasting perfect glide" is what it says on the bottle. It'll be with the condoms.

And ... good to have a how to thread - not really the same as what the 'currently ..' thread is for.

Cheers mate.

 

[sterculius]

My favorite masturbation technique involves energetically throat fucking myself with a very large realistic skin dildo while watching blowjob clips on the computer. As a teenager, whenever I used to blow my friend, he would tightly hold onto my head and force his huge cock completely down my throat! This would get me so excited that I would often ejaculate purely from this erotic stimulation alone of being roughly throatfucked. I learned to associate the sensations in my mouth and throat with sexual arousal to the point that I now require little or no direct contact with my erection. It's as if my throat has become a sexual organ capable of triggering my orgasm when stimulated independent of my cock.

 

[indianman69]

I've never had anything up my ass, does it hurt? Does it not make you have homosexual tendencies?

dude, seriously?

 

[gerrynylon]

Yes seriously, nothing has went up my ass. What I meant to say was "does it not mean you have homosexual tendencies " I don't know how "make"got there . Apologies for any confusion or offence.

 

[suckonsimon]

dude, seriously?

Yes seriously, nothing has went up my ass. What I meant to say was "does it not mean you have homosexual tendencies " I don't know how "make"got there . Apologies for any confusion or offence.

I'm thinking this is yet another difference across the Atlantic. My sense of American sexual practice, men and women, is that anal is not so uncommon; whereas in Britain I get the sense that heterosexual anal practice is really very uncommon, and on the whole we Brits have no inclination to go there either.

Am I right? wrong?

 

[jtx122]

Reduce the flow of blood to you balls and cock.
I.e. wear a cock ring or bind your cock and balls with cord or ribbon.

In conjunction with the afore mentioned edging.
The longer the better if you can bare the wait.
A few days is the longest I can bare.

Do it with or in front of someone else. I don't mean get them to do it, but do it with them in the room.
I had a few GFs in the past where I'd do this. And it really got me off - still does.
More often than not it got them off too and they'd put on a little show for me or just as likely start masturbating themselves and asking to be fucked or licked or frigged etc.
To this day even though they have BFs or partners/husbands I still indulge in this with these ladies when I see them and get the chance and it still seems to result in their skirts coming up and pants going down, more often than not. Some times I think they visit specifically to see me myself off - and of course more to the point to get themselves off.
I think because of this I am a lot closer and see more of (no pun intended) my ex's than most ppl which is nice, both socially and sexually.

Or arrange for someone to "catch" you. Same sort of deal if you can find someone you think you can get away with it.

Or while you are talking to someone on the phone. Same sort of thing.
I don't know why this gets me off so much but it does.
I won't say I enjoy this wanking in front of women more than fucking and sucking, but for me it is very horny and right up there.