curiosity

[Curioustallis]

I've been bi-curious for a long time. Tried hooking up through CL but it seems that everyone that I respond to or responds to me is in a rush. I'm trying to figure out how to go about meeting someone to explore with discreetly. I live in Milwaukee, WI. Any advice on how to scratch this itch without "outing" myself? I've read tons of first time type stuff on here but I've never been in a situation that would permit my exploration in a comfortable setting. Does anyone know of a way to meet like minded people discreetly and (relatively) safe?

 

[Jezuzkrist]

I deal with the same problem. I put an ad on CL a couple times and like you said, they want it to be within a day or two. My schedule doesn't typically work out that way, and then when my schedule clears up a little for something like that they are long gone.

I hope that someone will post some good ideas on clearing this up.

 

[Curioustallis]

I deal with the same problem. I put an ad on CL a couple times and like you said, they want it to be within a day or two. My schedule doesn't typically work out that way, and then when my schedule clears up a little for something like that they are long gone.

I hope that someone will post some good ideas on clearing this up.

I would have never guessed it'd be this difficult tosuck a cock or explore with another dude.

 

[Jezuzkrist]

I know right? lol

My last CL ad I had put that I wanted to exchange e-mails with the possibility of meeting.

The responses I got said something like "want to meet up this afternoon?"

I had one guy who really played along with for a day or two, got me really excited, but it never turned into anything either.

 

[simpleman911]

also curious

Read and responded. Not sure I could go through with it though. CL I mean.
Need someone to go slow like me not into men just like to see cocks and masturbation.
pm me if this sounds like you in so cal. If you want to chat from out state discreet im cool with that too.
pm me at yahoo
I will respond when I can
raynice526

 

[nipers]

hear

I hear you.same things happen to me. it has taken over a year to find someone I trust. I meet him here. we meet up once.it was great. I hope we can repete

 

[Reshbod]

Same here. I can't do the anonymous or the one night stand thing. I have to know someone well and feel comfortable around them. I thought I had met someone online a while back but unfortunately it didn't work out. I'm really not sure how to meet someone and build the type of relationship I'm looking for so for now having a man will most likely stay in the fantasy realm.

 

[klippert]

We live in the era of Al Gore's invention...the Inter-Web. If you can't find it, your not looking hard enough... That's not a shot over the bow.

If your REALLY Serious, you want to experience M/M sex, via the .www, you'll certainly be able to do the proper search...always be careful of creeps, drug users, and flippers...

I'll help on this front... try; Shy Bi Guy (forum). sign up, it's free. i'm there...

 

[Stephan1515]

Guys, as stated above its not difficult if you are serious. Squirt.org is great as is adam4adm.com. Started on both and have been with a number of guys. could probably do it every night if I was willing, which sometimes I am. good luck

 

[Curioustallis]

We live in the era of Al Gore's invention...the Inter-Web. If you can't find it, your not looking hard enough... That's not a shot over the bow.

If your REALLY Serious, you want to experience M/M sex, via the .www, you'll certainly be able to do the proper search...always be careful of creeps, drug users, and flippers...

I'll help on this front... try; Shy Bi Guy (forum). sign up, it's free. i'm there...

The shy bi guy forum is pretty cool. Thanks man.

 

[ilike2try]

CL is as you say... most guys are either in a hurry to get their rocks off and then forget about you, or just pretending, with no intention of doing anything. Most are just plain sleazy, IMO.

Nevertheless, there are diamonds hidden among the slag, but it requires a great deal of patience as well as experimentation.

I use a fairly "standard" advert text that I have developed over the last five years or so. In it, I am very specific about the kind of man I'm looking for and what I have in mind. I am a pretty good creative writer, so I've made sure to use a lot of descriptive words and sentences designed to arouse and catch the interest of the men I'm interested in.

I then cast the line out and see who bites. Often, it's just the usual numb-nuts and losers, but the trick is to go back every three or four days and renew your advert (which you can do by clicking the link on your original posting confirmation e-mail). Every so often, if I'm not getting the sort of response I'm after, I'll modify the text, re-work the headline and wait again.

I've been doing this for at least five years, and I'm happy to report I have met at least three really fantastic men this way, using CL. But it takes a great deal of stick-to-it-iveness and willingness to experiment with your ad copy.

I am extremely happy to report that, yesterday, I received a CL response from a guy that, upon exchanging a number of e-mails with, I knew was likely to be promising. Indeed, went over to his place this morning (not far at all from me) and enjoyed the delights of his body, his cock and his seed, and was delighted to realize I'd finally, after all this time, met the one I've been looking for. The chemistry was perfect. Apparently he feels the same way, and we have agreed that this needs to be a long-term thing.

Good things do happen through CL, but the odds of it happening soon, or at least on the first advert, are slim to none. Persistence and willing to experiment with your ad copy are the keys.

 

[joelafayette]

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[playaround2013]

Guys, as stated above its not difficult if you are serious. Squirt.org is great as is adam4adm.com. Started on both and have been with a number of guys. could probably do it every night if I was willing, which sometimes I am. good luck

I agree that if you are serious about trying MM sex you can find it on internet. Squirt was great for me. Met two or three great guys on there. My suggestion is to do what I did which was stop thinking about and just do it.

 

[Mrdarkblueeyes]

.... and then proofread.

Pardon the interruption: I saw this comment and had to smile. I'm a proofreader by profession, and I have to say I now know what it felt like at the turn of the last century for the American bison (there were only 100 at one point). It seems no one values proofreading anymore, at any level, anywhere.

Now back to your regularly scheduled erotic thread.