How often do you and your partner have sex?

[pisces_girl]

In general, how often would you say you and your partner engage in sexy time? And to add, how much is sex/kink a part of your relationship? I would think that meeting someone who's kinks match with yours is equally as nice as knowing that you both share the same interests in movies or food!

 

[alwaysaboutsex]

Currently, we only get sexy once or twice a month. Usually once. It used to be several times a week, but our kid and her subsequent hypothyroidism killed her sex drive.

 

[HoldYouDown]

With my most recent partner it was 2-3 times a week unless the Red Army was in town. We had similar kinks.

 

[MeredithEighty8]

Maybe 3-4 times a week. Not always intercourse, but we're flexible and will take an orgasm any way it's offered

 

[NoMoreNoMore]

Currently, we only get sexy once or twice a month. Usually once. It used to be several times a week, but our kid and her subsequent hypothyroidism killed her sex drive.

Never

 

[peachesmelba]

In general, how often would you say you and your partner engage in sexy time? And to add, how much is sex/kink a part of your relationship? I would think that meeting someone who's kinks match with yours is equally as nice as knowing that you both share the same interests in movies or food!

Whenever possible - at least once or twice a day usually. And yes - having a partner who shares your kinks and/or is willing and eager to explore them with you is WONDERFUL....

 

[Beck31]

Whenever possible - at least once or twice a day usually. And yes - having a partner who shares your kinks and/or is willing and eager to explore them with you is WONDERFUL....

as many times as we can.

 

[suckonsimon]

Hugely various over the years [37!]. Currently getting back to 1 or 2 per week after a period of much less often than that. Most of our years together it was more like 2-3 per week with some weeks when it was 1-2 per day. Being grandparents and still sometimes getting to it twice in a day [in the last month that's happened twice] is something special I am grateful for.

I'm a bit kinky but she is much less so. I'm fine with that as her pleasure is expressed in the extreme and that is more than sufficient pleasure for me.

 

[ladylust1]

With my "Partner" Not very often, maybe once every few months................he has problems............................

 

[EvaRimes]

When my other half is home, it's about twice a day... Kinda makes up for him working away...

 

[Sheana_V]

My primary partner? A few times a week. My other lovers, a few times a month.

 

[CBM514]

We average about 5 times a week but if we get in a two day dry spell one of us speaks up fast

 

[xanach]

About once a week. More if my wife isn't in class.

 

[TwistedJenn]

It varies so much here sometimes everyday then there are dry spells lol

 

[Fenris17]

In a six month or so dry spell

 

[StrongMaster7]

After 27 years of marriage and 32 years overall, I am lucky to get our 6 minute version (or super-lucky to get the extended 11 minute version) 3-4 times a month.

I jerk off almost every day. Thank goodness for the internet.

 

[badonkadoku]

Currently, we only get sexy once or twice a month. Usually once. It used to be several times a week, but our kid and her subsequent hypothyroidism killed her sex drive.

Hypothyroidism is easy to treat and, once under control, should in no wise impede sex drive!

 

[VinceGraves]

Not once in over a year Unfortunately, she's never been much for kink or friskiness. It's been quite the struggle lately.

 

[Ooceanic9]

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[amofiga]

About once a week. It was a lot more than that many years ago but at least we're still at it in retirement. Unfortunately, she only shares about 75% of my "kinks" and preferences. Still good though.

 

[yougotmepegged]

I see her a few days a week, we fuck once or twice in that short time. We have a few kinks that we share, but not as many as I'd like. But the sex itself is usually really really great, intense, and physical.