Crimes of Passion

[Recidiva]

I sure wish you would make up your mind, are you sickened by me? Do I conduct myself with dignity?

And you wouldn't need to defend anything if you'd not done it. And by it I mean post a past experience with a minor in this thread.

I saved it because you started the "but that's not what I meant" tirade several posts after people started to get upset. And I'm not stopping you from giving your side of anything. If you feel threatened by your own words that's not my fault. I took a copy of your words because I saw where this was going.

Both, really. I think you started out with a genuine concern that if on your own might have weighed and thought and asked and we would have been fine.

You were not, however, on your own.

And my "that's not what I meant" "tirade" was not simply a response to unreasonable attacks...how?

Do you really mean to say that you genuinely thought subdued_passion was declaring to God and the Universe and twitter that you sucked "his" dick and that you really are threatened by that? You threatened her with IP address tracking.

My question is, I know what the fuck is wrong with you, do you know what the fuck is wrong with you?

You have the capacity to think for yourself but you opted for victim stance and allowed the influence of your friends, and not reality, to set the tone here.

 

[butters]

I want to be excoriated.

I'm not too particular about what for, as long as it's something unique, terrible, and scary.

c'mere - just give me a while to think up something dreadful-ly wonderful. it may take some time

 

[Sean]

So for clarification, who did complain? And why? And were they on that feed? Was it a concerted effort?

Because the rest of us were just telling a story minding our own damned business but I'll be damned if bg23 is going to allow people she doesn't like to just...have a conversation, FUCK that shit.

LTR says she can't see the thread because she's ignored the thread starter.

So who told her to come see? And why was subdued_passion on ignore in the first place?

No-one told her to come see it. Yes, there was some discussion of this thread on Twitter. It was along the lines of "OMG, did you see that?" There was no conspiracy to gang up on you, people reacted the same way because most people don't like paedophiles.

As for Butters, you lied to her. Pure and simple.

 

[Wings]

So for clarification, who did complain? And why? And were they on that feed? Was it a concerted effort?

Because the rest of us were just telling a story minding our own damned business but I'll be damned if bg23 is going to allow people she doesn't like to just...have a conversation, FUCK that shit.

LTR says she can't see the thread because she's ignored the thread starter.

So who told her to come see? And why was subdued_passion on ignore in the first place?

Subdued earned iggy early by laughing with the racists and pedophiles. Why people put other on iggy is none of your business. You seem to want to make it your business though, why is that?

BG was at work through most of our conversing amongst friends so she wasn't even there through it. But hey, keep blaming the loss of your "pristine" reputation on her. Because God knows we can't get upset without her guidance.

 

[Recidiva]

just saw your post, wings...

i want to ask why you assumed it was me, or 'read' it to mean it was me? that's not my style of behaviour. *sighs*

"style of behaviour" is irrelevant, apparently, if someone has a feeling.

I think you're a Goddess among women and I thought that before you contacted me and I think it now, but I'm afraid if I get too close, you might get Reci all over you and they can smell that.

 

[Wings]

Both, really. I think you started out with a genuine concern that if on your own might have weighed and thought and asked and we would have been fine.

You were not, however, on your own.

And my "that's not what I meant" "tirade" was not simply a response to unreasonable attacks...how?

Do you really mean to say that you genuinely thought subdued_passion was declaring to God and the Universe and twitter that you sucked "his" dick and that you really are threatened by that? You threatened her with IP address tracking.

My question is, I know what the fuck is wrong with you, do you know what the fuck is wrong with you?

You have the capacity to think for yourself but you opted for victim stance and allowed the influence of your friends, and not reality, to set the tone here.

Jesus. You are such a piece of work. Nothing I say gets through to you and I don't know why I thought it would. I am exactly who I am, my friends tend to think a lot like me because they ARE MY FRIENDS. I am not taking a victim stance, I'm taking a god damn survivor stance and you, you're worse than a JBJ in this situation.

 

[Recidiva]

Subdued earned iggy early by laughing with the racists and pedophiles. Why people put other on iggy is none of your business. You seem to want to make it your business though, why is that?

BG was at work through most of our conversing amongst friends so she wasn't even there through it. But hey, keep blaming the loss of your "pristine" reputation on her. Because God knows we can't get upset without her guidance.

Because you guys behaved like an unruly and unreasonable mob and it would be nice if someone admitted it and took back their bullshit.

Not necessary, because your bullshit is out there for everyone to see and reasonable people already knew what was going on.

I don't have a "reputation"

I have a point.

If someone wants to pick a fight because they think someone is helpless and outnumbered, then don't whine if the someone picked on has enough teeth to bite back and point out your idiocy and cowardice.

 

[Recidiva]

Jesus. You are such a piece of work. Nothing I say gets through to you and I don't know why I thought it would. I am exactly who I am, my friends tend to think a lot like me because they ARE MY FRIENDS. I am not taking a victim stance, I'm taking a god damn survivor stance and you, you're worse than a JBJ in this situation.

And you're welcome to that. You're just not really being fair if you use twitter to alter events here and make it seem like a spontaneous convergence.

YOU are a survivor? YOU are the victim here?

Okay, back to cowering wings.

Give me a break.

 

[Wings]

just saw your post, wings...

i want to ask why you assumed it was me, or 'read' it to mean it was me? that's not my style of behaviour. *sighs*

Please read my post again. I don't assume it was you, you've been the only one to make it clear that you've contact Reci. That's why I made the connection, not to indicate you did it.

I know the troll How_Dumb_R_You keeps PMing people with little tidbits, I was waiting to see if UD and Reci would admit that.

There is a lot to be said for people who take a stance in public and little to be said for those who do it in private, hiding their true identity and attempting to tighten screws on sinking ships.

 

[Recidiva]

Please read my post again. I don't assume it was you, you've been the only one to make it clear that you've contact Reci. That's why I made the connection, not to indicate you did it.

I know the troll How_Dumb_R_You keeps PMing people with little tidbits, I was waiting to see if UD and Reci would admit that.

There is a lot to be said for people who take a stance in public and little to be said for those who do it in private, hiding their true identity and attempting to tighten screws on sinking ships.

You think I'm that fucking troll?

Fuck you Wings. You have no brains, no class and no clue.

Whoever they are had the intelligence to not involve me in their bullshit.

 

[Wings]

And you're welcome to that. You're just not really being fair if you use twitter to alter events here and make it seem like a spontaneous convergence.

YOU are a survivor? YOU are the victim here?

Okay, back to cowering wings.

Give me a break.

We are all the victim here. Victim to your incessant words and spinning.

 

[Wings]

You think I'm that fucking troll?

Fuck you Wings. You have no brains, no class and no clue.

What the FUCK is wrong with you? That wasn't about you you over-inflated twat. Fuck you!

The troll who hides in the dark is not you, he only says one sentence or two and moves on.

 

[butters]

As for Butters, you lied to her. Pure and simple.

obviously i disagree with you. i do like to see the best in people, sean, something that could be leveled against me in this instance as wanting to believe in reci's account.

however, weighing up words, their source, intent and what's left unsaid is part of my training as a writer of poetry. i'm no longer some naif; life's taught me a whole fuck-load of lessons, and i see the complexities and weight them accordingly.

 

[bg23]

I'm not talking to you. I know you're irredeemable in this universe. I mean people with actual consciences.

The point stands for ANY of those people. Why would they invite you to twitter to see their feeds which includes their personal info and things they'd have no interest in you seeing?

 

[Wings]

And whether I use Twitter, Facebook, the phone, smoke signals or morse code to talk to my friends it's none of your business. There was no mob, there are only individuals who sometimes happen to be friends, exhibiting their anger regarding you.

 

[Ulaven_Demorte]

We are all the victim here. Victim to your incessant words and spinning.

Oh for christ's sakes. You're aware that your participation in this thread, and your exposure to anyone else's words is completely voluntary yes?

You're all the victims here? I'll pretend not to notice the smoking torch dangling from your hand, doused no doubt by your tears.

 

[Recidiva]

What the FUCK is wrong with you? That wasn't about you you over-inflated twat. Fuck you!

The troll who hides in the dark is not you, he only says one sentence or two and moves on.

But I was supposed to "admit" to something I knew about, some shadow conspiracy, perhaps, that I was hiding?

Let me repeat the words so oft preached in this thread.

"You don't get it."

Whatever they were was on ignore within a few posts and I haven't even seen most of this thread because of it's poisonous and vile nature, which you didn't stop, encouraged, and wouldn't allow to grant me any defense.

 

[Sean]

obviously i disagree with you. i do like to see the best in people, sean, something that could be leveled against me in this instance as wanting to believe in reci's account.

however, weighing up words, their source, intent and what's left unsaid is part of my training as a writer of poetry. i'm no longer some naif; life's taught me a whole fuck-load of lessons, and i see the complexities and weight them accordingly.

OK, one little lie that stands out. Recidiva says that Ulaven met the kid, Ulaven says he didn't. Slight discrepancy, I know, but it calls into question the verisimilitude. I read the original comments before they were deleted, she's been spinning and backtracking ever since.

 

[Recidiva]

And whether I use Twitter, Facebook, the phone, smoke signals or morse code to talk to my friends it's none of your business. There was no mob, there are only individuals who sometimes happen to be friends, exhibiting their anger regarding you.

Then don't piss off enough people that they want to tell me that there's this whole other world and these other morons have no idea that they're being shown up to be huge hypocrites daily.

 

[Recidiva]

I want to be excoriated.

I'm not too particular about what for, as long as it's something unique, terrible, and scary.

I will make up horrible things about you if you like.

It won't be hard, apparently people will believe anything.

What's your preference?

 

[Ulaven_Demorte]

OK, one little lie that stands out. Recidiva says that Ulaven met the kid, Ulaven says he didn't. Slight discrepancy, I know, but it calls into question the verisimilitude. I read the original comments before they were deleted, she's been spinning and backtracking ever since.

Oh good lord. You should probably refrain from posting until after the hangover has worn off.

I knew him, online. Just as I know many people here on lit. I've even met a few from here. I didn't meet him in person, never said that I did and neither did Reci.

The only discrepancy is in your alcohol soaked brain.

 

[Recidiva]

OK, one little lie that stands out. Recidiva says that Ulaven met the kid, Ulaven says he didn't. Slight discrepancy, I know, but it calls into question the verisimilitude. I read the original comments before they were deleted, she's been spinning and backtracking ever since.

I'm the only one who "met" him in reality but also "met" him online.

Ulaven "met" him online.

And Ulaven was aware of his character.

So to use it in a sentence.

"I met this guy Sean online and he was a vindictive, ignorant, vicious prick who wasn't anybody's victim."

 

[Ulaven_Demorte]

And whether I use Twitter, Facebook, the phone, smoke signals or morse code to talk to my friends it's none of your business. There was no mob, there are only individuals who sometimes happen to be friends, exhibiting their anger regarding you.

Nope, no mob..

Twitter feed: "OMG! Did you see that? (link to thread)"

 

[butters]

I don't think anyone defriended you over your opinion. I respect yours and I know you respect mine.

i respect everyone's right to their opinion, whatever i think of that opinion.

"style of behaviour" is irrelevant, apparently, if someone has a feeling.

I think you're a Goddess among women and I thought that before you contacted me and I think it now, but I'm afraid if I get too close, you might get Reci all over you and they can smell that.

reci, i considered you a friend before this all this nonsense and still do, but please knock it off with the 'goddess' crap i'm as flawed as the next person here and this is all messin' with my poetry muse

what i see here is (mostly) a whole bunch of people i respect and frequently admire at sixes and sevens over something i thought pretty straightforward having thought about it for a while, incensed over stuff that didn't happen and, to be fair, that lacked some clarity in its posting unless they could hear it spoken with the rolling of eyes and tone of voice i did as i read it. i'm good at reading and (despite my second marriage) good at getting people. SOMETIMES emoticons have their uses. Because they grabbed the dirty end of the stick, their goodwill was tested by what they saw as your totally flippant (outrageous even) responses to something they considered deeply shocking and so it has snowballed.

i also feel some people had personal axes to whet and old grudges to exploit.

Please read my post again. I don't assume it was you, you've been the only one to make it clear that you've contact Reci. That's why I made the connection, not to indicate you did it.

I know the troll How_Dumb_R_You keeps PMing people with little tidbits, I was waiting to see if UD and Reci would admit that.

There is a lot to be said for people who take a stance in public and little to be said for those who do it in private, hiding their true identity and attempting to tighten screws on sinking ships.

ok, thanks for that, but your making that connection and posting that will make it look as if that's what you believe to many who might read it. that makes me a little sad.

ok, out of this thread again. life goes on.

 

[Wings]

Oh for christ's sakes. You're aware that your participation in this thread, and your exposure to anyone else's words is completely voluntary yes?

You're all the victims here? I'll pretend not to notice the smoking torch dangling from your hand, doused no doubt by your tears.

Sarcasm, sweet cheeks. Get you some.