Daddy Fetish

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Hey everyone. For once, the sun is shining outside, and I may yet get my ass off the chair and do my chors.

But first (hugs) all round :cattail:
 
Why are some people frightened of coffee, the elixir of life, cure for all ills and the only thing to go with that first cigarette of the day (Forgetting he hasn't smoked for years, but still misses it).

(Tips chair next to self up, reserving it expectantly)
 
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Smelling fresh French Roast from the depths of my covers, and a familiar voice ... Brush through the hair, scrub the teeth, wash the face, and meander out to the Great Room.

Good Morning, dear friend ... shall I pour?
 
Smelling fresh French Roast from the depths of my covers, and a familiar voice ... Brush through the hair, scrub the teeth, wash the face, and meander out to the Great Room.

Good Morning, dear friend ... shall I pour?

Trying to do a double take and failing miserably, almost laughs out ''Of course'' and then get your nose into this comic while I see how the cricket is going.;)
 
Did someone say coffee???

I can't cope with the day with out it :)

(Keep it hot for me, I will be back later) :cattail:
 
Yes dear lady, muffins!

Mutters quietly:
'Have you seen what's happened to the garden you started? I'll be here early tomorrow and put that right for starters''.
 
Umm the muffins were splendid, you remembered the blueberry jam there! What say we finish this coffee while its hot, I have to go and get going in my own garden in a few minutes, but will you meet up and check progress tomorrow please, a full pot is too much for one you know?:)
 
I may post more when I have a computer. :) I wanted to take a moment to say thank you to all the responses. I didn't mean to imply there was anything wrong with "playing" with multiple people, on the contrary, I think it's fabulous.. Very liberating.. I simply meant I'm incapable of it. I do have a Daddy.. A wonderful man, who continues to capture more of my heart daily. I don't know if I could have managed what I've been dealing with had it not been for him and the other friends I've met here. The support I've received, nothing short of amazing. I'm just saying having that ONE strong, emotional, and physical attachment is key to my being able to let go with others. I simply can not "play" without knowing I've got my "true connection" with another who wants to share, care, protect.

The reason, I said "willie nillie" is because Ive had more than a few people obviously interested in me..who once it became obvious that I won't engage sexually with them..well, despite being generally nice people, don't even acknowledge me on the threads anymore. I guess that just hurts my feelings a little. I'm a huge flirt on the forum, admittedly. I'm confused with why when I make it clear I won't go off into a corner with you I'm suddenly not even worth previously friendly on thread banter..?

And FWIW, I'm aware, I shouldn't let it get to me.. I suppose it's just the baby girl in me.. Color me tender hearted.. Lol

 
I may post more when I have a computer. :) I wanted to take a moment to say thank you to all the responses. I didn't mean to imply there was anything wrong with "playing" with multiple people, on the contrary, I think it's fabulous.. Very liberating.. I simply meant I'm incapable of it. I do have a Daddy.. A wonderful man, who continues to capture more of my heart daily. I don't know if I could have managed what I've been dealing with had it not been for him and the other friends I've met here. The support I've received, nothing short of amazing. I'm just saying having that ONE strong, emotional, and physical attachment is key to my being able to let go with others. I simply can not "play" without knowing I've got my "true connection" with another who wants to share, care, protect.

The reason, I said "willie nillie" is because Ive had more than a few people obviously interested in me..who once it became obvious that I won't engage sexually with them..well, despite being generally nice people, don't even acknowledge me on the threads anymore. I guess that just hurts my feelings a little. I'm a huge flirt on the forum, admittedly. I'm confused with why when I make it clear I won't go off into a corner with you I'm suddenly not even worth previously friendly on thread banter..?

And FWIW, I'm aware, I shouldn't let it get to me.. I suppose it's just the baby girl in me.. Color me tender hearted.. Lol


I :heart: you dollface!!
 
I'm late to the party, but I was at work, and what I wanted to say was too much to type out on my phone. I hate that stupid touchscreen keyboard anyway.

I am one of those who can RP with just about anyone who happens to wander into my inbox. However, I don't do it with just anyone. That person has to strike my fancy in some way, either through some intelligent conversation or witty comment. Compliments and flattery rarely get more than a simple thank you response from me, and I'll leave it at that. I've also found myself ignoring more and more PM's altogether, simply because I have nothing much to say to that person.

You know who my Daddy is, and when he and I started talking in PM, it was all completely innocent. There was nothing sexual about it, just back and forth banter, much like we do on the threads, only not as flirty. Just silly stuff. That's how most of the RP's I've participated in have started. I may be submissive in nature, but it takes a bit to get into my headspace. If you are aggressive upfront, chances are you will be ignored. My submission is a gift that *I* choose to give, not something that is going to be taken from me by force.

My ability to compartmentalize "sex" from a "relationship" is actually a detriment to those relationships at times. And, there are times that I feel used and that isn't good for my mental well-being.

So, what I suppose I'm trying to say is this: Stick around, ignore the assclowns who only want wank-fodder, and enjoy yourself and those you consider friends. Even though the site is "erotic" in nature, it doesn't mean that is it's only purpose. :kiss::rose::kiss:

Btw, how do you know these people are RP willie nillie with whoever makes there way to their inbox?

I flirt outrageously on the boards but I don't screw legions of Litmen for goodness sake. I have not had phone sex in almost two years and before that it was five years. I have usually had play partners for extended periods of time. I just like the stress relief of getting on here and running wild and free for a bit. Many Litsters do, it does not mean they are a free for all fuck. I think in many cases you are seeing more than what is there.

And no, I do not think you are false in your "advertisement" Just because people come at you with expectations there is nothing that says you have to be what they expect. You will find your niche here it just takes some time. We were all new and unsure once upon a time. :)

I for one, enjoy your posts and like your personality. On the rare occasion we get a glimpse of you in your av I found you as pretty on the outside as I do your personality and it is a lovely and engaging one that you have. Lit is better for your participation, don't take it away unless you really need to.

:rose:

Agreed.

We would hate to see you go, RA. I am getting better at ignoring messages from people, I used to respond to them all as I hated to be rude, but that changed after a few "rough" messages. Now I only respond if I feel like it and if the message is polite.
 

The reason, I said "willie nillie" is because Ive had more than a few people obviously interested in me..who once it became obvious that I won't engage sexually with them..well, despite being generally nice people, don't even acknowledge me on the threads anymore. I guess that just hurts my feelings a little. I'm a huge flirt on the forum, admittedly. I'm confused with why when I make it clear I won't go off into a corner with you I'm suddenly not even worth previously friendly on thread banter..?

I've had this happen too.
Recently it's because I've refused phone sex.
 
I've had this happen too.
Recently it's because I've refused phone sex.

It's happened to me as well.

All I can say is this. If I'm no longer worth the effort or I was just an object to obtain, he can go jack off with a handful of rusty razor blades.
 
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All I can say is this. If I'm no longer worth the effort or I was just an object to obtain, he can go jack off with a handful of rusty razor blades.

I know I am late to this, but I wanted to add my support. I'm not here for general sexual contact...I'm waiting for my "one" for that. As far a I am concerned, this is a place to chat and hang out with like minded people, and form friendships. There should NEVER be an expectation of something sexual, unless it's something that grows naturally oout of a relationship between two people.

It's those that have a problem with that who should be the ones leaving the forums.

(Though I am willing to supply rusty razor blades where needed. :devil: )
 
I may post more when I have a computer. :) I wanted to take a moment to say thank you to all the responses. I didn't mean to imply there was anything wrong with "playing" with multiple people, on the contrary, I think it's fabulous.. Very liberating.. I simply meant I'm incapable of it. I do have a Daddy.. A wonderful man, who continues to capture more of my heart daily. I don't know if I could have managed what I've been dealing with had it not been for him and the other friends I've met here. The support I've received, nothing short of amazing. I'm just saying having that ONE strong, emotional, and physical attachment is key to my being able to let go with others. I simply can not "play" without knowing I've got my "true connection" with another who wants to share, care, protect.

The reason, I said "willie nillie" is because Ive had more than a few people obviously interested in me..who once it became obvious that I won't engage sexually with them..well, despite being generally nice people, don't even acknowledge me on the threads anymore. I guess that just hurts my feelings a little. I'm a huge flirt on the forum, admittedly. I'm confused with why when I make it clear I won't go off into a corner with you I'm suddenly not even worth previously friendly on thread banter..?

And FWIW, I'm aware, I shouldn't let it get to me.. I suppose it's just the baby girl in me.. Color me tender hearted.. Lol


Ahhh Yes I know the type. I have come across them and I am sure every Lit woman has and probably some Lit guys too.

Some of us are waiting for someone to share, care, protect and have a true connection and in the mean time, mad flirting is fun. I personally feel that a Daddy/baby girl relationship is something very special and it takes time to find a man worthy of that position. You and your Daddy are very lucky to have found each other.

I am tender hearted too, I just protect mine, cause who else will. :rose:
 
Have I told y'all recently, y'all are why I stay?? Lol..
Hugs and kisses to my fellow baby girls..:kiss:

My Daddy knows exactly what kind of handful he's got..what absolute treasure he found, and if taken care of properly there is no way he can possibly measure his ROI.. :rose:

That ^^^ is how every Daddy should make his bg feel... In case anyone needed to know.



 
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