Daddy Fetish

[roses_n_thorns]

Of course you can. Welcome.

thank you and thanks for the welcome lol

 

[tiedtits4me]

Let me first say, I apologize ahead of time for opening up the following discussion. However, I'd rather hear the opinions of those who frequent this thread, than perhaps those of other threads.

So, first of all a confession: I really do envy those people who can RP willie nillie with whoever happens into their inbox on any given day. I can only imagine what kind of freedom that provides.

I'm not kidding either. Those who can RP or chat with others in this way without becoming emotionally attached ..really wish I had it in me. My inability to separate "sex" from "relationship" has been the number one reason I just can not have a "fuck buddy" or an "FWB."

I've considered leaving Lit altogether, well, given my RL issues right now, but also simply because sometimes I really don't feel like I "belong" here. It "is"an erotic literature site, after all. So, is it falsely advertising my "friendship" when there are no sexual intentions behind it?

I'm curious as to others' opinions about this.

Or, you can ignore me..lol..

No need to apologize for bringing it up at all.

I can't have a simple fuck buddy either.

Of course you belong here, just because you don't want to cyber with any random tom, dick or harry doesn't mean you shouldn't be here.
No not at all. Everyone is here for their own reasons and yes for a lot it's to get off with different people (nothing wrong with that don't get me wrong, to each their own) but it doesn't mean you have to do that either.

I dunno if that makes sense

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

Veeerrrryy funny RJ..

I can't tell you how much it means to me that you would take me so unseriously.. *sticks out her tongue and blows a raspberry*

 

[RjThoughts]

Veeerrrryy funny RJ..

I can't tell you how much it means to me that you would take me so unseriously.. *sticks out her tongue and blows a raspberry*

Ha ha

 

[xxxpaulzzz]

thank you and thanks for the welcome lol

welcome to contact me for more personal touch if you are ever lonely.

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

No need to apologize for bringing it up at all.

I can't have a simple fuck buddy either.

Of course you belong here, just because you don't want to cyber with any random tom, dick or harry doesn't mean you shouldn't be here.
No not at all. Everyone is here for their own reasons and yes for a lot it's to get off with different people (nothing wrong with that don't get me wrong, to each their own) but it doesn't mean you have to do that either.

I dunno if that makes sense

Well, see that's how I saw it. But the more people I "turn down"...I don't know, because I don't see anything wrong with it, either. Yet, the thought of me doing it seems trashy..lol

I can't figure out where my double standard comes from..

 

[roses_n_thorns]

welcome to contact me for more personal touch if you are ever lonely.

thank you

 

[tiedtits4me]

Well, see that's how I saw it. But the more people I "turn down"...I don't know, because I don't see anything wrong with it, either. Yet, the thought of me doing it seems trashy..lol

I can't figure out where my double standard comes from..

We are (or at least I ALWAYS am) always harder on ourselves then others.
I try to see it that there's nothing wrong with me feeling the way I do about things, but I do always win lol.

It's not trashy at all, now if you were literally screwing multiple men every night well that could be a bit different

But if you aren't comfortable with it then there's nothing wrong with that and don't let anyone that you turn down make you feel that way.

 

[RjThoughts]

Well, see that's how I saw it. But the more people I "turn down"...I don't know, because I don't see anything wrong with it, either. Yet, the thought of me doing it seems trashy..lol

I can't figure out where my double standard comes from..

Because someone views Lit Forums as a "Fuck Only" place, doesn't mean you have to do it.

Be yourself and use Lit as you want.

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

We are (or at least I ALWAYS am) always harder on ourselves then others.
I try to see it that there's nothing wrong with me feeling the way I do about things, but I do always win lol.

It's not trashy at all, now if you were literally screwing multiple men every night well that could be a bit different

But if you aren't comfortable with it then there's nothing wrong with that and don't let anyone that you turn down make you feel that way.

Because someone views Lit Forums as a "Fuck Only" place, doesn't mean you have to do it.

Be yourself and use Lit as you want.

Thanks, you two. I'm not sure where my somber mood came from this evening..

 

[RjThoughts]

Thanks, you two. I'm not sure where my somber mood came from this evening..

Just a moment or two of the BLAHS hit ya

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

Just a moment or two of the BLAHS hit ya

Yeah, something like that..

Y'all sleep tight.. Hugs

 

[RjThoughts]

Yeah, something like that..

Y'all sleep tight.. Hugs

Hugsssss

 

[tiedtits4me]

Thanks, you two. I'm not sure where my somber mood came from this evening..

We all have those moments, nights, days.

*hugs*

 

[photograph]

Let me first say, I apologize ahead of time for opening up the following discussion. However, I'd rather hear the opinions of those who frequent this thread, than perhaps those of other threads.

So, first of all a confession: I really do envy those people who can RP willie nillie with whoever happens into their inbox on any given day. I can only imagine what kind of freedom that provides.

I'm not kidding either. Those who can RP or chat with others in this way without becoming emotionally attached ..really wish I had it in me. My inability to separate "sex" from "relationship" has been the number one reason I just can not have a "fuck buddy" or an "FWB."

I've considered leaving Lit altogether, well, given my RL issues right now, but also simply because sometimes I really don't feel like I "belong" here. It "is"an erotic literature site, after all. So, is it falsely advertising my "friendship" when there are no sexual intentions behind it?

I'm curious as to others' opinions about this.

Or, you can ignore me..lol..

I'm late to the party, but I was at work, and what I wanted to say was too much to type out on my phone. I hate that stupid touchscreen keyboard anyway.

I am one of those who can RP with just about anyone who happens to wander into my inbox. However, I don't do it with just anyone. That person has to strike my fancy in some way, either through some intelligent conversation or witty comment. Compliments and flattery rarely get more than a simple thank you response from me, and I'll leave it at that. I've also found myself ignoring more and more PM's altogether, simply because I have nothing much to say to that person.

You know who my Daddy is, and when he and I started talking in PM, it was all completely innocent. There was nothing sexual about it, just back and forth banter, much like we do on the threads, only not as flirty. Just silly stuff. That's how most of the RP's I've participated in have started. I may be submissive in nature, but it takes a bit to get into my headspace. If you are aggressive upfront, chances are you will be ignored. My submission is a gift that *I* choose to give, not something that is going to be taken from me by force.

My ability to compartmentalize "sex" from a "relationship" is actually a detriment to those relationships at times. And, there are times that I feel used and that isn't good for my mental well-being.

So, what I suppose I'm trying to say is this: Stick around, ignore the assclowns who only want wank-fodder, and enjoy yourself and those you consider friends. Even though the site is "erotic" in nature, it doesn't mean that is it's only purpose.

 

[foxseeker]

Let me first say, I apologize ahead of time for opening up the following discussion. However, I'd rather hear the opinions of those who frequent this thread, than perhaps those of other threads.

So, first of all a confession: I really do envy those people who can RP willie nillie with whoever happens into their inbox on any given day. I can only imagine what kind of freedom that provides.

I'm not kidding either. Those who can RP or chat with others in this way without becoming emotionally attached ..really wish I had it in me. My inability to separate "sex" from "relationship" has been the number one reason I just can not have a "fuck buddy" or an "FWB."

I've considered leaving Lit altogether, well, given my RL issues right now, but also simply because sometimes I really don't feel like I "belong" here. It "is"an erotic literature site, after all. So, is it falsely advertising my "friendship" when there are no sexual intentions behind it?

I'm curious as to others' opinions about this.

Or, you can ignore me..lol..

G'day RA,
You know that your opinions, input and thoughts are highly valued (And sometimes contested) by the Littles and Daddies here.
On this particular point, you may be surprised to know that some of us guys feel exactly the same as yourself. Thank you for standing up and expressing it so clearly, whatever others may say, you are not alone in this.

 

[sereneone4u]

I'm late to the party, but I was at work, and what I wanted to say was too much to type out on my phone. I hate that stupid touchscreen keyboard anyway.

I am one of those who can RP with just about anyone who happens to wander into my inbox. However, I don't do it with just anyone. That person has to strike my fancy in some way, either through some intelligent conversation or witty comment. Compliments and flattery rarely get more than a simple thank you response from me, and I'll leave it at that. I've also found myself ignoring more and more PM's altogether, simply because I have nothing much to say to that person.

You know who my Daddy is, and when he and I started talking in PM, it was all completely innocent. There was nothing sexual about it, just back and forth banter, much like we do on the threads, only not as flirty. Just silly stuff. That's how most of the RP's I've participated in have started. I may be submissive in nature, but it takes a bit to get into my headspace. If you are aggressive upfront, chances are you will be ignored. My submission is a gift that *I* choose to give, not something that is going to be taken from me by force.

My ability to compartmentalize "sex" from a "relationship" is actually a detriment to those relationships at times. And, there are times that I feel used and that isn't good for my mental well-being.

So, what I suppose I'm trying to say is this: Stick around, ignore the assclowns who only want wank-fodder, and enjoy yourself and those you consider friends. Even though the site is "erotic" in nature, it doesn't mean that is it's only purpose.

I totally agree with this, except I don't have a Daddy currently.

Take what you want and leave the rest with Lit.

 

[sereneone4u]

Let me first say, I apologize ahead of time for opening up the following discussion. However, I'd rather hear the opinions of those who frequent this thread, than perhaps those of other threads.

So, first of all a confession: I really do envy those people who can RP willie nillie with whoever happens into their inbox on any given day. I can only imagine what kind of freedom that provides.

I'm not kidding either. Those who can RP or chat with others in this way without becoming emotionally attached ..really wish I had it in me. My inability to separate "sex" from "relationship" has been the number one reason I just can not have a "fuck buddy" or an "FWB."

I've considered leaving Lit altogether, well, given my RL issues right now, but also simply because sometimes I really don't feel like I "belong" here. It "is"an erotic literature site, after all. So, is it falsely advertising my "friendship" when there are no sexual intentions behind it?

I'm curious as to others' opinions about this.

Or, you can ignore me..lol..

Btw, how do you know these people are RP willie nillie with whoever makes there way to their inbox?

I flirt outrageously on the boards but I don't screw legions of Litmen for goodness sake. I have not had phone sex in almost two years and before that it was five years. I have usually had play partners for extended periods of time. I just like the stress relief of getting on here and running wild and free for a bit. Many Litsters do, it does not mean they are a free for all fuck. I think in many cases you are seeing more than what is there.

And no, I do not think you are false in your "advertisement" Just because people come at you with expectations there is nothing that says you have to be what they expect. You will find your niche here it just takes some time. We were all new and unsure once upon a time.

I for one, enjoy your posts and like your personality. On the rare occasion we get a glimpse of you in your av I found you as pretty on the outside as I do your personality and it is a lovely and engaging one that you have. Lit is better for your participation, don't take it away unless you really need to.

 

[mutato]

Good morning to all the wonderful people here. (((HUGS))) and for the lovely littles and *highfives* and such to the Daddies. I hope everyone has a great day now that we're recovering from the holiday.

Let me first say, I apologize ahead of time for opening up the following discussion. However, I'd rather hear the opinions of those who frequent this thread, than perhaps those of other threads.

So, first of all a confession: I really do envy those people who can RP willie nillie with whoever happens into their inbox on any given day. I can only imagine what kind of freedom that provides.

I'm not kidding either. Those who can RP or chat with others in this way without becoming emotionally attached ..really wish I had it in me. My inability to separate "sex" from "relationship" has been the number one reason I just can not have a "fuck buddy" or an "FWB."

I've considered leaving Lit altogether, well, given my RL issues right now, but also simply because sometimes I really don't feel like I "belong" here. It "is"an erotic literature site, after all. So, is it falsely advertising my "friendship" when there are no sexual intentions behind it?

I'm curious as to others' opinions about this.

Or, you can ignore me..lol..

I've made a few friends here, female and male, that I've never once had any sort of sexual discussion with and it works just fine for us. While the main focus of this site is sex, it's not what it's all about. Just check out all the political and other non-sexual topics on the General Board. It really doesn't matter why you're here as long as you enjoy it. If others can't understand or accept it, well, that's what the ignore button is for.

Besides, I know you've made friends here, RA. It would be a shame for you to leave because those friendships don't have any sexual aspects.

 

[DappleDoxie]

:::So, what I suppose I'm trying to say is this: Stick around, ignore the assclowns who only want wank-fodder, and enjoy yourself and those you consider friends. Even though the site is "erotic" in nature, it doesn't mean that is it's only purpose. :::

Exactly this, RA
Your presence is highly valued and I have always looked forward to your company.
Interact only with those you want and use the delete function for everything else!!!

 

[sereneone4u]

:::So, what I suppose I'm trying to say is this: Stick around, ignore the assclowns who only want wank-fodder, and enjoy yourself and those you consider friends. Even though the site is "erotic" in nature, it doesn't mean that is it's only purpose. :::

Exactly this, RA
Your presence is highly valued and I have always looked forward to your company.
Interact only with those you want and use the delete function for everything else!!!

thumbs up!

 

[heatsink]

Wanders in, takes one look and shudders. Dead plants, old newspapers and dust? Muttering:

''Bugger this for a game of soldiers''

Fires up the coffee perc then has a quick thrash round with some ass hats hat to clear up one of the tables.

Settles down a few minutes later, as though nothing had ever happened, coffee tray and cups set out, muffins in a bag in the kitchen, then shouts out a cheery :

Good day all you precious littles and daddy's, where is everyone?

 

[sereneone4u]

Wanders in, takes one look and shudders. Dead plants, old newspapers and dust? Muttering:

''Bugger this for a game of soldiers''

Fires up the coffee perc then has a quick thrash round with some ass hats hat to clear up one of the tables.

Settles down a few minutes later, as though nothing had ever happened, coffee tray and cups set out, muffins in a bag in the kitchen, then shouts out a cheery :

Good day all you precious littles and daddy's, where is everyone?

Really needing to go do laundry and go for a run, but I keep chatting on Lit.

I don't know about anyone else.

 

[heatsink]

G'day RA,
You know that your opinions, input and thoughts are highly valued (And sometimes contested) by the Littles and Daddies here.
On this particular point, you may be surprised to know that some of us guys feel exactly the same as yourself. Thank you for standing up and expressing it so clearly, whatever others may say, you are not alone in this.

What he said twice over.

 

[photograph]

I'm kind of here. I should really be sleeping, but the upstairs neighbors are making too much noise.