Daddy Fetish

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Then let me ammend my question to "why some Texans do not remove their hats indoors". I believe the original question posed by RJ was focused on the state of Texas so just staying within the scope of that inquiry. Really. I'm curious as to the rational behind it.

I don't think it's just a Texan thing. There are people here that do not remove their hats either. I think it's a generational/respect thing, to be honest.

 

[DappleDoxie]

I had said earlier today that I did not think I would post on Lit again ... but the questions of hats and their removal is too tantalizing to resist ...

Many of the young bucks or posers that wear a hat are simply rude ... but a hat to a horseman (Cowboy) is not a lid or a cover, it is not decorative either ... it is a tool. It is shelter from the sun or the rain or the wind. It can water stock if need be, pour water over an overheated head, carry tools, or eggs, or feed, or biscuits. It is not removed indoors anymore than boots and spurs are. It is removed at Church, at the Nat'l Anthem, at Mom's dinner table. It is bad luck to remove it and place it on a chair, worse on a bed ... and we are a superstitious lot. Hanging a $$$ Stetson (for a generic term of a good hat) in the coat room of a public place begs it to be stolen. Hats belong on heads or in hands/laps or on the hat rack by the door after a long day of use.

Greetings to all the Daddies and littles that abound here ... with a wistful glance to the neglected herb garden by the kitchen, and a dusty jar of marmalade setting on long outdated comics.

 

[sereneone4u]

I had said earlier today that I did not think I would post on Lit again ... but the questions of hats and their removal is too tantalizing to resist ...

Many of the young bucks or posers that wear a hat are simply rude ... but a hat to a horseman (Cowboy) is not a lid or a cover, it is not decorative either ... it is a tool. It is shelter from the sun or the rain or the wind. It can water stock if need be, pour water over an overheated head, carry tools, or eggs, or feed, or biscuits. It is not removed indoors anymore than boots and spurs are. It is removed at Church, at the Nat'l Anthem, at Mom's dinner table. It is bad luck to remove it and place it on a chair, worse on a bed ... and we are a superstitious lot. Hanging a $$$ Stetson (for a generic term of a good hat) in the coat room of a public place begs it to be stolen. Hats belong on heads or in hands/laps or on the hat rack by the door after a long day of use.

Greetings to all the Daddies and littles that abound here ... with a wistful glance to the neglected herb garden by the kitchen, and a dusty jar of marmalade setting on long outdated comics.

What happened?

Please don't go.

Everything has its good and its bad.

Same with Lit

 

[tiedtits4me]

I think you hit on something. Gentlemanly behavior is passed down from generation to generation. (And ladylike behavior too). It's sad that it's not being taught to lots of guys and gals.

You can teach it to yourself. Trust me I learnt what NOT to do by my "mother"

Hmmm, I'd be tempted to take him up on it. And to let him treat you to a lovely evening so you can wear it.

I may be tempted indeed and trust me him taking me out to dinner in it was the price to pay lol

I'd say take him up on it unless the "price" is too steep.

I've done my best to teach it to my (now adult) boys. I think some of what I taught has sunk in. It's very sad that many young men and women don't know how to simply be respectful. It's another one of my "soapbox" issues I have with our current society.

No it's not too steep at all it's just not something i'm used too. I'm usually the one doing things like that.

I totally agree with you

Y'all are cracking me up..

I'm actually a not-so-little spitfire. Short in stature, but can hold her own on a defensive line..

On the up side I might have that job!!! yeah!!!

My one comment on the gentlemen vs jerks: Doesn't matter. It depends on how you were raised, not where. It's all about a man knowing when to turn his gentleman swag off and put on a slightly different air.. I like to think Daddy knows how to do that.

And I'm not sure "lady" accurately describes me.. *thinks really hard*

There are varied definitions of what a "lady" is, and if prim and proper fall into that, then, hrm..well.. I'm not it..

YAY on a job RA. Knew you could do it.

Again it doesn't have to be just how you were raised. When you are an adult YOU are the one making the choices and acting how you act.
Sorry soap box issue for me

I was thinking that too

Hayley, no sad faces

RA, YAY!! On the job

LOL ok ok sheesh i'll let him get it for me lol

"Happy belated 4th everyone and Happy Friday to ALL - Daddies and Baby Girls! Interview went WELL! I am being recommended for any of three different positions and we discussed salaries (in addition to numerous other things - interview lasted about 45 minutes) and they've already sent me the benefits package as well. Told them I currently expect to be able to start after Sept 1st (when my Office Manager/friend/co-worker gets back from maternity leave) and now I just have to get rid of the house...."

That is so TOTALLY awesome. I'm so HAPPY for you

Hayley, thank you! Get the dress already & accept it as a gift from the generous 'someone'. Enjoy it! Some could say Daddy has me spoiled, but I prefer to think of it as 'well loved' ..~giggles~

Mutato, thank you for understanding. I must admit, I love the new house anf location..snug (2 acres) with huge pond in the backyard and lake out the front.

I've never been spoiled in my life. I don't know how to accept it lol

Place sounds amazing

 

[stan_man13]

I had said earlier today that I did not think I would post on Lit again ... but the questions of hats and their removal is too tantalizing to resist ...

Many of the young bucks or posers that wear a hat are simply rude ... but a hat to a horseman (Cowboy) is not a lid or a cover, it is not decorative either ... it is a tool. It is shelter from the sun or the rain or the wind. It can water stock if need be, pour water over an overheated head, carry tools, or eggs, or feed, or biscuits. It is not removed indoors anymore than boots and spurs are. It is removed at Church, at the Nat'l Anthem, at Mom's dinner table. It is bad luck to remove it and place it on a chair, worse on a bed ... and we are a superstitious lot. Hanging a $$$ Stetson (for a generic term of a good hat) in the coat room of a public place begs it to be stolen. Hats belong on heads or in hands/laps or on the hat rack by the door after a long day of use.

Greetings to all the Daddies and littles that abound here ... with a wistful glance to the neglected herb garden by the kitchen, and a dusty jar of marmalade setting on long outdated comics.

Thanks for the explanation! It's much appreciated!

 

[DappleDoxie]

"Interview went WELL! I am being recommended for any of three different positions and we discussed salaries (in addition to numerous other things - interview lasted about 45 minutes) and they've already sent me the benefits package as well. "

Congrats, Miss Peaches!!! Never had a doubt!!!

 

[Cookie123]

You can teach it to yourself. Trust me I learnt what NOT to do by my "mother"



I may be tempted indeed and trust me him taking me out to dinner in it was the price to pay lol



No it's not too steep at all it's just not something i'm used too. I'm usually the one doing things like that.

I totally agree with you



YAY on a job RA. Knew you could do it.

Again it doesn't have to be just how you were raised. When you are an adult YOU are the one making the choices and acting how you act.
Sorry soap box issue for me



LOL ok ok sheesh i'll let him get it for me lol



That is so TOTALLY awesome. I'm so HAPPY for you



I've never been spoiled in my life. I don't know how to accept it lol

Place sounds amazing

I used to have issues with gifts too, as I'm not a taker. I was told once, 'Just say thank you'. I try to say that in every way I possibly can. I appreciate every thing from the smallest gesture of ' I saw this picture today and it reminded me of you, thought I would share it. ' to 'Princess, check your account and enjoy!!' It truly is the thought behind it the gift, whatever it may be.

 

[photograph]

I used to have issues with gifts too, as I'm not a taker. I was told once, 'Just say thank you'. I try to say that in every way I possibly can. I appreciate every thing from the smallest gesture of ' I saw this picture today and it reminded me of you, thought I would share it. ' to 'Princess, check your account and enjoy!!' It truly is the thought behind it the gift, whatever it may be.

I am horrible at accepting anything. Compliments, gestures of kindness, gifts, etc. I always say thank you, but I always feel guilty as a thank you never seems as if it's enough.

 

[Cookie123]

Thanks for the explanation! It's much appreciated!

Very nice break down, wasn't it, Daddy?

Shower time is over..time for you to brush my hair.

~pops onto the bed, sitting between your legs and hands you the brush ~

 

[Cookie123]

I am horrible at accepting anything. Compliments, gestures of kindness, gifts, etc. I always say thank you, but I always feel guilty as a thank you never seems as if it's enough.

I understand that all too well!
I like to 'pay it back'. Like yesterday, I received several compliments on my patriotic piggies (toe nails) at the parade, so I found something about them I liked..earrings..shirts..horse..etc. Win win! We both walk away feeling good.

To you send the others..know your self worth and recognize it in others. Makes things much less awkward.. Lol

 

[Cookie123]

I had said earlier today that I did not think I would post on Lit again ... but the questions of hats and their removal is too tantalizing to resist ...

Many of the young bucks or posers that wear a hat are simply rude ... but a hat to a horseman (Cowboy) is not a lid or a cover, it is not decorative either ... it is a tool. It is shelter from the sun or the rain or the wind. It can water stock if need be, pour water over an overheated head, carry tools, or eggs, or feed, or biscuits. It is not removed indoors anymore than boots and spurs are. It is removed at Church, at the Nat'l Anthem, at Mom's dinner table. It is bad luck to remove it and place it on a chair, worse on a bed ... and we are a superstitious lot. Hanging a $$$ Stetson (for a generic term of a good hat) in the coat room of a public place begs it to be stolen. Hats belong on heads or in hands/laps or on the hat rack by the door after a long day of use.

Greetings to all the Daddies and littles that abound here ... with a wistful glance to the neglected herb garden by the kitchen, and a dusty jar of marmalade setting on long outdated comics.

As Serene said...please stay!

Thank you for the insight!

 

[stan_man13]

Very nice break down, wasn't it, Daddy?

Shower time is over..time for you to brush my hair.

~pops onto the bed, sitting between your legs and hands you the brush ~

Such long beautiful hair, this may take awhile!

 

[Cookie123]

Deleted. Never mind. Lost interest in the whole hat thing

Daddy, you know I love you, but some day...you will have to say those little words...'Yes, Princess...you are right'

Kisses!! Please don't forget the ice cream when you come to bed.

 

[Cookie123]

Such long beautiful hair, this may take awhile!

You always take such care not to pull... unless, well...annnywayy...

 

[photograph]

I'm off to work.

Sleep sweet everyone!

 

[Cookie123]

I'm off to work.

Sleep sweet everyone!

Ahhh..thanks, honey. Have a great night!!!

 

[tiedtits4me]

Yes true Cookie, i'm trying to be more like that

I am horrible at accepting anything. Compliments, gestures of kindness, gifts, etc. I always say thank you, but I always feel guilty as a thank you never seems as if it's enough.

Yeah exactly. And growing up not celebrating Christmas or birthdays I never really got gifts that often.
No it never does does it?

I'm off to work.

Sleep sweet everyone!

Good luck

 

[Cookie123]

Yes true Cookie, i'm trying to be more like that



Yeah exactly. And growing up not celebrating Christmas or birthdays I never really got gifts that often.
No it never does does it?



Good luck

Have an amazing day and let us know what happens with the dress.

Daddy brushed out all of the tangles and we're off to bed to make a few more.

 

[tiedtits4me]

Have an amazing day and let us know what happens with the dress.

Daddy brushed out all of the tangles and we're off to bed to make a few more.

It's a beautiful day and I've already done my grocery shopping, put it away, done washing. Made a reuseable dryer sheet.
Not much else to do but watch a movie.

Lol sounds perfect. Have fun

 

[iamincognito45]

What a beautiful night here! A hair on the warm side but a light cool breeze makes it perfect. And a nice clear sky too to enjoy the stars tonight.

 

[tiedtits4me]

What a beautiful night here! A hair on the warm side but a light cool breeze makes it perfect. And a nice clear sky too to enjoy the stars tonight.

It's a beautiful day here today. I enjoyed my walk. Makes me remember that I need to buy a patio set so I can sit on my balcony in the sun and enjoy it

 

[roses_n_thorns]

Hello all I hope I can join lol. reading some of these posts reminds me of 2 years of fun of being Daddy's lil girl.

Sometimes, i miss my former daddy.

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

Let me first say, I apologize ahead of time for opening up the following discussion. However, I'd rather hear the opinions of those who frequent this thread, than perhaps those of other threads.

So, first of all a confession: I really do envy those people who can RP willie nillie with whoever happens into their inbox on any given day. I can only imagine what kind of freedom that provides.

I'm not kidding either. Those who can RP or chat with others in this way without becoming emotionally attached ..really wish I had it in me. My inability to separate "sex" from "relationship" has been the number one reason I just can not have a "fuck buddy" or an "FWB."

I've considered leaving Lit altogether, well, given my RL issues right now, but also simply because sometimes I really don't feel like I "belong" here. It "is"an erotic literature site, after all. So, is it falsely advertising my "friendship" when there are no sexual intentions behind it?

I'm curious as to others' opinions about this.

Or, you can ignore me..lol..

 

[tiedtits4me]

Hello all I hope I can join lol. reading some of these posts reminds me of 2 years of fun of being Daddy's lil girl.

Sometimes, i miss my former daddy.

Of course you can. Welcome.

 

[RjThoughts]

Let me first say, I apologize ahead of time for opening up the following discussion. However, I'd rather hear the opinions of those who frequent this thread, than perhaps those of other threads.

So, first of all a confession: I really do envy those people who can RP willie nillie with whoever happens into their inbox on any given day. I can only imagine what kind of freedom that provides.

I'm not kidding either. Those who can RP or chat with others in this way without becoming emotionally attached ..really wish I had it in me. My inability to separate "sex" from "relationship" has been the number one reason I just can not have a "fuck buddy" or an "FWB."

I've considered leaving Lit altogether, well, given my RL issues right now, but also simply because sometimes I really don't feel like I "belong" here. It "is"an erotic literature site, after all. So, is it falsely advertising my "friendship" when there are no sexual intentions behind it?

I'm curious as to others' opinions about this.

Or, you can ignore me..lol..

What? You don't want me for sex?

I'm crushed
I'm hurt

/sarcasm