Cheating with permission

[joeblack29]

I sometimes tell my girlfriend when she goes out that she is single for the night. She is free to do whatever she wants. The only rule I have is she must come home that night. When she gets back we fuck and she tells me everything she's done. The sex is unbelievable. She gets off thinking about the guy or guys and I get off hearing about it. Does anyone else do this?

 

[Astaylith]

If you give her permission, is it really cheating? Seems like a nice arrangement though.

 

[joeblack29]

You're right it's not really cheating. It is a great way to add excitement to our relationship. I've never done it to her but she says she wants me to.

 

[freetolearn]

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[chargergirl]

I sometimes tell my girlfriend when she goes out that she is single for the night. She is free to do whatever she wants. The only rule I have is she must come home that night. When she gets back we fuck and she tells me everything she's done. The sex is unbelievable. She gets off thinking about the guy or guys and I get off hearing about it. Does anyone else do this?

This is an open forum, not your own personal little soapbox.

The OP is asking if anyone else does this; you clearly do not, so please do take your judgmental attitude elsewhere. Like the general board. They love that shit.

 

[chargergirl]

I get it. You think women should be seen and not heard. Covered up and waiting for permission from their husbands or boyfriends to do anything.

Please ignore the troll. it's only here to stir up shit.

 

[likeat]

Please ignore the troll. it's only here to stir up shit.

I expressed an opposing point of view to that expressed in the opening post and then was required to support it.
That is no reason for you to throw away your responsibilities as a moderator and star not only take sides, but hurling groundless insults.

 

[chargergirl]

I expressed an opposing point of view to that expressed in the opening post and then was required to support it.
That is no reason for you to throw away your responsibilities as a moderator and star not only take sides, but start hurling groundless insults.

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Again, the OP wasn't asking for opposing views, he was asking WHO ELSE DOES THIS. Really doesn't seem too hard to understand.

 

[likeat]

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Again, the OP wasn't asking for opposing views, he was asking WHO ELSE DOES THIS. Really doesn't seem too hard to understand.

True, thanks for the guidance, I have everything else that's required.

 

[AprilMorning]

I sometimes tell my girlfriend when she goes out that she is single for the night. She is free to do whatever she wants. The only rule I have is she must come home that night. When she gets back we fuck and she tells me everything she's done. The sex is unbelievable. She gets off thinking about the guy or guys and I get off hearing about it. Does anyone else do this?

I've never had this happen, but I would love if my husband told me to go out and be single...

Please ignore the troll. it's only here to stir up shit.

And good job pointing that out.... this is suppose to be open to say what you like without worry that someone is going to judge you, people like that really know how to take the fun out of things...

 

[silverwhisper]

i think if the thread title didn't invoke the word "cheating" that disagreement likely would never have happened.

ed

 

[PleasePeesMe]

I'm in love

with Chargergirl.

 

[silverwhisper]

guys, can you please stop baiting one another? the mod's already had to step in: this carping isn't doing anything useful for the OP.

ed

 

[NotSoMuchVanilla]

To answer the original question...yes. My husband and I have a similar arrangement. When I go out on a Saturday night with my girlfriends, I should consider myself single. I even take off my wedding ring, but I leave on something else of his... perhaps a belly ring he gave me, or his favorite lingerie, something like that.

It does almost always result in amazing sex when I get home, but not in the same way. When I really open my eyes to the other men on the market, while they are fun to flirt and dance with, it just reminds me of how spectacular my guy is. It's a fact I already knew, of course, but the reminder is always pleasant.

 

[likeat]

To answer the original question...yes. My husband and I have a similar arrangement. When I go out on a Saturday night with my girlfriends, I should consider myself single. I even take off my wedding ring, but I leave on something else of his... perhaps a belly ring he gave me, or his favorite lingerie, something like that.

It does almost always result in amazing sex when I get home, but not in the same way. When I really open my eyes to the other men on the market, while they are fun to flirt and dance with, it just reminds me of how spectacular my guy is. It's a fact I already knew, of course, but the reminder is always pleasant.

Now that sensible but exiting approach I can go with big time, look but don't touch works for me!

 

[pnguinfkt]

Wife/mother gets a night life.

my wife missed adult activities, so when the kids got older,I encouraged my wife to get a social life. She got a job aa a barmaid. She had so much fun with her barmaid girlfriends. flirting , drinking etc. There were a few nights she came home really late 5am and sloppy drunk, she says she kissed another guy. They made out. She knows i love her, and her honesty shows respect for me. I sometimes think she might have done more. YES the sex is amazing, I loved hearing about her flirting, dancing, and kissing other men. I encouraged her to go further with the men, but she was leery, afraid of goin too far. She stopped all that bout 5 yrs. . Great time in our marriage!!!

 

[vortex_]

I sometimes tell my girlfriend when she goes out that she is single for the night. She is free to do whatever she wants. The only rule I have is she must come home that night. When she gets back we fuck and she tells me everything she's done. The sex is unbelievable. She gets off thinking about the guy or guys and I get off hearing about it. Does anyone else do this?

So, what has she done with other guys if I may ask?

I agree about the sex being unbelievable. My girl also has my blessing to fuck other guys, provided that she comes home and tells me all about it while we get ready to fuck. She has done it quite a few times with guys that we've also had threesomes with, no strangers.

 

[NotSoMuchVanilla]

Now that sensible but exiting approach I can go with big time, look but don't touch works for me!

Umm, I believe I may have been misunderstood. I never said I look but don't touch. As of yet, I haven't really been compelled to touch, but it's not exactly off the table, either.

 

[chargergirl]

with Chargergirl.

you, too, PPM.

 

[Somehowyou]

During sex the other day my wife and I had a discussion. She always brings up her imaginary BF. I told her during sex it was OK to fuck around on me. I didn't push t but later I mentioned BBC. I said I would like to see her with a big black cock ( I said "I'd like to see that." She asked it it was for me or you. I just left it at that. The sex was amazing!

I don't know why but the hot wife fantasy always gets me going! Yesterday it got both of us going.

 

[marriedlooker73]

I don't tell her she can, I beg her to do it. Whenever she travels, I always ask her to lick someone up at the hotel bar so she can tell me about it later. If its a BBC, that would be even better.

 

[Beck31]

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[alexx_is]

I'm allowed to cheat on him, but only if it's with another girl. I would definitely do it, if given the opportunity

 

[joeblack29]

I'm allowed to cheat on him, but only if it's with another girl. I would definitely do it, if given the opportunity

Give yourself the opportunity and ask him. We started out with her having girlfriends.

 

[sassygirly]

sounds like a great idea to me!