Start a petition, all prostrate exams should start with a drink, and end with an "I love ya man!"
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Start a petition, all prostrate exams should start with a drink, and end with an "I love ya man!"
RjThoughts
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one for that, and one that states endocrinologists must NOT try and tickle your feet during a diabetic foot exam, or I'll have to crack my toes again as he does
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I spent my twenties in a strip club. I haven't seen real boobies in years.
Plus, I rarely breast feed anymore. But the otherwise is tough to go without. You got me there.I spent my twenties in a strip club. I haven't seen real boobies in years.
Knew one (or both) would make you think about it!
Oh and if you take a peek at my Av... they're real, and they're spectacular!
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Well, thanks to your profile pic, I'm thinking about breast feeding again. You never really get over that impulse, do you? And a quick question on the prostrate massage. Should I go Shiatsu or Hot Stone?
No, it's innate!
Well unless the thought of sticking hot stones up your ass does something for you...I'd go either Shiatsu or Swedish!
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Huh, I was sure I said prostrate not prostate.
Oooops, that was me saying prostrate! Damn auto correct, and I didn't even check! Well, then I'd go for the stones!
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You two are cracking me up!
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Ganache to him!!
Ganache across the face could quite possibly hurt.
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Only if it's still hot or if it's been in the fridge for a bit
Either/or...impressed you know about ganache.
Someone submit a damn secret soon...we're turning into a prostate/bakery thread!
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The cake police can always submit a secret.
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Ganache is hot cream and butter poured into bittersweet chocolate, stirred...
I make a "faux fudge" as well with cocoa powder, butter, confectioner's sugar and corn syrup
I make a "faux fudge" as well with cocoa powder, butter, confectioner's sugar and corn syrup
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While I'd like to contribute a confession involving zip ties, butter cream icing and more than two men and a woman....The cake police can always submit a secret.
Sadly, I can not at this time.
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RA - I love your new AV, it's really pretty
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I wish I could be who I try so hard to be. I feel like I fake myself to almost everybody. Certain people will see a real side of me, but no one really get's the whole truth. I try to be a fun, happy easy going guy. Sometimes, I can get lost in that and be ok for some time. But honestly? I get depressed, sad, I get way too harsh on myself. I focus my life on a craft and honestly? I doubt that I'm even good enough to do anything with it. I try to not care, I try to just be myself and not worry. But I do care, we all care, we're human. But it gets to me. I want to be accepted, I want to be loved. But yet this? the real me? will never be truly shared. (I apologize if I'm stumbling over myself here.)
I wish I could be who I try so hard to be. I feel like I fake myself to almost everybody. Certain people will see a real side of me, but no one really get's the whole truth. I try to be a fun, happy easy going guy. Sometimes, I can get lost in that and be ok for some time. But honestly? I get depressed, sad, I get way too harsh on myself. I focus my life on a craft and honestly? I doubt that I'm even good enough to do anything with it. I try to not care, I try to just be myself and not worry. But I do care, we all care, we're human. But it gets to me. I want to be accepted, I want to be loved. But yet this? the real me? will never be truly shared. (I apologize if I'm stumbling over myself here.)
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Holy shit, I could have written that word for word about myself...
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You just voiced what most, if not all, truly are deep down. Everyone fakes it. Everyone has layers and layers of defenses to hide the real person they are. We do it to fit in, to blend in, to get the job, to keep family off our backs, and a myriad of other reasons. Self doubt, wanting what others seem to have, missed opportunities, we all have them. And we all have good days and bad days. You're not alone in that. There are gifts and joys along the way in this life. Treasure them. I hope one day you have the opportunity to share who you are with someone.
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Honey, you just described basic human nature. We all have a deeper, darker side that we pick and choose who we allow to see. We're all our own worst critics.
A very wise friend convinced me not long ago that I was doing my friends a disservice by not allowing them to be there for me when I needed them. I practiced opening up to them a little at a time until it eventually became 2nd nature. My friend was right; I had been doing them a disservice. I learned that it's ok to be vulnerable in front of people I trust, and they got the privilege of helping me through a dark time. The bonds between us are closer than ever now.
There are people who don't fit in with the scenario you painted. They don't have self-doubt, and they think they're above all of the normal human failings. They tend to have personality disorders - the sociopaths, the narcissists, the Paris Hiltons and Lindsey Lohans of society. So when you catch yourself in self-loathing mode, try to ease up. And remember, it just means you're perfectly normal.
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I can't add a whole lot to what has already been said, but I want you to know that it's wonderful that you recognize this in yourself. It shows you have a heart, a soul.
Don't be too hard on yourself, either. We are all human, whether some of us want to admit it or not.
As a man, society tells you that you are supposed to suck it up and be a certain way or it indicates weakness. What truly indicates strength, though, is your ability to embrace your faults and show your weakness to others. So, my advice is to tell society to go fuck itself.
( I'm a pot calling a kettle here, but even us super heroes have to work on ourselves from time to time )Open up a little at a time if you are afraid. You'll be surprised how supportive and accepting your true friends will be for you when you need them.
(((hugs))) and
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