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Twlightdreamer
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Happily Married, Sexually Unfulfilled
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L8tnIt
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May I join, and make this a supportive group hug?
Deprived_in_AZ
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How do you always know when I need a hug? *cuddles up*
Yes, please. C'mere.
pfflyerhot
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I've nearly forgotten myself, but I'm not married.
Sadly, I think the same thing... perhaps not as sadly as if I were happily married... though.
As a single woman, the GIF thread always make it worse for me...
Truly, I feel for everyone of you in each of your situations. I wish you well in your struggles.
tallman1970
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I've nearly forgotten myself, but I'm not married.
Sadly, I think the same thing... perhaps not as sadly as if I were happily married... though.
As a single woman, the GIF thread always make it worse for me...
Truly, I feel for everyone of you in each of your situations. I wish you well in your struggles.
Nice, I'm single too and loving it. It's nice not to be in a marriage that's not working. And I'm better for it.
SimpleGifts
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Well, as someone I know once said, at least it's better to be lonely when you're alone and have the freedom to find someone and do something about it, rather than when you're stuck with someone else and are STILL lonely.
Best of luck to you too.
SG
totallybeachn
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Hmmm...
This thread seems to have died, so I can only conclude that everyone's now sexually fulfilled in their marriages. Damn, I missed that memo.
This thread seems to have died, so I can only conclude that everyone's now sexually fulfilled in their marriages. Damn, I missed that memo.
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crazy4cock
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Can i get an amen?
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jmarx20102012
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I think most of us have lost hope.
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Deprived_in_AZ
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Nope, this thread will never die. There's plenty of misery to keep it going for all eternity!
Porkwarrior
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Haa haa, I stopped coming here because it was just too depressing!
Have you guys stopped in to ADVR & SexyTomboy's AmPics th'd? Quite a moving story & inspirational change......that just depressed me more! D'oh!
Deprived_in_AZ
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Haa haa, I stopped coming here because it was just too depressing!
Have you guys stopped in to ADVR & SexyTomboy's AmPics th'd? Quite a moving story & inspirational change......that just depressed me more! D'oh!
LOL and yet here you are
Porkwarrior
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LOL and yet here you are
Oh, I went the "cheating bastard douchebag" route, so now I am not that happily married but nowhere near as sexually unfulfilled.
Don't have much to talk about in here now.
Deprived_in_AZ
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Oh, I went the "cheating bastard douchebag" route, so now I am not that happily married but nowhere near as sexually unfulfilled.
Don't have much to talk about in here now.
I'm glad you got some frustration out of your system!
So which one did you choose, the escort or the good friend? And are you happy with your choice?
Porkwarrior
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I'm glad you got some frustration out of your system!
So which one did you choose, the escort or the good friend? And are you happy with your choice?
Haa haa, well the escort never really appealed to me, and that particular Litster friend apparently got spooked & dropped off the face of the Earth (hasn't logged in for weeks now).
Found another married Litster that lives 15mins away that we have connected with, pretty much same situation (BTW -- Dating when you're 40 SUCKS...until it pays off, then it is AWESOME!). We've chatted almost daily for a couple of months, just flirty phone sex that neither of us thought was going anywhere. Until it went somewhere with a vengeance.
BTW -- For the record, sex in cars really does suck and should be left to teenagers, sex in restaurant bathrooms is even naughtier than I remember, and sex in other people's houses is just uncomfortable. Now cheating afternoon sex in decent motel's with a view of the lake...that I have grown to like. Especially when there is a large picture window looking out onto a chilly windblown empty lake and I can excercise a new found exhibitionist fetish pressed up against it.
Um...yeah not so sexually unfulfilled in the new year so far.
agreed
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Not the THREAD!!! DUH!
Mark Twain! Simple reading & comprehension really!
This YEAR! Try almost 6 years!!! ::sighs::
Mark Twain! Simple reading & comprehension really!
This YEAR! Try almost 6 years!!! ::sighs::
Haa haa, I stopped coming here because it was just too depressing!
Have you guys stopped in to ADVR & SexyTomboy's AmPics th'd? Quite a moving story & inspirational change......that just depressed me more! D'oh!
Earofverdi
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Shit. So many posts. I don't know whether to feel comforted, or disheartened.
I've not quite given up hope, but in the stage of inappropriate fantasies involving female friends. Which to be honest is not that different when I was sexually fulfilled.
I've not quite given up hope, but in the stage of inappropriate fantasies involving female friends. Which to be honest is not that different when I was sexually fulfilled.
oklablakjak
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Me and my wife have been together a little over 30 yrs now. Our sex life is as good if not better then its ever been. In fact we have been enjoying each other in bed for the last 4 or 5 hours, Before then it had been a few days since we messed around any. To me she is just as beautiful as when when we met.
She says that when we have sex she still images us as we were when we were young.
I was 23 just out of the Corps and she was 16. We have raised 3 kids. One is still in high school and lives with us.
She says that when we have sex she still images us as we were when we were young.
I was 23 just out of the Corps and she was 16. We have raised 3 kids. One is still in high school and lives with us.
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beautiful, very happy for you both
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totallybeachn
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Now that's...
A good question. Good for both of them, but the question remains: Then why come on here? More to the point: Why on this thread of all threads?
A good question. Good for both of them, but the question remains: Then why come on here? More to the point: Why on this thread of all threads?
Lilivonschtupp666
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This thread started 8 years ago!
When I did a thread search and saw this one I felt relief. Other people with similar problems. Then I checked the date and felt very sad. There are still people struggling. Not so comforting. Let me back up and say that I have been married for 13 years. The last nine have been sexless. My husband has tried various medications and they have really unpleasant side effects. It's become so awkward to even talk about. I If I approach this discussion the wrong way it makes things worse. It emasculates. I can't take the rejection. I can't talk to friends about it. It's too humiliating. I've tried to convince him to do couples therapy. Not going to happen. I haven't cheated or even reached out to anyone. I love my husband and know that he is a good man but I feeling like I am drowning. Like I am sleep walking thru life. So what I'm saying is maybe you guys can give me some advice. I just need to know someone has been thru this and how they handled it.
When I did a thread search and saw this one I felt relief. Other people with similar problems. Then I checked the date and felt very sad. There are still people struggling. Not so comforting. Let me back up and say that I have been married for 13 years. The last nine have been sexless. My husband has tried various medications and they have really unpleasant side effects. It's become so awkward to even talk about. I If I approach this discussion the wrong way it makes things worse. It emasculates. I can't take the rejection. I can't talk to friends about it. It's too humiliating. I've tried to convince him to do couples therapy. Not going to happen. I haven't cheated or even reached out to anyone. I love my husband and know that he is a good man but I feeling like I am drowning. Like I am sleep walking thru life. So what I'm saying is maybe you guys can give me some advice. I just need to know someone has been thru this and how they handled it.
1sickbastard
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If you want to stay married you have a few options:
Continue to be sexually unfulfilled.
Cheat.
Ask your hubby for an open marriage so you can get some satisfaction w/o having to cheat.
Stock up a large toy collection and pursue erotica/porn for masturbation.
Get counselling for yourself, with a purpose of figuring out how to get your hubby to talk about the situation so you two can get to the root of the problem.
Other options are probably out there, but it really does come down to a single question; is your marriage, as it stands now, worth more or less than your own needs.
Good luck.
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