The Isolated Blurt BDSM Thread

[DeepGreenEyes]

Love is fucked up, Cupid is a bastard, and Aphrodite is the biggest bitch of them all.

Or I could just be jaded.

No, I think you've more or less nailed it. In fact, with some line editing, I think it makes a fine poem.

What she said.

Wenchie is +6 among swing voters.

 

[Loverskitten]

Why, in the name of Zeus and The Claw do I continue to imagine that I want some kind of relationship with a person who has shown me, over and over, in ways large and small, that they want absolutely nothing to do with me?

I mean, seriously, what kind of fucked up IS that?

It's hard to come to the realization that the people we think we can't live without, can live without us.
I'm going through this too and I feel like an idiot.
She must be a bigger idiot though, cause swoon

 

[Loverskitten]

My lit has a sad. Anyone know why?

it's not sad anymore but, was lit trying to tell me something?
http://i1239.photobucket.com/albums/ff512/Loverskitten/B0C1089B-7ECD-4F54-8C07-87423F433144-10429-00000D7C7A62470E.jpg

 

[cfuhrer]

Seriously?
A three day headache?
Why?


Bonus blurt: its time to official recognize the window sill is no longer a baby-safe place to put things.

 

[the captians wench]

No, I think you've more or less nailed it. In fact, with some line editing, I think it makes a fine poem.



Wenchie is +6 among swing voters.

Woohoo!

 

[Salenku]

Why, in the name of Zeus and The Claw do I continue to imagine that I want some kind of relationship with a person who has shown me, over and over, in ways large and small, that they want absolutely nothing to do with me?

I mean, seriously, what kind of fucked up IS that?

*hugs* it's fucked up, but we've all been there, sweetheart... I find alcohol and a busy social life helps distract me tremendously. Just a thought. *more hugs*

 

[Sir_Winston54]

*hugs* it's fucked up, but we've all been there, sweetheart... I find alcohol and a busy social life helps distract me tremendously. Just a thought. *more hugs*

Ooooo... alcohol.

I have most of a fifth of Mark in my freezer. I think it will be a little less of a fifth by the time the evening's done.

 

[Loverskitten]

*hugs* it's fucked up, but we've all been there, sweetheart... I find alcohol and a busy social life helps distract me tremendously. Just a thought. *more hugs*

Nonononono alcohol makes me contact the person I should not be contacting!

 

[Salenku]

Nonononono alcohol makes me contact the person I should not be contacting!

Ah we'll. Just delete the details of the person before imbibing!

 

[Loverskitten]

Ah we'll. Just delete the details of the person before imbibing!

I wish I could. I really should. Now that'll take a lot of drinks!

 

[Salenku]

I wish I could. I really should. Now that'll take a lot of drinks!

Ah. In that case, have a friend do it for you. Then they must make you many cocktails!

 

[gypsy*seer]

Why, in the name of Zeus and The Claw do I continue to imagine that I want some kind of relationship with a person who has shown me, over and over, in ways large and small, that they want absolutely nothing to do with me?

I mean, seriously, what kind of fucked up IS that?

The all-to-remembered quote comes to mind
"We always want what we can't have."

I don't want to play this game anymore. Not when there are so many alternatives.

Game, set & match to Curi! You may now take your ball and go home
~ if you so choose!

Seriously?
A three day headache?
Why?

Bonus blurt: its time to official recognize the window sill is no longer a baby-safe place to put things.

Sorry, sweetie! Healing thoughts out to ya'


Yup ~ Happy Hour! Salute, everyone!

 

[Curious_in_Cali]

Then don't, darlin'!

Too often, I think, we do "what is expected," we let others set priorities for us that have, really, nothing to do with what WE need in our lives.

As you say, "There are so many alternatives." Pick out one, or two, or a dozen, that seem to fit at least part of what you want, and check 'em out. Your life is yours. Live it for you.

Yes, that is it. Thank you. So much. You are right, of course, but man what a challenge it has been. I clearly have so much more to find and learn. It's a good thing I like coffee! Whew!

Big squishy hug, Sir!

 

[BiBunny]

You know, as someone who hasn't had cable since 2006, it actually disturbs me how much TV controls the lives of the people around me. I mean...it's really disturbing. I don't even know how to describe it.

 

[the captians wench]

Ooooo... alcohol.

I have most of a fifth of Mark in my freezer. I think it will be a little less of a fifth by the time the evening's done.

Ooohhhhh.....*gives pretty doe eyes*

I am such a whiskey girl.

You know, as someone who hasn't had cable since 2006, it actually disturbs me how much TV controls the lives of the people around me. I mean...it's really disturbing. I don't even know how to describe it.

I hear ya. I don't even own a TV at this point, but when I have dinner with my friends, the evening entertainment is something they have on DVR. Hell, most of the day if I go over that's what's going on.

I get so much more done now that TV has been ripped out of my life. Of course, I'd get even more done if I wasn't of drugs that make me feel like I've been drinking for a few hours.

 

[BiBunny]

I hear ya. I don't even own a TV at this point, but when I have dinner with my friends, the evening entertainment is something they have on DVR. Hell, most of the day if I go over that's what's going on.

I get so much more done now that TV has been ripped out of my life. Of course, I'd get even more done if I wasn't of drugs that make me feel like I've been drinking for a few hours.

See, when I was a little bunny, I was taught that it's extremely rude to leave the TV on while you've got company. It's like saying to your guests "Whatever I'm watching on TV is more important to me than anything you've got to say." People never understand why I feel put out when they sit there for goddamn hours watching shit (and it's ALWAYS "shit"), but it really feels like a freaking insult to me.

Also, with the advent of DVR, it's not like you're *missing* anything by turning it off for 5 fucking minutes to speak to me like a human being.

I don't understand the way people talk about TV characters like they're actual people, either. A passing reference to something is fine, but if I've never seen whatever you're talking about, I REALLY don't want to sit there for five hours while you describe the plot and wax rhapsodic about the characters.

I mean, I love the Internet, and I love reading, but if I have friends over, I can lay my laptop and my Kindle down for days if need be.

 

[bhndblueyes88]

I wish he would realize that when it takes me all night to provoke some sort of response from him, it really makes me feel undesirable. Particularly since he never initiates anything.



(aside: I realize I should just tell him this. But then I'd just think to myself that he's only responding BECAUSE I talked to him about it, so it wouldn't really fix the problem for my idiot brain.)

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

It's hard to come to the realization that the people we think we can't live without, can live without us.
I'm going through this too and I feel like an idiot.
She must be a bigger idiot though, cause swoon

No, you're not an idiot at all, even though you feel that way.

You cannot make someone value you, or even want to be on good terms with you. You just can't (If you could, I'd know, because I am way into mind control ). It takes desire on the part of the other person.

Yes, I know this isn't profound, but sometimes it still perplexes me no end.

Woohoo!

Your internals are strong.

*hugs* it's fucked up, but we've all been there, sweetheart... I find alcohol and a busy social life helps distract me tremendously. Just a thought. *more hugs*

Oh thanks. It's more of an astonishment on my part at my own odd naiveté. It has a very Great Pumpkin quality to it.

The all-to-remembered quote comes to mind
"We always want what we can't have."


Well, thank you.

I want a luxury treehouse in a coast redwood. And I may yet get it.

Seriously?
A three day headache?
Why?

Wish I had an alleve emoticon.

See, when I was a little bunny, I was taught that it's extremely rude to leave the TV on while you've got company. It's like saying to your guests "Whatever I'm watching on TV is more important to me than anything you've got to say." People never understand why I feel put out when they sit there for goddamn hours watching shit (and it's ALWAYS "shit"), but it really feels like a freaking insult to me.

wtf???? MANNERS????

 

[Stella_Omega]

The stuff I accomplished today should have been accomplished three weeks ago.

 

[cfuhrer]

The stuff I accomplished today should have been accomplished three weeks ago.

Chalk one of those up on my board, too.

But, its done right? So there's that.

 

[seela]

The stuff I accomplished today should have been accomplished three weeks ago.

The stuff I accomplished last week was something that should have been accomplished two years ago. Better late than never, huh... Luckily university here is pretty lenient when it comes to schedules.

 

[Artemis1991]

Which is your real life?
'Real' life or 'Online/Hidden' life?

 

[the captians wench]

Your internals are strong.

The question has come up if I can break pencils when I orgasm.


Oh, is that not what you meant?

The stuff I accomplished last week was something that should have been accomplished two years ago. Better late than never, huh... Luckily university here is pretty lenient when it comes to schedules.

I'm in a similar boat, only I should have done this stuff 10 years ago.

 

[Red Sonja]

The stuff I'm doing today I should have been asked to do 2 years ago... preventatively. As opposed to now, still somewhat preventive but also a bit like trying to shut the barn door after the horse has bolted.

That's today's exciting whine. I really wish it was a cabernet though.

 

[seela]

I'm in a similar boat, only I should have done this stuff 10 years ago.

Except that I've been enrolled at the university for the past 4 years already and just been putting this one thing off all these years.