Women, how do you protect yourselves?

[CandiCame]

Remember this is the retard and/or troll who said...


Us men are supposed to know beforehand weather or not she wants a us to make advances of a sexual nature before we try. Anything else and we are misogynist pigs....and RAPIST LIVING IN A RAPE CULTURE!!! ZOMG!!!

Believe me I wish I knew which women wanted my sexual advances beforehand as well......I'm quite obviously to much of a misogynist to be a mind reader though. It gives me a big sad LMFAO!!!

I just think it's sad that she cares so little about ACTUAL RAPE CULTURE that she can compare a compliment "nice ass" to a culture where rape is actually used as a common fear tactic and is an actual concern. Let her go live in Saudi Arabia for a year, and listen to the concerns of people in an ACTUAL rape culture and watch how fast those women tear her apart.

Let her tell a woman here in the States who has been raped, who has been in abusive relationship with an actual rapist that she's pissed you hit on her and- wait, no, you know what- she has no feels. I don't think that she would even feel guilty after that. I'm done with her.

 

[satindesire]

How do you teach someone not to rape? It's an act of violence...

You can teach them how to be respectful and polite. You can teach social skills and etiquette. But you can no sooner teach someone not to rape any more than you can teach a bear not to shit in the woods.

I disagree. Not every single rapist is a violent offender who attacks random women. Often enough, rape happens because the guy in question had sex with a heavily intoxicated women, or thinks that he "deserves" sex from his girlfriend/wife because she's his girlfriend/wife. Rape isn't always heavily violent where the man knows for a fact that she's 100% noncompliant. That's why I believe there -is- hope to teach men about consent and boundaries and respect.

I just think it's sad that she cares so little about ACTUAL RAPE CULTURE that she can compare a compliment "nice ass" to a culture where rape is actually used as a common fear tactic and is an actual concern. Let her go live in Saudi Arabia for a year, and listen to the concerns of people in an ACTUAL rape culture and watch how fast those women tear her apart.

Let her tell a woman here in the States who has been raped, who has been in abusive relationship with an actual rapist that she's pissed you hit on her and- wait, no, you know what- she has no feels. I don't think that she would even feel guilty after that. I'm done with her.

It's interesting that I haven't seen a single person tell YOU to shut up about your abuse that you've suffered because you don't live in Saudi Arabia and would be executed for having sex with men, yet this is the -third- time you've mentioned the fact that since we don't live in the middle east, us American wimminz should stop being so emotional about sexual harassment.

I'm not surprised that you can't hold yourself to the same standards you hold everyone else.

Remember this is the retard and/or troll who said...


Us men are supposed to know beforehand weather or not she wants a us to make advances of a sexual nature before we try. Anything else and we are misogynist pigs....and RAPIST LIVING IN A RAPE CULTURE!!! ZOMG!!!

Believe me I wish I knew which women wanted my sexual advances beforehand as well......I'm quite obviously to much of a misogynist to be a mind reader though. It gives me a big sad LMFAO!!!

I haven't even said anything of the sort. I've said that you need to treat women with respect, not to stare or sexually harass women. I've clearly stated that a respectful look is fine, but since you WANT to sexually harass "sluts", you refuse to note the difference between complimenting a beautiful woman in a respectful way that doesn't cross boundaries, and sexually harassing her. You have to fool yourself into thinking that "sluts" WANT you to sexually harass them so you can continue to do it without feeling guilty.

I've clearly stated the difference between approaching politely and impolitely, I've used factual data collected from your own posts copy and pasted word for word, but you can't argue this subject with facts from my posts...you're a hypocrite and a liar that exaggerates my words for your own means.

Fact is, every decent man looking in on this knows I'm 100% right, that there is a difference between complimenting and harassing and sees your behavior as disgusting. I'll say it again, if you don't like being called out on being an asshole, don't act like an asshole.

Note: an actual post from an actual decent man:

Holy fucking shit.

I hereby propose a new gender: Asshole.

• The physical requirements are: none.
• Mental requirements: agree with more than .000001% of anything BotanyBoy and/or Once-ler said. Or say.
• Psycho-social requirements: agree with more than .000001% of anything BotanyBoy and/or Once-ler said. Or say.

I'm sorry you were exposed to those assholes claiming to be men. I'm sorry you were exposed to those assholes claiming to be humans. They are neither.

BTW, .000001% is one-millionth of one percent, or the equivalent of a very tiny fraction of one of the periods in their posts. Just in case anyone had a brief thought that I was suggesting that they had said something I would agree with.

 

[blobfish]

Seriously, are you giving birth or passing a kidney stone or something in that avatar?

 

[CandiCame]

Has this just kind of devolved into a 'try to get SD to say stupid shit" thread?

 

[blobfish]

Has this just kind of devolved into a 'try to get SD to say stupid shit" thread?

It would be more fun to try and make her say something that's not stupid.

 

[Disgustipated]

Every decent man knows you're right? Fuck you. I don't even care about the context of the post, just fuck you. You've always been an insufferable self righteous twat.

 

[warrior queen]

I find it interesting that certain male posters cannot see the difference between 'Hi, my name's Bob, and I wanted to come meet you' and 'Nice ass - wanna fuck?'

And for the record.... There are very few men who politely back off when faced with a firm 'NO', especially if they've had a few or are in the company of equally disrespectful men.
We women get this ALL the time

Oh, and trying to make a comparison between constant, low-level harrassment and the societies that ritualistically perpetrate atrocities against women is, quite simply, stupid.

 

[satindesire]

I find it interesting that certain male posters cannot see the difference between 'Hi, my name's Bob, and I wanted to come meet you' and 'Nice ass - wanna fuck?'

And for the record.... There are very few men who politely back off when faced with a firm 'NO', especially if they've had a few or are in the company of equally disrespectful men.
We women get this ALL the time

Oh, and trying to make a comparison between constant, low-level harrassment and the societies that ritualistically perpetrate atrocities against women is, quite simply, stupid.

Careful dear, the last thing you want is to be accused of playing the victim, wanting people to bow down to you because you have a vagina, or being a man-hating feminazi.

 

[warrior queen]

Careful dear, the last thing you want is to be accused of playing the victim, wanting people to bow down to you because you have a vagina, or being a man-hating feminazi.

But..... I am a victim.
I have been raped.
And I have had to explain how my choice of clothing didn't contribute to my rape in an open court.
And I have been sexually harrassed at work.
And I have had my ass grabbed by drunken yobbo's at the pub who blocked my way.

I am a woman.

 

[satindesire]

But..... I am a victim.
I have been raped.
And I have had to explain how my choice of clothing didn't contribute to my rape in an open court.
And I have been sexually harrassed at work.
And I have had my ass grabbed by drunken yobbo's at the pub who blocked my way.

I am a woman.

Unfortunately, to those guys, there is no difference between being and playing.

 

[blobfish]

Not all white males are rapists; some just sexually harass.

 

[KRCummings]

Holy fucking fuck nuts.

 

[blobfish]

Unfortunately, to those guys, there is no difference between being and playing.

What about WingedKiss? She accused you of having a victim complex. Is she one of "those guys"?

 

[Wings]

What about WingedKiss? She accused you of having a victim complex. Is she one of "those guys"?

You leave my cock out of this.

 

[blobfish]

You leave my cock out of this.

You forced it into the conversation.

 

[Wings]

You forced it into the conversation.

It's ok, it's not legitimate.

 

[blobfish]

It's ok, it's not legitimate.

I'll bet you were Akin to bust that one out.

 

[warrior queen]

Not all white males are rapists; some just sexually harass.

You are correct - my rapistS (there were 3 of them) were black.
However, here on lit, I am not 'allowed' to harbour ill-feelings toward people of a darker complexion.
But you know, when I think back, pretty much every instance of overtly obnoxious behaviour toward me has been done by black men..... African, Aboriginal, middle-Eastern, African-American.

 

[blobfish]

You are correct - my rapistS (there were 3 of them) were black.
However, here on lit, I am not 'allowed' to harbour ill-feelings toward people of a darker complexion.
But you know, when I think back, pretty much every instance of overtly obnoxious behaviour toward me has been done by black men..... African, Aboriginal, middle-Eastern, African-American.

You're not helping your cause.

 

[Wings]

You are correct - my rapistS (there were 3 of them) were black.
However, here on lit, I am not 'allowed' to harbour ill-feelings toward people of a darker complexion.
But you know, when I think back, pretty much every instance of overtly obnoxious behaviour toward me has been done by black men..... African, Aboriginal, middle-Eastern, African-American.

What?


Do you really have no idea how this reads?

When I was 16 a 50 year old red head ran a red light and hit my car.

Does that mean I have the right to think all red heads are going to hit my car? Or harbor "ill will" toward them all?

 

[KRCummings]

I doubt she was raped. It's an excuse to hate black people.
And even if she was raped she gets no sympathy because she's a racist piece of shit and they all deserve to be repeatedly raped.
I'm going with it never having happened though. It's not like she's known for telling the truth.

 

[warrior queen]

What?


Do you really have no idea how this reads?

When I was 16 a 50 year old red head ran a red light and hit my car.

Does that mean I have the right to think all red heads are going to hit my car? Or harbor "ill will" toward them all?

I really don't give a fuck how this reads.
You just don't want to hear the facts as they are, pertinent to my life (I agree not EVERY woman has been hassled by EVERY black male.)

I just came back from 8 days in Darwin, and the ONLY guys who harrassed me were Aboriginal.
Not one other person overstepped the mark, despite all of us being incredibly intoxicated.

 

[KRCummings]

I bet they all had gook flu.

 

[blobfish]

I doubt she was raped. It's an excuse to hate black people.
And even if she was raped she gets no sympathy because she's a racist piece of shit and they all deserve to be repeatedly raped.
I'm going with it never having happened though. It's not like she's known for telling the truth.

I think her claims of sexual harassment are wishful thinking. How old does she claim to be? 40 something? How many women that age get sexually harassed regularly?

 

[warrior queen]

I doubt she was raped. It's an excuse to hate black people.
And even if she was raped she gets no sympathy because she's a racist piece of shit and they all deserve to be repeatedly raped.
I'm going with it never having happened though. It's not like she's known for telling the truth.

Finally, after all your dhit and lies, you have made me angry enoug to put you on ignore.
You are a complete cunt - how dare you minimise something like a rape?
No wonder you are so fucking hated here.