I'm not usually an asshole
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I'm not usually an asshole
I believe that if you walked around with your cock hanging out, 99% of women would pointedly ignore you... and the remaining 1% would politely inform you that you hadn't finished dressing that morning.
I do not believe that we'd be irresistably drawn to grope it, nor would we have a conversation with you while unable to lift our eyes higher than your crotch.
And I seriously don't imagine we'd either wolf-whistle or yell 'Nice cock!' from across the street.
wrong.
Too fucking bad....she's in public and if she is going to dress with 1/2 her ass hanging out etc., etc
Being a whore is no excuse for men to grope.
Besides, I prefer to be called a selective-slut.
Yes, well, I'm American too. I'm also against sexual harassment. So obviously not all Americans are being "taught" that sexual harassment is okay.
I'm surprised you guys are surprised that I'm pointing this out. When you generalize and tar a group of people with the same brush, don't be surprised when someone points out the fallacy of it.
Yeah, because everyone who espouses the proven medical benefits of cannabis are pot smokers.
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I believe that if you walked around with your cock hanging out, 99% of women would pointedly ignore you... and the remaining 1% would politely inform you that you hadn't finished dressing that morning.
I do not believe that we'd be irresistably drawn to grope it, nor would we have a conversation with you while unable to lift our eyes higher than your crotch.
And I seriously don't imagine we'd either wolf-whistle or yell 'Nice cock!' from across the street.
NEVER said it was necessarily for men....I said they are dressing to show off for others, usually men, sometimes women. Doesn't matter...they are doing the same thing as the guy in the fancy car with all the bling...it's peacocking, showing off to a attract someone, we all do it. Women flash T&A guys flex bank accounts and power. We all do it....it's well documented human behavior.
Too fucking bad....she's in public and if she is going to dress with 1/2 her ass hanging out I'm going to enjoy the view. If it were for her man only she needs to save daisy dukes/mini skirt for the house and wear regular pants/skirt like everyone else.....
Same thing with boob meat....don't want the public staring at your tit's don't expose them to the public, pretty simple yea?
Seriously?
You have a great ass = rapist, harasser of women, pig!!
WTF BRO??You can't have it both ways. "OH I'm going to let my ass hang out but only hot guys that I think are attractive can say anything about it!!"
Just be honest, if it's Mr.BrokassMcFugly it's harassment...if it's Mr.Gotrocks McStud it's flirting.
Oh no, far from it..I'm just a realist who understands that rejection is an unavoidable part of the game be it in an earnest dating effort looking for that special someone or going out and getting laid with the first bar skank that will say yes.
Where did I condone stalking, harassment or physical assault? You go off your neuroleptic meds again? I clearly stated that anyone is apt to be hit on by anyone in public....but it's not harassment no matter how rude as long as the rejected get's lost when told to. Don't believe me, call 911 and tell them some guy looked down your tank top when you were shooting pool at the local bar and they will laugh at you and say "Yea? So?..what do you want us to do about tit?" HAHAHAHA I made a funny.....
but as long as he complies with your rejection you can't go screaming harassment on the guy who does simply because he is rude. If you tell him to leave you alone and he doesn't then there is a problem and you should prob call for help/cops.
It's an american right to be an asshole.
Ahhh see there goes that whole freedom bit....I don't have to treat you like anything. As long as I don't harass/persue/threaten/ act threatening to you I can be as big of an asshole as I want to be.
Because sometimes you just have to give someone the bird on the highway...and sometimes you have to just have to go ask the drunk girl at the club wearing something that resembles 3 pieces of string and a couple of wet napkins if she want's to go your place and fuck.
I just thought the hypocracy of you saying this after your 'men are potential rapists I live in a rape culture' continuous bullshittery throughout this thread was funny enough to warrant a reblog.
Telling a strait/bi guy not to look at boobs is like telling a strait/bi chick not to look at Pecs. I work on my ass off, so if I go out in public topless, which, for some reason that I don't understand, I'm allowed to do and ladies are not- seriously, wtf is that- it usually is because either 1: it's hot 2: I'm hot or 3: I want attention.
But again, if I tell someone to fuck off and they do, then it's not harassment. God if I bitched about every time I was groped by a drunk chick or wolf-whistled at, or judged as a sex object, I would be suicidaly fucking depressed. And again, I think that when there are real problems in the world, I would be a whiney bitch to bitch about it. If I didn't want to deal with that shit, I wouldn't go to clubs or beaches or whatnot. I'd sit on my ass and play video games. I'd limit myself to activities where I would stay fully dressed. But that shit just doesn't bother me. It doesn't make me feel weak.
And in what universe are American women raised 'not to make waves'?
Especially in Appalachia where I'm from, we're raised to respect women BECAUSE BITCHES WILL KILL YOU. And when I took my education classes, we had to take special classes on bullying, because women are meaner then men if they're going to be mean. Women tend to bully more, and when they fight, somebody goes to the hospital. Women where I'm from are conditioned not to take shit- and we're conditioned not to fuck with them, because they will stab you or whatnot. Then throw all your shit out the window and tell you that if you don't come pick it up they're gonna have a yard sell.
Is satindesire the female Irezumi?
You're a mouthy bitch for a sub married to an obviously bitch ass Dom.
I wish. I love Zoomie.
I can see it in your posting style. Patronizing entire groups of people, bolded lettering in inappropriate locations, hollow rhetoric and a throbbing victim complex. You've pretty much got him nailed, but you need more animated GIFs.
Grow up.
Now I remember why I nuked you in the first place.
Ta-ta.
Oh My God. Ugh. You my friend, are a bitter, entitled misogynist with your head so far up your ass that it's amazing you can see enough light to type.
Go ahead and poll some women and ask them who they dress for. Strange men, or themselves. I double-dog-dare you to.
I can already tell you what the majority of women will say. Then again, you've already made it absolutely clear that no matter what anyone says, even if ten thousand women say it, you're NEVER changing your mind...because in your eyes, that excuses your behavior. "She WANTS me to harass her!" So this part of the conversation is absolutely pointless. I know I'm absolutely right, but you're clinging so hard to your misogyny that no female will ever be able to correct you.
Wrong. A woman can wear whatever she wants and still should be treated like a human being because WOMEN ARE HUMAN BEINGS. Period. That is the simple idea, that you can't seem to grasp.
Harasser and pig, yes, I know of for a fact. Rapist? I don't know. With the way you feel about your entitlement to treat a woman like a piece of meat if she wears clothes YOU consider slutty enough, who knows what you're capable of. You clearly don't respect a woman's rights to be treated like a person, you clearly don't respect a woman's boundaries either.
Your "Nice Guy Syndrome" is acting up again.
But I am being honest. I am equally offended by offensive behavior no matter what the dude looks like because OFFENSIVE BEHAVIOR IS OFFENSIVE. Ugly actions make hot guys ugly, period. And yes, women absolutely can have it both ways, we can wear whatever we want to and still be treated like people because...as I said above...WOMEN ARE PEOPLE. Sorry to break it to you, Sparky.
And just when I thought you couldn't get any worse, you are not only a bitter entitled misogynist, you're also a sex-negative slut-shamer. Your mother must be so proud.
You're an idiot.
I never said you condoned stalking or physical assault. You clearly DO condone harassment, as you have stated very clearly in your own words in every single post since you started whining about "slutty chicks wearing clothes that make me lose control of the words that come out of my mouth".
I also find it funny that you get all offended that I supposedly said you were a rapist, but you have no problem over exaggerating MY actions, by stating that I'd call the cops on a guy looking down my shirt. Don't be a hypocrite.
Saying, "You have a fantastic ass." to a woman who has no interest in hearing you say sexual things to her is sexual harassment. The. Very. Definiton. of it.
Pulled from the ERA Website: "Sexual harassment is “unwelcome verbal, visual, or physical conduct of a sexual nature".
Wrong again. No one -HAS- to do any of those things. In your opinion, it may be your "American Right" to be an asshole, but it's a decent-human-being thing to be a decent human being.
If you don't like being called out on acting like an asshole, hey, here's a brilliant idea. DON'T BE AN ASSHOLE.
What a novel thought, eh?
Read this and shut up.
http://kateharding.net/2009/10/08/g...pproaching-strange-women-without-being-maced/
This is a proud feminist sticking up for the rights of women to be treated like people. If there's any bullshittery here, it's you and BotonyBoy acting like entitled bastards who thinks that us "silly wimminz" should stop complaining about being sexually harassed, especially since we don't live in the Sudan where we're ritualistically raped.
I haven't tarred all men with the same brush, unlike you two who have regularly done that with women. So spare me your holier-than-thou fail callout on hypocrisy. I'm fully aware of the fact that not all men are the same, as I happen to be married to a fantastic one. I understand that the majority of guys are completely decent, and only a few, like you two, deserve to be told off for your sexist beliefs.
As a male, your experiences are FUNDAMENTALLY DIFFERENT from a woman's experiences. Just because -you- dress for attention, does not mean ALL WOMEN DO ALL THE TIME.
Yes, it absolutely -is- harassment. Read above.
Your personal anecdotal experience does not trump the centuries of social pressure that women have felt to "be seen and not heard". Just because a few women that you've been exposed to act more aggressively does not mean every woman in America acts that way.
Every time someone has put me on ignore (even SeanH), I felt at least a little upset in some small way, deep inside. I've finally been cured of that. You have my thanks.
Look, like blobfish said, I'm kind of done with you.
I'm not sure you warrant an ignore or not, but you do like to play the victim, and it is a little annoying.
I've addressed these points, I'm rather sleepy right now, and I can give it another go in the am, but it won't matter. Because you aren't interested. You want everyone to bow down and feel sorry for you because you have a vagina, and I'm not gonna do it.
You've tried to make everything I said about you and for the last time, it's not. And nothing that you can ever do will make me stop advocating for real victims. I don't know how you actually are, I don't know you, but you come across as a very aggressive and selfish person.
My 'personal' experiences are rooted in culture. That was my entire point. I was raised in the petticoat government. I have a different culture then you, and I don't appreciate you painting all Americans with the same brush. It's not mere 'antidotal' or 'personal' experience. An entire culture was nearly wiped out via forced assimilation. Kids were kidnapped over that shit and sent to 'Americanization' camps. You don't know me. You apparently don't know from history either.
I just got called sexist. I guess there's a fist time for everything. That statement alone means that you have a poor grasp on reality. So... you know, enjoy that. I mean, as much as you can. It seems like a fear-filled, sad existence. But we're Americans, you have every right to do that if you want.
And now, I gotta go to bed. This is crazy.
I'm getting close to the iggy button with this chicky myself.
Oh My God. Ugh. You my friend, are a bitter, entitled misogynist with your head so far up your ass that it's amazing you can see enough light to type.
Go ahead and poll some women and ask them who they dress for. Strange men, or themselves. I double-dog-dare you to.
I can already tell you what the majority of women will say. Then again, you've already made it absolutely clear that no matter what anyone says, even if ten thousand women say it, you're NEVER changing your mind...because in your eyes, that excuses your behavior. "She WANTS me to harass her!" So this part of the conversation is absolutely pointless. I know I'm absolutely right, but you're clinging so hard to your misogyny that no female will ever be able to correct you.
Wrong. A woman can wear whatever she wants and still should be treated like a human being because WOMEN ARE HUMAN BEINGS. Period. That is the simple idea, that you can't seem to grasp.
And just when I thought you couldn't get any worse, you are not only a bitter entitled misogynist, you're also a sex-negative slut-shamer. Your mother must be so proud.
Saying, "You have a fantastic ass." to a woman who has no interest in hearing you say sexual things to her is sexual harassment. The. Very. Definiton. of it.
Pulled from the ERA Website: "Sexual harassment is “unwelcome verbal, visual, or physical conduct of a sexual nature". .
Wrong again. No one -HAS- to do any of those things. In your opinion, it may be your "American Right" to be an asshole, but it's a decent-human-being thing to be a decent human being.
If you don't like being called out on acting like an asshole, hey, here's a brilliant idea. DON'T BE AN ASSHOLE.
As a male, your experiences are FUNDAMENTALLY DIFFERENT from a woman's experiences.
I said basically the same thing that BotanyBoy said but I stated it in one sentence. It was ignored. I think you're enjoying having a go at him because he's male. Interesting little victim complex that goes on here.
We should also protect ourselves by teaching our sons not to rape.
We should also protect ourselves by teaching our sons not to rape.
Prevention starts at home.
How do you teach someone not to rape? It's an act of violence...
You can teach them how to be respectful and polite. You can teach social skills and etiquette. But you can no sooner teach someone not to rape any more than you can teach a bear not to shit in the woods.
Saying, "You have a fantastic ass." to a woman who has no interest in hearing you say sexual things to her is sexual harassment. The. Very. Definiton. of it.
Pulled from the ERA Website: "Sexual harassment is “unwelcome verbal, visual, or physical conduct of a sexual nature".