Ladies -- A new survey: phone sex

[entertainman]

Ladies, I (and many other men, I presume) am interested in your answers re/the survey below. Please just be honest -- there are no wrong answers!

I've had several great phone-friends over the years, and they've been great. Typically, I'm a one-at-a- time guy, and each relationship has lasted months if not years. I know what I like, and they've told me they enjoy my voice, words, and thoughts. But I have to wonder if they are representative of the population or was I just lucky? This will help me decide.

Phone Sex Survey

1. Approx how many different guys have you had phone sex with?
2. Approx how many times have you had phone sex?
3. While in a relationship, have you ever had phone sex with someone else?
3a. Was #3 above "cheating"?
4. Thinking about the best phone sex you've had, rank the below in order of importance (1=most important)
a) voice
b) understanding what you want/like
c) hearing him cum
d) vocabulary
e) accent
f) the fact that he hears you cum
5. How long ago was the last time you had phone sex?
6. Have you ever had phone sex with someone, and then met them? How'd that go?
7. How long was the longest phone sex relationship you've had?
8. Have you ever had phone sex at work?
9. How did you find your last phone sex partner?
10. Are you looking for a phone sex partner currently?

Yes, ladies, I'm a guy. I'd lose my Man Card if I hadn't included #10... (just kidding... sort of)

Thanks in advance, Ladies of Lit. I (and I'm sure all the guys here) look forward to the responses.

Entertainman

 

[Sensualdreamer]

Phone Sex Survey

1. Approx how many different guys have you had phone sex with?
Will it sound bad of me if I say I've lost count? The best I can do is say that I remember the names of 27 guys (not all Lit members either ) but I'm not sure if that's all
Now if I were to add Skyping to that...ummm yeah the list would grow considerably

2. Approx how many times have you had phone sex?
I would have to go through my phone records lol - umm given some of the 27 weren't repeats but SOME were, and some were quite regularly...well over 100 times easily

3. While in a relationship, have you ever had phone sex with someone else?
Yes

3a. Was #3 above "cheating"?
I don't think so b/c at the time the SO was sitting in the living room, as was I and it's not my fault that the SO was so zoned out watching tv that he didn't realise that I was getting off while being on. Thinking about it...it was fucking HAWT knowing that I was fingering myself while a guy was talking naughty to me

4. Thinking about the best phone sex you've had, rank the below in order of importance (1=most important)
a) voice
1 - This is the "panty dropper" to me!
b) understanding what you want/like
2 - I need a guy who can stimulate my mind, if he can't stimulate me mentally, he won't stimulate me sexually
c) hearing him cum
5 - I can't say every guy has ever been loud, but I love the rough rugged grunts/groans
d) vocabulary
3 - It's all in what is said. Give me something I can visualise, and sorry talking about what *I* can do to you just doesn't work for me
e) accent
6 - I find those w/ accents slightly difficult to understand, and I hate having to guess what was said or ask for the guy to repeat himself.
f) the fact that he hears you cum
4 - this may be viewed as arrogant but it lets him know he got me off

5. How long ago was the last time you had phone sex?
4 July...damn that long ago?!

6. Have you ever had phone sex with someone, and then met them? How'd that go?
Yes - well technically I already knew him and then we got into phone sex...he didn't realise I was such a freaky thing

7. How long was the longest phone sex relationship you've had?
2 years

8. Have you ever had phone sex at work?
No

9. How did you find your last phone sex partner?
Lit

10. Are you looking for a phone sex partner currently?
Meh...if it happens it happens - military to the front of the line tho . At this point in time I don't "play" exclusively w/ any one guy, and guys who get all butt hurt about that should just stick to a sock, lotion, and a porno. Having said that...there's someone that I could go exclusive for, but that would be only if it's mutually agreed upon.

 

[Noor]

Ladies, I (and many other men, I presume) am interested in your answers re/the survey below. Please just be honest -- there are no wrong answers!

I've had several great phone-friends over the years, and they've been great. Typically, I'm a one-at-a- time guy, and each relationship has lasted months if not years. I know what I like, and they've told me they enjoy my voice, words, and thoughts. But I have to wonder if they are representative of the population or was I just lucky? This will help me decide.

Phone Sex Survey

1. Approx how many different guys have you had phone sex with?

I don't know, a few, guys???? Okay maybe lots. I don't count...

2. Approx how many times have you had phone sex?

no idea, not enough!

3. While in a relationship, have you ever had phone sex with someone else?
never when I had an exclusive agreement with someone, I keep my word

3a. Was #3 above "cheating"?
yes, it would have been

4. Thinking about the best phone sex you've had, rank the below in order of importance (1=most important)
5) a) voice
3) b) understanding what you want/like
4) c) hearing him cum
d) vocabulary
e) accent
f) the fact that he hears you cum
2) g) He makes me wet when I just think about phone sex with him
1) h) our interactions blow me away and take me to another space


5. How long ago was the last time you had phone sex?

6. Have you ever had phone sex with someone, and then met them? How'd that go?
Yes, it went fine, we met as friends, its been many years and we are still friends. Even know their wives.

7. How long was the longest phone sex relationship you've had?
years

8. Have you ever had phone sex at work?
yes

9. How did you find your last phone sex partner?
my last new one, on lit, found his voice first, it turned me on



Yes, ladies, I'm a guy. I'd lose my Man Card if I hadn't included #10... (just kidding... sort of)

Thanks in advance, Ladies of Lit. I (and I'm sure all the guys here) look forward to the responses.

Entertainman

10. Are you looking for a phone sex partner currently?
sometimes yes, sometimes no, depends on my mood. See my ad if you are interested.

 

[Canasta_Jones]

Phone Sex Survey

1. Approx how many different guys have you had phone sex with? I don't know, less than ten

2. Approx how many times have you had phone sex? A dozen times or so

3. While in a relationship, have you ever had phone sex with someone else? No

3a. Was #3 above "cheating"? I would think that it would be. Just my opinion

4. Thinking about the best phone sex you've had, rank the below in order of importance (1=most important)

3) a) voice - Sound is important but the biggest thing.

1) b) understanding what you want/like - If he doesn't know what I like, we're probably not going to go anywhere

4) c) hearing him cum - The louder the better

2) d) vocabulary - Doesn't have to have a NY Times Crossword vocabulary, but should know words with more than two syllables

6) e) accent - not really a factor

5) f) the fact that he hears you cum - If I cum, I'll let him know

5. How long ago was the last time you had phone sex? A few weeks ago

6. Have you ever had phone sex with someone, and then met them? How'd that go? No, but I've met guys and then had phone sex with them, if that counts?

7. How long was the longest phone sex relationship you've had? About a years

8. Have you ever had phone sex at work? No

9. How did you find your last phone sex partner? Chatting on another forum

10. Are you looking for a phone sex partner currently? Not actively, no. Phone sex isn't a big thing with me. It's only when the circumstances are right and we make a connection. So if the right guy comes along and we click, then anything goes!

 

[fungatorgurl101]

Phone Sex Survey

1. Approx how many different guys have you had phone sex with?
Umm I really haven't kept like a running tick mark of people I have had phone sex with while I can likely remember those that I have each for their own individual reason WITH that being said... are we including Yahoo Voice too

2. Approx how many times have you had phone sex?
I again have no idea as to the exact number of how many times I have had phone sex. Are there REALLY people that keep count of such things, is there an Android App for that?

3. While in a relationship, have you ever had phone sex with someone else? Umm Yes
3a. Was #3 above "cheating"?
I guess if you wanna get technical

4. Thinking about the best phone sex you've had, rank the below in order of importance (1=most important)
a) voice
1 - Voice completely has something to do with phone sex who wants to have phone sex with someone that sounds like Kermit the Frog or something.
b) understanding what you want/like
2 - There is nothing worse during phone sex than having to try to divert someones odd kink so yes there is a level of getting to know someone and what they like what they don't like
c) hearing him cum
4 - Well I mean isn't that WHY YOU'RE HAVING PHONE SEX... the aural satisfaction of hearing him enjoy you
d) vocabulary
3 - Have you ever had phone sex with someone who just sits and breathes deep... its sorta umm LAME... talk to me turn me on tell me what you want how you want it what you want to do to me... don't just breathe deep
e) accent
6 - Accents totally can have an aspect in it. AND sometimes they can be distracting though also especially if your like what did you just say?!
f) the fact that he hears you cum
5 - I am pretty sure that that is WHY HE IS CALLING

5. How long ago was the last time you had phone sex?
Last week sometime maybe

6. Have you ever had phone sex with someone, and then met them? How'd that go?
Well let's just say they did not complain and the guy next to the room gave us an interesting look when we ran into him in the hall

7. How long was the longest phone sex relationship you've had?
Consistently and on the regular I would say 8 months

8. Have you ever had phone sex at work?
Since I work from home I am forever having phone sex at work.. I am dirty that way... I have actually had a quick call on break it helps my day

9. How did you find your last phone sex partner?
Ummm some pervy site I think LOL I wonder

10. Are you looking for a phone sex partner currently?
I am not actively looking for a phone sex partner its one of those things that if you talk and things just work out that way it can be good. Like I said I am just not gonna phone up with the next person that contacts me so be forwarned that will likely get you on ignore. But get to know me get to know my likes dislikes and everything else it may be considered.

 

[ima6uldv8]

Phone Sex Survey

1. Approx how many different guys have you had phone sex with?
Never counted but guess around 20.
2. Approx how many times have you had phone sex?
Don't know
3. While in a relationship, have you ever had phone sex with someone else?
No
3a. Was #3 above "cheating"?
N/A
4. Thinking about the best phone sex you've had, rank the below in order of importance (1=most important)
a) voice 2 (Sexy voice is a must)
b) understanding what you want/like 4
c) hearing him cum 3(Mmmmmmm so hot)
d) vocabulary 5
e) accent 1! (English accents drive me crazy)l
f) the fact that he hears you cum 6
5. How long ago was the last time you had phone sex?
Sadly, I can't remember
6. Have you ever had phone sex with someone, and then met them? Yes but didn't meet specifically because of phone sex.
How'd that go?
I married him
7. How long was the longest phone sex relationship you've had?
Mine have all been short.
8. Have you ever had phone sex at work?
Not exactly. My most favorite sexy, filthy Englishman left me some voice mails. I would listen to them in restroom and masturbate.
9. How did you find your last phone sex partner?
All my partners were from Lit.
10. Are you looking for a phone sex partner currently?
Depends. Don't know how hubby would feel about it and to be honest, if it were reversed, I don't know if I would like that.

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[entertainman]

Good Answers so far, Ladies!

Ladies, thanks for indulging my quest for knowledge. OK. You know that's BS. Maybe this is better... Thanks for playing, ladies! Always interesting to know what's going on behind those sexy eyes.

Some interesting answers at this point... Was anyone surprised to see Sensualdreamer the first to respond? I've been a fan for some time now, and I'm honored you played along, and first to boot!

And don't worry, fungatorgirl101, I'm not the type to cause you to put me on your "ignore" list... And thanks for the thought about the android app -- I've found my next "million dollar idea"!!!

I must admit, the phone makes the best use of the most powerful sexual organ -- the mind... And therefore, when right, it can be incredible.

Any other brave women going to share?

 

[Sensualdreamer]

Ladies, thanks for indulging my quest for knowledge. OK. You know that's BS. Maybe this is better... Thanks for playing, ladies! Always interesting to know what's going on behind those sexy eyes.

Some interesting answers at this point... Was anyone surprised to see Sensualdreamer the first to respond? I've been a fan for some time now, and I'm honored you played along, and first to boot!

*snipped*

Hey lol what's that suppose to mean

 

[entertainman]

I mean, Sensualdreamer...

...You're one of the most sensual women I've ever known of. I don't "know" you, but I do like the way you think. I ditto the good things others have said about you on these boards.

That's all, really. Now, if you were just joking, disregard all of the above and I'll think of something else to say!

 

[Sensualdreamer]

...You're one of the most sensual women I've ever known of. I don't "know" you, but I do like the way you think. I ditto the good things others have said about you on these boards.

That's all, really. Now, if you were just joking, disregard all of the above and I'll think of something else to say!

Haha why would I joke? I'm just lucky you didn't ask the first time experience
Further since you don't know me I invite you to stop by my thread and get to know the various sides of me...serious, teasing, flirtatious, playful, etc.,

 

[entertainman]

The door is open...

Sensuous, since you did open that door, how 'bout that "first time experience? Sounds like there's a story there!

(And what makes you think I HAVEN'T perused your thread?)

 

[Sensualdreamer]

Sensuous, since you did open that door, how 'bout that "first time experience? Sounds like there's a story there!

(And what makes you think I HAVEN'T perused your thread?)

THAT is a story for the record books I *COULD* be tempted to share it, but at this point I'll say only the following - it's never wise to tell a woman (who gets as horny as I do!) to "feel free to call at any time"

Oh? Stalking me? Tsk tsk...show yourself

 

[entertainman]

Funny

I can imagine... He said call anytime. You call, in a condition that needs attention. He's in a car, with his boss... Awkward! He pretends to carry on a business conversation with you while listening to you play, moan, sigh, and ultimately release. (ohhh that voice!)

After the call, he has a difficult time explaining that wet spot on the front of his khakis... DOH!

OR...
maybe better, he puts you on speaker during the call for a phone-threesome!

 

[Sensualdreamer]

I can imagine... He said call anytime. You call, in a condition that needs attention. He's in a car, with his boss... Awkward! He pretends to carry on a business conversation with you while listening to you play, moan, sigh, and ultimately release. (ohhh that voice!)

After the call, he has a difficult time explaining that wet spot on the front of his khakis... DOH!

OR...
maybe better, he puts you on speaker during the call for a phone-threesome!

You've got a great imagination but that's not what happened

 

[entertainman]

2nd guess

OK... I was wrong with my scenario about what happened... Thanks for the nice words; I like my imagination.

How 'bout this:
As you were in the midst of a good deep long pounding, you called him. He listened to you, and you listened to him get himself off. Just when he came, you came, and the cock inside you came too... all simultaneously.

Am I closer?

I might be off again, but it's fun to guess!

"Just my imagination once again runnin' way with me." -- The Temptations (not a bad song to get stuck in your head)

 

[Sensualdreamer]

OK... I was wrong with my scenario about what happened... Thanks for the nice words; I like my imagination.

How 'bout this:
As you were in the midst of a good deep long pounding, you called him. He listened to you, and you listened to him get himself off. Just when he came, you came, and the cock inside you came too... all simultaneously.

Am I closer?

I might be off again, but it's fun to guess!

"Just my imagination once again runnin' way with me." -- The Temptations (not a bad song to get stuck in your head)

I admire your enthusiasm, but that's not even close. I'll wait until you come out of lurking on my thread before I share

 

[Roleplay_LouiseUk]

Phone Sex Survey

Well, here goes...


1. Approx how many different guys have you had phone sex with?
Too many to count.. seeing as I used to have phone sex A LOT when I was 15/16 so I'd say 50-100.

2. Approx how many times have you had phone sex?
100-150.

3. While in a relationship, have you ever had phone sex with someone else?
Yes.

3a. Was #3 above "cheating"?
No. My partner at the time said he would like to hear me do this.

4. Thinking about the best phone sex you've had, rank the below in order of importance (1=most important)
a) voice 1
b) understanding what you want/like 3
c) hearing him cum 3
d) vocabulary 2
e) accent 1
f) the fact that he hears you cum 1

5. How long ago was the last time you had phone sex?
2 years ago.

6. Have you ever had phone sex with someone, and then met them? How'd that go?
Yes. Fine. We fucked that day

7. How long was the longest phone sex relationship you've had?
Year and a half.

8. Have you ever had phone sex at work?
No. I don't work!

9. How did you find your last phone sex partner?
Chat room.

10. Are you looking for a phone sex partner currently?
Not sure. Maybe. Never really thought about it really to be honest.