are men really "useless without an erection?"

[Stella_Omega]

A lot of the fun would be gone without the male erection. But a lot of women love being in the arms of a strong guy, and being 'taken'---basically the opposite of how some women love being with a soft and feminine woman. So a guy could easily fullfill a woman's sexual needs by making her 'feel small' and 'submissive' and just performing great oral sex on her and using his fingers.

That's the classic butch technique.

 

[KlaytonFrost]

Some women I've been with have gotten off mostly from being fucked. Oral / handiwork keeps them happy, but nothing like actual full sex. Toys are good in this situation, but I've had some remark to me that it's not the same as actually being screwed by a real penis. So sometimes (I'll admit not often) the refactory period has been a bit of a drag for me.

In the majority of cases though, if I finish first I'll finish her off with my mouth. That usally leaves everyone happy.

 

[KoPilot]

I dunno, I was in a pretty fuckin' happy s place this past week with a limp dick in my mouth for 20 minutes "after" he'd had his fun.

Hard cocks are pretty nice, and they're fun to draw, but they're far from the end-all be-all. Thank god I'm with someone that knows that too.

 

[neci]

you don't need an erection to fix the plumbing.

 

[BiBunny]

If I had to choose between hands, mouth, or cock, it'd be hands every time. Well, assuming he knew how to properly fist me and so forth. Cock is nice, of course, but it doesn't hit the g-spot like fingers and fists do. The mouth would be a distant third because I have to be in the mood for oral, and I very rarely am.

 

[Netzach]

Hands are SO underrated.

I swear it's nice to feel my tits rub against someone's back or front, I get that, but if I'm going to fuck someone and feel that hot intimate power position thing, I'm going to do it with my hands and forgo fumbling with crap I have to tie to my waist. I feel MORE like I have a dick when I've got my forefinger and middle finger wedged in some orifice.

I'm not in the least disappointed if this is what I get in bed, either.

 

[Cattypuss]

I have the most mind-blowing orgasms and squirting sessions from hands and mouth and toys. But I have the most heart-exploding love-making from missionary position insert-male-part-into-female-part sex.

 

[BiBunny]

Hands are SO underrated.

I swear it's nice to feel my tits rub against someone's back or front, I get that, but if I'm going to fuck someone and feel that hot intimate power position thing, I'm going to do it with my hands and forgo fumbling with crap I have to tie to my waist. I feel MORE like I have a dick when I've got my forefinger and middle finger wedged in some orifice.

I'm not in the least disappointed if this is what I get in bed, either.

That? Was way hot.

 

[catalina_francisco]

The male erection is so over rated, and many a male ego has been crushed beneath its weight and legend.

Catalina

 

[AdjectiveNounVerb]

I wouldn't say we're useless without them. We're just kind of pointless without them, since women have all the same hands and mouths and other non-penis sex organs, plus y'all aren't smelly deformed ape-creatures like we are. So what reason besides cock is there to do anything with a poor substitute for a woman instead of an actual woman?

 

[Bandit58]

Sir and I rarely have penetrative sex. It's nice when it happens, but we do a lot with mouths and hands/fingers that satisfies us both most of the time. Love those G spot orgasms!

I also have a shallow vagina which means a penis more than 5-6 inches long will bang on my cervix and hurt like a bitch.

 

[Stella_Omega]

I wouldn't say we're useless without them. We're just kind of pointless without them, since women have all the same hands and mouths and other non-penis sex organs, plus y'all aren't smelly deformed ape-creatures like we are. So what reason besides cock is there to do anything with a poor substitute for a woman instead of an actual woman?

Men smell good. Really good. For some women, the pheromones are irreplaceable and they do not feel mentally good without them.

 

[ownedsubgal]

Men smell good. Really good. For some women, the pheromones are irreplaceable and they do not feel mentally good without them.

yes. this exactly. a man's smell, the texture of his skin, the way he touches me...it's all intoxicating, comforting, arousing even...and cannot be duplicated by a woman.

and yes i do love penises, especially so when they're hard...but even more than that, i love the entire process of watching it/helping it grow. i will admit there's some disappointment for me in a partner who's always "ready" from second one.

 

[KoPilot]

I wouldn't say we're useless without them. We're just kind of pointless without them, since women have all the same hands and mouths and other non-penis sex organs, plus y'all aren't smelly deformed ape-creatures like we are. So what reason besides cock is there to do anything with a poor substitute for a woman instead of an actual woman?

Gotta love gender essentialism!

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

An aside, but not too far aside.

A favorite "Seinfeld" quote. Elaine, on the difference between men's and women's bodies:

"The female body is a work of art. The male body is utilitarian. It's for gettin' around. It's like a Jeep."

 

[KoPilot]

An aside, but not too far aside.

A favorite "Seinfeld" quote. Elaine, on the difference between men's and women's bodies:

"The female body is a work of art. The male body is utilitarian. It's for gettin' around. It's like a Jeep."

I'll have you know my favorite transformer turns into a Jeep-- he's the green one. And I find his chassis very appealing.

 

[Stella_Omega]

An aside, but not too far aside.

A favorite "Seinfeld" quote. Elaine, on the difference between men's and women's bodies:

"The female body is a work of art. The male body is utilitarian. It's for gettin' around. It's like a Jeep."

Naw, she didn't say that-- Head writer and producer Larry David wrote it and put the words into her mouth.

 

[SexyFatGirl]

An aside, but not too far aside.

A favorite "Seinfeld" quote. Elaine, on the difference between men's and women's bodies:

"The female body is a work of art. The male body is utilitarian. It's for gettin' around. It's like a Jeep."

<delurk> I can't imagine that line being written by someone who was attracted to men.

I think men's bodies are amazingly beautiful. I don't fuck men (only) because they have dicks (though I'm fond of those), I fuck men because I love the shapes and textures and smells and sounds and tastes that come packaged in a man. Sex would be boring as hell if I didn't view the bodies of the people I banged as exquisite works of art to be explored and appreciated.

I can't imagine deciding to go for a man instead of a woman with the mindset that "Women are the attractive ones, but at least men have dicks!" In that case, a woman with good hands and a dildo is a better solution by far.

While I get that DVS was making a joke (yes, I've been quietly following this thread and the one that spawned it), I do sort of understand how some men might feel like their erection was what made sex good.

I like all kinds of sex, but when it comes down to it, if my pussy isn't being given attention, at some point I begin to feel like something's missing, and the sex is less satisfying for me. If being able to use my cunt were dependent on a contrary physical reaction that didn't always behave the way I wanted, I can see where I would start to feel like I wouldn't be much use sexually when my cunt wasn't working. Not necessarily that I wouldn't be able to please a partner, but that it would feel like a less... whole experience.

</delurk>

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

I'll have you know my favorite transformer turns into a Jeep-- he's the green one. And I find his chassis very appealing.

Transformers are a world unto themselves.

Naw, she didn't say that-- Head writer and producer Larry David wrote it and put the words into her mouth.

My bad:

An aside, but not too far aside.

A favorite "Seinfeld" quote. Head writer and producer Larry David, as "spoken" by the character Elaine Benes (portrayed in the series by actor Julia Louis-Dreyfus) on the difference between men's and women's bodies:

"The female body is a work of art. The male body is utilitarian. It's for gettin' around. It's like a Jeep."

 

[Stella_Omega]

<delurk> I can't imagine that line being written by someone who was attracted to men.

I think men's bodies are amazingly beautiful. I don't fuck men (only) because they have dicks (though I'm fond of those), I fuck men because I love the shapes and textures and smells and sounds and tastes that come packaged in a man. Sex would be boring as hell if I didn't view the bodies of the people I banged as exquisite works of art to be explored and appreciated.

I can't imagine deciding to go for a man instead of a woman with the mindset that "Women are the attractive ones, but at least men have dicks!" In that case, a woman with good hands and a dildo is a better solution by far.

While I get that DVS was making a joke (yes, I've been quietly following this thread and the one that spawned it), I do sort of understand how some men might feel like their erection was what made sex good.

I like all kinds of sex, but when it comes down to it, if my pussy isn't being given attention, at some point I begin to feel like something's missing, and the sex is less satisfying for me. If being able to use my cunt were dependent on a contrary physical reaction that didn't always behave the way I wanted, I can see where I would start to feel like I wouldn't be much use sexually when my cunt wasn't working. Not necessarily that I wouldn't be able to please a partner, but that it would feel like a less... whole experience.

</delurk>

No, don't un-delurk, come back!

I think I love you...

 

[Licia]

Manflesh!

 

[AdjectiveNounVerb]

And that's what I get for projecting my misandry onto the entire human species. Damn. I hate making myself look stupid.

 

[SexyFatGirl]

No, don't un-delurk, come back!

I think I love you...

Woah, my first post in this section, and Stella approves? That kinda sorta made my day. I've admired your posts since I was a username-less lurker.

Manflesh!

Mm, manflesh smells so good! Like soap and skin and... mmm. I love a good-smelling man.

 

[Licia]

Mm, manflesh smells so good! Like soap and skin and... mmm. I love a good-smelling man.

*nod nods*

Can't help the fact I wanna eat a dude like that. And Italian fare..and...

*plumments into intoxication*

Whoopie!

*happy*

 

[Licia]

...

*goes on muttering 'bout all sorts*

Blah!

*growl*



Whew. Sorry, I'm back now.