Is cyber/phone sex fulfilling?

[HD Pilot]

I'm sure this subject has been addressed before, but I didn't search the boards.

I know that cyber/phone sex can never take the place of the real thing, however, I'm wondering how many here enjoy it and why. Has it helped, or hurt to have done it before actually meeting someone?

 

[rexhame317]

With the right person, yes ot helps. You need to do it at a pace you are comfortable with. I like to start a little at a time, and work my way to giving them (or myself) an orgasm.

It also helps when you are in a relationship and can't see eachother all the time. My BF and I send eachother naughty texts during the day, each trying to make the other blush,

 

[boy_wonder]

well i guess it depends on your partner!

sometimes it can be very satisfying to have phone or cyber sex.
i usually don't like to moan on he phone or just listen to this.
some might get into this but i enjoyed this just with very close persons, who i knowed for a long time. in this case it was very nice talking and a real joy for both of us.

 

[HD Pilot]

With the right person, yes ot helps. You need to do it at a pace you are comfortable with. I like to start a little at a time, and work my way to giving them (or myself) an orgasm.

It also helps when you are in a relationship and can't see eachother all the time. My BF and I send eachother naughty texts during the day, each trying to make the other blush,

Oh yes, sexting, or a phone call can be a form of foreplay. Anticipation is very erotic.

 

[rexhame317]

I like texting him when I know hes at work and busy dealing with customers... sometimes add a naughty pic too.

 

[HD Pilot]

I like texting him when I know hes at work and busy dealing with customers... sometimes add a naughty pic too.

You know you have him thinking about you then

 

[jason28053]

I like texting him when I know hes at work and busy dealing with customers... sometimes add a naughty pic too.

I like the way you think!!

 

[BonnyBlue]

I have to agree that phone sex cannot replace actual physical sex.

 

[Paul_Chance]

I think it depends on the persons imagination and just how powerful it is. Essentially, it is masturbation with the added assistance of words - stories, dirty talk, role-playing, whatever happens to turn you on and get you off. If you are a person who finds it exciting - then yes, it can be explosive and rock your world and be very satisfying.

I've had cyber/phone with people I was lovers IRL with and found it satisfying and great foreplay that could stretch across days while traveling or apart. I actually stopped referring to it as cyber/phone sex as it was just another variant of the sexual experience.

I've also had cyber/phone with people I never met IRL - and it was often as satisfying as any other masturbatory choice, with the added "kick" of the active involvement of another person to heighten the experience. Personally, I find masturbation pretty satisfying. I tend not to rank my sexual preferences - I think of them more as a circle of choices.

And one final result of cyber/phone is I now find that talking during sex IRL is also a huge turn on.

 

[PleasePeesMe]

If you do it with the right person

you can be very happy with the result.

 

[Kat73]

I like texting him when I know hes at work and busy dealing with customers... sometimes add a naughty pic too.

I often do that to my husband and have been known to send naughty texts/pics to several "friends" while they were in meetings or at family gatherings or such...

As for cyber and phone... There are a few that have come a very close second to actual sex. There was this one random guy who could get me going like no other...

 

[TexasWife25]

I'm sure this subject has been addressed before, but I didn't search the boards.

I know that cyber/phone sex can never take the place of the real thing, however, I'm wondering how many here enjoy it and why. Has it helped, or hurt to have done it before actually meeting someone?

I have done it, and with the right women it was very enjoyable. Thank you.

Phone sex can be amazing, if you have the right person. Just like with anything else, its not all about the orgasm.

If we're texting throughout the day, and hes getting me all worked up, until finally he calls, and I hear that husky tone in his voice, letting me know just how far Ive pushed him ...

Sometimes it can be amazing, but .. Im an audio type of girl. Nothing turns me on more then hearing his need and giving pleasure.

 

[rexhame317]

You know you have him thinking about you then

Oh yeah, sometimes he has asked to tone it down, knowing there is no release for hours.

He had to have his phone looked at, and the guy there asked why it was password protected.
He explained someone likes to send me pics/texts, and actually told the guy he told me not to call/text for an hour while he had the phone looked at!

 

[rexhame317]

I often do that to my husband and have been known to send naughty texts/pics to several "friends" while they were in meetings or at family gatherings or such...

As for cyber and phone... There are a few that have come a very close second to actual sex. There was this one random guy who could get me going like no other...

I have a "friend" too who can me me wet with the sound of his voice. All about the tone, not necessarily the words

 

[rexhame317]

I like the way you think!!

Thank you.

 

[SimpleEmotion]

I have to agree that phone sex cannot replace actual physical sex BUT.......With the right person, it can be FANTASTIC!! HE and I have been talking for some time now and it gets better every time. HE arouses me to such a state that I not only orgasm but have multiple orgasms and gush! Yes, I'm one of those ladies who squirts! HE is amazing, sexy, handsome and passionate! I am lucky HE made me HIS!

Sounds fantastic! How do you find such a guy?

 

[SimpleEmotion]

I have found phone sex and to some extent cyber sex fulfilling, it all depends on how you click with the other person.

 

[HD Pilot]

Seems to be mostly positive. That's good to know. Thanks people.

 

[HD Pilot]

Oh yeah, sometimes he has asked to tone it down, knowing there is no release for hours.

He had to have his phone looked at, and the guy there asked why it was password protected.
He explained someone likes to send me pics/texts, and actually told the guy he told me not to call/text for an hour while he had the phone looked at!

I remember, many years ago in my shift-working days, the anticipation of getting home around daybreak, waking her, and showing her what anticipation can do. That was long before texting and cell phones. A phone call as I left work, telling her what I was planning was the best I could do at the time.

 

[billrichards41]

Nah, does nothing but frustrate me... I like the real thing. If I know it leads to that than yes, it is like foreplay, but otherwise the whole thing is like going to a strip club... look but don't touch is somewhat useless to me.

 

[TheOne007]

It's replacement therapy. I haven't had the pleasure of being with a woman in a few years (it's terrible out there to meet people), and I've done it a few times in the last few months. It's good to have the thoughts in your head, but nothing really compares to a good, long sex session. I find when I have phone sex, I tend to talk more than the girl, and it helps to get off better. I would prefer the real thing again!

 

[BonnyBlue]

Sounds fantastic! How do you find such a guy?

You can find one anywhere, even here!

 

[Noor]

I like phone sex with certain people. a lot. One in particular, just blows me away, and leaves me with a smile that lasts long after we are done, who wouldn't want to feel like that?

If I had the time and a good partner I would do it everyday maybe more, and have at times. Phone sex is a good way to explore possibilities that you may not have the possibility to do in real life at that point in time or may not be quite ready to yet.

 

[barnyardgal]

I love phone sex. Can't get pregnant or get a disease. I'm not embarrassed to say things that I would be embarrassed to jn person. I had my first orgasm on the phone.

 

[paulstories]

I love phone sex. Can't get pregnant or get a disease. I'm not embarrassed to say things that I would be embarrassed to jn person. I had my first orgasm on the phone.

Sex via phone, text, cam or email..or pm..can never be as good as face to face. But it can still be incredibly arousing. Had few relationships where occasionally it's been the only option and if the intensity is there, well!