A few days ago I was chatting with some ladies in my building about the homeless shelter in town. One of the ladies is a self righteous / judgemental one. She works with victims of domestic violence and is very passionate about it.
I am a published author of BDSM erotica - mainly dealing with non consent. She actually told me I was perpetuating the problem, which lead to a long discussion she heard very little of.
She didn't seem to understand there are those of us who LIKE consentual non consent - nor did she understand what that meant. Instead she closed her mind and set a label that pissed me off
How do you get a discussion like that out from under your skin? This gal irritated me to no end and now she avoids me (thankfully).
E.T.
I am a published author of BDSM erotica - mainly dealing with non consent. She actually told me I was perpetuating the problem, which lead to a long discussion she heard very little of.
She didn't seem to understand there are those of us who LIKE consentual non consent - nor did she understand what that meant. Instead she closed her mind and set a label that pissed me off

How do you get a discussion like that out from under your skin? This gal irritated me to no end and now she avoids me (thankfully).
E.T.