bodysexspirit
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Apparently, I'm "good enough" to be the girl that a guy is able to fuck and fulfill fantasies with, but I'm not "good enough" to be acknowledged or to be in a relationship with. I'm the secret on the side.
So, I just wanted to ask if anybody else (and it can be reversed... doesn't have to be just "the other girl") has ever been in this situation? I think I'm angry about it, but I also don't think I'm going to do anything about it.
Side dishes don't make the meal, honey. They're....side dishes.
Apparently, I'm "good enough" to be the girl that a guy is able to fuck and fulfill fantasies with, but I'm not "good enough" to be acknowledged or to be in a relationship with. I'm the secret on the side. I wasn't aware I was the secret on the side until I asked him to go somewhere more pronounced with me.
So, I just wanted to ask if anybody else (and it can be reversed... doesn't have to be just "the other girl") has ever been in this situation?
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if you agree to let yourself be the bit on the side, why the hell should he leave his gal? what the fuck would his motivation be?
if you have enough self respect not to screw attached men then you'll never be the bit on the side again.
I like that... I was angry before, but this is perfect. I think I may use that.
+1. To the OP, I was single last year for the first time since I was 23 and I learned something from dating - I had all the power. All the power. I had the power to tell every guy to fuck off if he didn't treat me respectfully, I had the power to tell a guy I didn't think he was a good fit, I had the power to not let a man make me last priority. In short, darlin', you have all the power. You are going about this all wrong. Don't let anyone do that to you. Dump his ass. It's better to be alone. You always can get better hobbies and sex toys. Don't settle. It sounds so trite, but it is so true.... so many fish in the sea. So many! You can try a new flavor every night! Just be smart about it.
+1. To the OP, I was single last year for the first time since I was 23 and I learned something from dating - I had all the power. All the power. I had the power to tell every guy to fuck off if he didn't treat me respectfully, I had the power to tell a guy I didn't think he was a good fit, I had the power to not let a man make me last priority. In short, darlin', you have all the power. You are going about this all wrong. Don't let anyone do that to you. Dump his ass. It's better to be alone. You always can get better hobbies and sex toys. Don't settle. It sounds so trite, but it is so true.... so many fish in the sea. So many! You can try a new flavor every night! Just be smart about it.
Once you become the other woman, even if he leaves the other and is "yours", he will always consider you second class. Always.
Get out while you can and go be happy.