red wing sex

[knot_sweet]

I can't be the only woman who's sex drive multiplies by about a million during that time of the month.

I'm normally pretty horny anyway, but I think my body gets confused and makes me extra hot for it during instead of before.

The only problem is that 99% of guys find it too messy and even a bit gross to have sex with a woman who's bleeding.

This isn't a fetish or anything as such; just a general complaint / expression of desire about getting my needs met when I want it most.

Surely there must be at least one guy out in Lit Land who doesn't have a problem with this kind of thing?

It would be reassuring to know there's at least one that exists; even if I can't find one.

 

[IamTom42]

Done it on multiple occasions..with a few former lovers...some women have a problem with it,some don't.

 

[walkingeagle]

I can't be the only woman who's sex drive multiplies by about a million during that time of the month.

I'm normally pretty horny anyway, but I think my body gets confused and makes me extra hot for it during instead of before.

The only problem is that 99% of guys find it too messy and even a bit gross to have sex with a woman who's bleeding.

This isn't a fetish or anything as such; just a general complaint / expression of desire about getting my needs met when I want it most.

Surely there must be at least one guy out in Lit Land who doesn't have a problem with this kind of thing?

It would be reassuring to know there's at least one that exists; even if I can't find one.

I like it fine!

 

[Rysil]

Surely there must be at least one guy out in Lit Land who doesn't have a problem with this kind of thing?

It would be reassuring to know there's at least one that exists; even if I can't find one.

I am not gonna say I enjoy it any more or any less during that time, but I can say that the ones who have allowed me to, have thanked me for a few reasons. I will list the ones my exes have given me.

1.) For my deceased ex-wife I increased her flow thus reducing her bleed time. Did it again for my ex of three years.

2.) All of them (4 different women) not only said the sex felt better and more intense, but after the first few times they would beg me to fuck them down and dirty during.

3.) I always cleaned up the mess. This started with my first wife and continued on with each one. I see no point making a big deal out of it. All women bleed unless there is something wrong with them or they have not achieved Menarche yet, or they have been through Menopause. SO why freak out about it? not criticizing anyone who does, but its never mattered to me.

4.) I was always very respectful of the woman's discomfort over doing it. That means don't act like it's a big deal. Very simple. Lay down a thick towel or some other item to catch any stray blood. When you are finished have her get up with the towel between her legs to the bathroom. Once she is in the shower put the towel in the washtub, inspect the bed for a mess. If there is one put the bedsheets in the wash too. Go get in the shower with her and help her get clean. Most of the time you will get it in the shower again, and then the clean up is mindlessly easy. Let it run down the drain.

Men if you can do those few things I mentioned and reassure her through the whole thing and let her know you don't think she's a freak for being healthy and normal? You will have a woman who will appreciate you more than you can imagine. Also offer to buy her feminine products once in awhile. It lets her know you care and tells everyone else that you know an actual girl well enough that she has you buying things for her.

I am not saying this is for everyone, but hey guys if you can man up on the football field or gut a deer? How about making the woman you care about realize that you care about her.

Just my Real World experience. Hope it helps.

 

[knot_sweet]

I like it fine!

Is this an "I don't care about it, I just like sex any way it comes" or an "I really get off on it" statement?

 

[walkingeagle]

Is this an "I don't care about it, I just like sex any way it comes" or an "I really get off on it" statement?

I find it very exciting! She is ultra sensitive, and its very arousing to know I can get her off to that degree.

 

[knot_sweet]

I am not gonna say I enjoy it any more or any less during that time, but I can say that the ones who have allowed me to, have thanked me for a few reasons. I will list the ones my exes have given me.

1.) For my deceased ex-wife I increased her flow thus reducing her bleed time. Did it again for my ex of three years.

2.) All of them (4 different women) not only said the sex felt better and more intense, but after the first few times they would beg me to fuck them down and dirty during.

3.) I always cleaned up the mess. This started with my first wife and continued on with each one. I see no point making a big deal out of it. All women bleed unless there is something wrong with them or they have not achieved Menarche yet, or they have been through Menopause. SO why freak out about it? not criticizing anyone who does, but its never mattered to me.

4.) I was always very respectful of the woman's discomfort over doing it. That means don't act like it's a big deal. Very simple. Lay down a thick towel or some other item to catch any stray blood. When you are finished have her get up with the towel between her legs to the bathroom. Once she is in the shower put the towel in the washtub, inspect the bed for a mess. If there is one put the bedsheets in the wash too. Go get in the shower with her and help her get clean. Most of the time you will get it in the shower again, and then the clean up is mindlessly easy. Let it run down the drain.

Men if you can do those few things I mentioned and reassure her through the whole thing and let her know you don't think she's a freak for being healthy and normal? You will have a woman who will appreciate you more than you can imagine. Also offer to buy her feminine products once in awhile. It lets her know you care and tells everyone else that you know an actual girl well enough that she has you buying things for her.

I am not saying this is for everyone, but hey guys if you can man up on the football field or gut a deer? How about making the woman you care about realize that you care about her.

Just my Real World experience. Hope it helps.

wow, there need to be alot more guys with this attitude around. Um, if it's not a too personal question, how did you end up with this attitude towards the whole thing? Mum, sisters or a guy who pays attention and cares?

 

[knot_sweet]

I find it very exciting! She is ultra sensitive, and its very arousing to know I can get her off to that degree.

Ok, so there really are guys who get off on it. And you're right, most women do get really sensitive down there (all over for that matter) during their bleed.

Of course, most women tend to feel bloated and moody and crampy and just a bit put off the whole sex thing too.

Glad to know I'm not the only oddball of nature getting around.

 

[Rysil]

wow, there need to be alot more guys with this attitude around. Um, if it's not a too personal question, how did you end up with this attitude towards the whole thing? Mum, sisters or a guy who pays attention and cares?

I was raised by a rather abusive single mother. I won;t go into the abuse part, but suffice it to say it warped my fragile little mind.

As a product of abuse one becomes prone to putting others needs ahead of their own. I carry some things like pleasing women with me because it helped me survive my childhood.

So in my first marriage where I was with a new bride with almost the same sexual knowledge as me? I had to adapt. I had seen blood, lots my own blood growing up. So, just because my best friend and lover bled because she was a girl? Didn't compute to me to make a big deal out of it.

Also my first wife and real relationship with a woman beyond my mother taught me a lot about women I was never allowed to know. So I took the time to get to know my wife's lady parts. Because in the end the more I knew, the easier it was to make her orgasm. But then I guess when you set out with the idea that pleasing your partner comes first you have a different experience sexually.

 

[knot_sweet]

Rysil - not an answer I would have expected anyone to share. Sincere and humble thanks for exposing a painful truth to a complete stranger.

 

[BlueyeGuy51]

Back to the original question: I've always been fine with it, why not? Just put a towel down and go for it. I've had several women tell me it helps relieve cramps.

 

[Scotsman69]

Love it.

Alas, many women don't...

I can't be the only woman who's sex drive multiplies by about a million during that time of the month.

I'm normally pretty horny anyway, but I think my body gets confused and makes me extra hot for it during instead of before.

The only problem is that 99% of guys find it too messy and even a bit gross to have sex with a woman who's bleeding.

This isn't a fetish or anything as such; just a general complaint / expression of desire about getting my needs met when I want it most.

Surely there must be at least one guy out in Lit Land who doesn't have a problem with this kind of thing?

It would be reassuring to know there's at least one that exists; even if I can't find one.

 

[NaturistLouise]

I'm pleased to see that I lot of guys are answering in a positive way.
There is anoth thread that shows many females enjoy period sex.
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=786541

For me, once, the cramps were over, it was sex as usual. Take the appropriate clean-up measures.

 

[flasubm]

1.) For my deceased ex-wife I increased her flow thus reducing her bleed time. Did it again for my ex of three years.

My wife and will only do this toward the end of her period and only in the shower.

The above bolded text is intriguing. Is this common to increase the flow? That could definitely persuade us to think about moving up the time frame a bit.

 

[Missingout]

I have to admit that it's a turn off for me.
I'd be willing to do it with a condom if she wanted me to.

 

[abella117]

I can't be the only woman who's sex drive multiplies by about a million during that time of the month.

Nope your not, and my husband dont mind pegging me on such occasions either

 

[PleasePeesMe]

Never been a problem for me

In fact, I always found it a turn on, somehow the intimacy was greater.

 

[Interested_Girl]

I have a very strict view on this, if I am with someone I refuse to be treated like I am unattractive just because I am doing what is natural to be being a woman. Plus, if you add up the amount of time I am on my period over the year, on average 6 days a month that means being sexless almost one third of the year.

I would not be able to be with someone who treated me as disgusting. So, yes. I have had period sex, messy, but worth it!

 

[Hopeorless1]

I am on an IUD and don't have periods. However, my drive always used to be wiped out.
I do have some friends, though, that act like they don't mind it at all. One of my friends in high school was joking about getting his "red wings" on with his girlfriend, and I have had another talk about getting a "cherry cream pie!" So I imagine there are some who don't care. I guess its all about communicatio first And that its something to do with a long-time partner thats into it.

 

[77817]

No thanks. I wait til that time of the month for my lady is over.

 

[RuneBlade]

In general, people really need to get over it when it comes to the human body. Plain, simple nudity shouldn't have the negative stigma that it does. If it's vulgar and sexual, that's one thing, but if it's not then what is the problem? We're so ashamed of ourselves, it's pretty sad. Naked does not mean sexual.

Some people get grossed out by needles and blood and the like, and that's okay. But it's just life. We all bleed when we're injured. Women do it on a schedule. It's life. It's okay. It's NORMAL. Apart from STDs, etc, there's no reason to be all afraid of getting your long-term lover's blood all up on your junk. It washes off, honest.

 

[Just4Fun_72]

I'm a 39 year old old red blooded aussie male... I have no problem fulfilling your request... Any time you would like me to... Whether it be during "that time"... or whether it be any other time... If you want to chat more feel free to PM me hun...

Hope to hear from you soon...

 

[knot_sweet]

Nope your not, and my husband dont mind pegging me on such occasions either

thank goodness...

both Interested_Girl and louise_lloyd who posted mentioned it's business as usual, but I was starting to worry I was the only one who's sex drive increased during...

good that you're hubby's cool with it too.

 

[knot_sweet]

I'm a 39 year old old red blooded aussie male... I have no problem fulfilling your request... Any time you would like me to... Whether it be during "that time"... or whether it be any other time... If you want to chat more feel free to PM me hun...

Hope to hear from you soon...

Er, thanks, but no.

I am (for the most part) well taken care of by my Master.

 

[knot_sweet]

In fact, I always found it a turn on, somehow the intimacy was greater.

This answer intrigues me...

Why?