Sub women being shared by lover with other women

[slutforj]

I'm a submissive female, 41, and my lover wants to share me with another woman. He knows I have thought about being with other women for many years. He loves my submissiveness and wants to hold me while another woman plays with me. He's long distance right now, and I'm a little scared about this (though very excited) so we may begin with him and me, and the other woman by phone. Or pics or whatever works.

I'm posting this in case anyone here has had experience with this. I don't mean just a threesome. I mean a sub female like me, who's not been with a woman, and being shared with another woman by her Master.

I don't know how this will feel to me. Or whether there should be any rules for this. Or how another woman would feel about this.

Especially if any women have advice about this, or interest, please send me a message or email and let me know.

Thank you so much

sub sara

 

[slutforj]

did that work?

Did that work?

 

[Stella_Omega]

You're looking for a dominant woman for women -- already a little less common than not-- who doesn't mind sharing with some dude.

My advice, join http://feltife.com-- you might have better luck there.

 

[boredVAwife]

A little less common is an understatement. Sadly. I have wanted this for so long and unfortunately being a sub to a man just isn't what I want. I almost wish it was because then maybe that desire could be fulfilled. I have read stuff until I am a walking wikipedia but nothing compares to being able to experience it for real. Even finding groups or places that cater to the lifestyle isn't easy. I don't personally know anyone that lives a bdsm life (have lived here all of a few weeks) and it would be impossible even if I did know where to go, to just show up and join the party. Cyber just isn't worth the time. Lit is great for info and reading about things others do but sometimes I get envious.

OP: sorry to hijack. I do hope the two of ya find a situation where you are comfortable. That is key. You said you were a bit scared. Being scared can also add to the excitement of course, but make sure whatever new boundries you draw that you are comfortable. Enjoy.

 

[the captians wench]

I have done this before, though with a local man and a sub or switch female. I'm not really into chicks, the thought of me being with a woman just doesn't do it for me, but the knowledge that it totally gets the guys I've been with boiling under the collar makes me slicker than a greased up pig.

Jounar would love to watch me with a woman, and I know he would like to experience it in the same room, but with him I have issues even considering this idea. Our time is so limited, hell we've only been in the same room for 9 days in the 6 years we've known each other. So, first issue is that I want him all to myself, I don't want to share his attention with anyone.

The second issue that really just drives a stake in my heart is if this was a local girl (to him), maybe they would connect, maybe he'd want to play with her again, after I was back home. It's not really a fear of being replaced. I know that no one is like me and there for can not possibly be the same to him as I am, but some one local could fill a need that I can't, and maybe the logistics of the whole situation would just be too overwhelming. And while I trust him to always tell me the truth, I'd always wonder if last night when he didn't come online was he with her, doing all the things we can't do, and that fear would overwhelm me so I wouldn't ask because I would be too afraid of the answer, so I would always wonder.

I just can't do that to myself. It would just mean a lot of ugly, a lot of icky emotional outbursts, and a lot of hurt for one night of possible fun.

Of course the other option is for me to pick some one up here and drag her to Ireland with me, but then we're stuck with her the whole time I'm there. Again, cuts into MY time.

Then, I might just have issues. But at least I am upfront with them.

 

[StrayKat]

You're looking for a dominant woman for women -- already a little less common than not-- who doesn't mind sharing with some dude.

*raises hand*

Being in swinger crowd for years I got into few such situations, even had, unfortunately short, relationship with one lovely lady and her boyfriend.
But I am past doing anything online so I would not apply. Just mentioning it is possible, maybe even not so rare as it may look at first.

 

[kimuk]

PM sent

 

[Cattypuss]

slicker than a greased up pig. .

[hijack] Ewwwwww [/hijack]

 

[the captians wench]

[hijack] Ewwwwww [/hijack]

 

[slutforj]

Wow

Thanks everyone for the comments and advice. I didn't realize so many had replied. I am not here very often. We are still looking and I am sure will find someone. From what people wrote, we will be cautious too.

 

[geekmaster24]

I'm a submissive female, 41, and my lover wants to share me with another woman. He knows I have thought about being with other women for many years. He loves my submissiveness and wants to hold me while another woman plays with me. He's long distance right now, and I'm a little scared about this (though very excited) so we may begin with him and me, and the other woman by phone. Or pics or whatever works.

I'm posting this in case anyone here has had experience with this. I don't mean just a threesome. I mean a sub female like me, who's not been with a woman, and being shared with another woman by her Master.

I don't know how this will feel to me. Or whether there should be any rules for this. Or how another woman would feel about this.

Especially if any women have advice about this, or interest, please send me a message or email and let me know.

Thank you so much

sub sara

You know if you are scared of it maybe you should talk to him if you have not just to let him know of your insecurities on the subject.